Is Getting A BJ Cheating?

eh, just a whore i guess but i am faithful to her. i'd pretty much be down with whatever if it ever came up though...lol i'm thinking i can get another chick involved even though she denies wanting to, i'm pretty sure she does, so that will rock.

yes it is cheating... and you were certainly out of line indulging in sexual pleasures with someone outside of your relationship especially if you were not drunk you would not have done it because of the agreement you have with the other party within the relationship

You need to put the crackpipe down and listen. When two people are in a committed relationship this implies that they will be COMMITTED to each other, not get pleasure from another source. If you can't totally trust your lover/friend/partner in life who can you trust? All that crap about "valuing the relationship" goes out the window when you cheat, and any woman or man that tolerates a mate who goes elsewhere for satisfaction is a doormat. I'm a man and have had ample opportunity to cheat on my spouse, but I am committed to her and my kids and would never put them through something like that. Getting a blowjob from another woman is the same as having sex with her, plain and simple.

probably for the best

hahahahaha

yes, it's cheating

HEY ASSHOLE!

Did you wife find out or otherwise catch you?

Did you stupidly "confess" to clear you own guilt at someone else expense?

If either answer to the above questions happens to be "YES" then I have no sympathy for you what-so-ever!

If you're dumb enough to a.) get caught or b.) confess then you don't deserve to have a dick! How could one male be that stupid?

If the girl told the wife about it, then for heaven's sake, just lie about it! Don't admit to ANYTHING even if they have you on Video! (You were drugged by secret agents or something!)

I feel like if you cant say it do it eat it or otherwise play it all as if you were right then in front of your wife it's cheating

if you are down with your wife getting head, you should have discussed that with her first.

cause then youd be all swingers n shit, and at least there'd be no lies.

The only real difference between your partner and EVERYONE else on the planet is that you and your partner fulfill certain physical and emotional needs with each other.

If you either fulfill any of these needs from someone else or fulfill them for someone else...it's CHEATING.

Yes it is cheating... Another 'good thing' ruined by booze.

Tell your 'brother' that he should stop drinking.. It's this kind of shit that leads to far more trouble. And it's easier to push away the drunken trollops...

As for lying & whatnot, it's easier on your mind if you don't have to lie. Besides a chance to say you've turned down some ass will no doubt get you some awesome reward sex....

But now you're jerking off manually.


Cold.

and alone.

>_<

bah! i wish i'd never met women, personally. eunuchs have it easy, lol

Then you'd never know what it feels like to hold someone as they convulsed after a powerful orgasm, and what it feels like to hold & caress them as they fall into a deep and peaceful sleep....

I pity any person that has only had sex, but never made love.

i have the dress, its still there. although alot less than I would have expected from a president.

If you're doing it right, you can make a woman have an intense orgasm 9 out of 10 times you have sex and I know what you mean about cuddling a woman. Feels good. You also forgot to mention looking at the faces a woman makes as you pleasure her--sometimes pain, sometimes ecstasy.

absolutely, it's cheating! have you no morals?

If you think that your wife getting drunk and having a man eat her isn't cheating.

Naughty, Naughty....YEP...IT SURE IS!...

yes, unless your giving it to yourself, then its a miracle!

... well, lol, yes... and that is unless there's some sorta pre-agreed arrangement involved... is there?

it's not cheating if you wear/wore a condom.

"my penis was not in her mouth".

Yup, it's cheating.

Quit trying to justify it, and own up to it.

Gooderboy hit it right on the head (pun intended).
Each relationship has its own "rules". If you broke 'em, you cheated.
Nuff Said.
-pdb

Some of you "boys" on here could learn a thing or two from LouisWinthropeIII.
With time and experience...you'll get it.

Tell her the chick that gave you head is willing to give her head. Then you guys can be even and go on with your lives.

First imagine it ws impossible to lie...... Every moment must be met with the Truth the whole Truth and nothing but the Truth. The moment the truth hurts something has done something wrong, perhaps even the one who is hurt by the truth....... Cheating would imply you received something which you were not entitled to..... So did he feel that he was entitled to that BJ?

Fidelity is important. You can feel the need for it deep in your core. There is more to it than jealousy. We want to believe the best about the other. Every moral failure is a betrayal of that.

Drunk is no excuse.

"To err is human, to forgive, divine!" (who said that?)

It depends on what is, is.

In My book, a Stolen Kiss is a No-No!


That being stated...

I prefer Women myself.

;)

There's Morality,Reality & fantasy & Beyond beyond.

Most definitely cheating unless your girlfriend gave prior consent. If she thinks its cheating then it is. I'd personally never touch or trust you again. Can we all say HERPES!