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071676 User ID: 19545845  United States07/14/2012 08:09 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | How does one eliminate sexual desire? I find that it's one thing which is getting in the way of my spiritual growth and if I could eliminate that desire, I would be free to do my life's work unburdened. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 290624 To be honest, all I have to do is look at a picture of my wife naked. Worked for years. If she gets in the mood, then I show one of me naked. She use to ask me if I looked at porn. I told her no, asking why would I want to get sexually excited when she was my only outlet. Onaism is still a sin, isn't it? |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 19738829 07/17/2012 02:34 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | How does one eliminate sexual desire? I find that it's one thing which is getting in the way of my spiritual growth and if I could eliminate that desire, I would be free to do my life's work unburdened. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 290624 To be honest, all I have to do is look at a picture of my wife naked. Worked for years. If she gets in the mood, then I show one of me naked. She use to ask me if I looked at porn. I told her no, asking why would I want to get sexually excited when she was my only outlet. Onaism is still a sin, isn't it? How does one eliminate sexual desire? I find that it's one thing which is getting in the way of my spiritual growth and if I could eliminate that desire, I would be free to do my life's work unburdened. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 290624 To be honest, all I have to do is look at a picture of my wife naked. Worked for years. If she gets in the mood, then I show one of me naked. She use to ask me if I looked at porn. I told her no, asking why would I want to get sexually excited when she was my only outlet. Onaism is still a sin, isn't it? HOw noble you are! but Still if I had wife and we do that, I don't want picture fell in a wrong hand, you know. LOL |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 25671016  Spain10/16/2012 06:06 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | sexual energy is something that can be handled in four general ways: Quoting: Anonymous Coward 232837 1- embrace it with reckless abandon and self indulgence. this choice causes the desire to increase and it then becomes more and more important to you . in this, you become less and less in control of your self, your mind, your emotions, and your life.... 2- enjoy it at times as a release and a time of sharing with another human, while not pushing it past 'normal' parameters. ie. doing anything possible to make it more and more intense...(this leads to mental and emotional imbalances) 3- resist the urges and deny them. (this leads to emotional and mental imbalances) 4- in the early mornings, sit still in an upright cross legged position. breathe in deeply and slowly and let the breath out evenly and slowly while LETTING the energy pass THROUGH YOU... This will take much repetition and practice to be able to 'let it go' probably 30 days of doing this every day for 1 solid hr at the same time each day...but the result will be an empowering that is incomprehensible! You will be one in a hundred million that truly is seeking the path of non attachment to the illusory inducements. In this you will find FREEDOM and a clear mind that you never thought possible. 30 days at least or don't even start...it DOES take diligence. anyone that preaches against the fourth option is a robot, controlled by insanity (uncleanness)...a parasite infested human. all four lead you to the lake of fire. Next!.. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 25460442  Thailand10/16/2012 06:13 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Michael_ User ID: 1805432  Denmark10/16/2012 06:21 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | focus that energy up your spine when a pretty girl gets you goin. kundalini and that type of thing... Quoting: motox i wish i had a clue what people were talking about with this.. do you know what chakras are? if not, they are energy centers in your body, most go by the practice of 7, like pearls on a string throughout your body, starting at the base of your spine and ending at the top of your head. when the sexual desire is really strong, you can try visualising that all the energy is at the bottom or base chakra, then try to visualise you moving the energy upwards. you don't have to believe in chakras for this method, you just have to try imagine that you move the feeling or energy from the point where you feel it, to the stomach area and above. I don't think there is reason to castrate yourself, the sex drive is like any of the other urgers we have, they are natural but can be controlled with practice. An important part of spirituality is understanding yourself and your body completely. Last Edited by Michael_ on 10/16/2012 06:24 AM |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 300884  Sweden10/16/2012 07:07 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | sexual energy is something that can be handled in four general ways: Quoting: Anonymous Coward 232837 1- embrace it with reckless abandon and self indulgence. this choice causes the desire to increase and it then becomes more and more important to you . in this, you become less and less in control of your self, your mind, your emotions, and your life.... 2- enjoy it at times as a release and a time of sharing with another human, while not pushing it past 'normal' parameters. ie. doing anything possible to make it more and more intense...(this leads to mental and emotional imbalances) 3- resist the urges and deny them. (this leads to emotional and mental imbalances) 4- in the early mornings, sit still in an upright cross legged position. breathe in deeply and slowly and let the breath out evenly and slowly while LETTING the energy pass THROUGH YOU... This will take much repetition and practice to be able to 'let it go' probably 30 days of doing this every day for 1 solid hr at the same time each day...but the result will be an empowering that is incomprehensible! You will be one in a hundred million that truly is seeking the path of non attachment to the illusory inducements. In this you will find FREEDOM and a clear mind that you never thought possible. 30 days at least or don't even start...it DOES take diligence. anyone that preaches against the fourth option is a robot, controlled by insanity (uncleanness)...a parasite infested human. all four lead you to the lake of fire. Next!.. lol Christians! |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 25674161  United Kingdom10/16/2012 07:33 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I have been working at retaining the essence for nearly 20 years and find that the gate must be placed at the mind where the thoughts begin. Once the thought has began it triggers the physical so better to stop the energy at that point. I did have many books on the subject and gave them away as I found using simple method of using the stop gate for the thought and sensible no touching where the little man might stand up and ask for attention. Saving the essence extends the life and keeps one looking much younger. I am more than 65 but can easily pass for late thirties. Young girls are attracted to me so I have to be aware of where I go as that can be a temptation. Recently i took a flight for 12 hours and sat with a young girl with a baby and she looked into my eyes and said that she would love a massage when we get there. I chose not to answer and kept to my path. I do understand that there is substantial reward ahead for keeping to oneself. Other may have a different path, I only know what is for me. |
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| christ is the light User ID: 1490687 United Kingdom01/13/2013 06:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Meditation is a good way ... Everytime u get the urge just sit down on the floor in a dim lit place and just thing about christ and let the holy spirit take sin from ur mind and feel the freshness ... At first it might take time but u'll learn to control it .. It worked for me |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 26616524 Thailand01/13/2013 11:01 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | NUMBER 1----you don't need to be rid of sexual desire, it is totally normal and does not detract from spirituality. That has been a myth propagated by some sages---not true. If you really want to slow sex drive just don't allow imagination to hold sway over your attention. Read 'Nonduality'= you are already perfect! You don't achieve enlightenment for yourself it is from yourself, which you already are! There are no separate entities so ask yourself "who needs to abandon sexual desire"? Besides, the desires drop away by themselves when you give them no energy (attention). |
