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Father given jail time for spanking 16-year-old daughter
I have mixed feelings on spanking, but jail time? ETA: "Spanking" a 16 yo does seem...odd...is there more to this story somewhere?

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Father given jail time for spanking 16-year-old daughter

Associated Press
Sunday, February 3, 2008

MCMINNVILLE, Tenn. -- A McMinnville judge has ordered a father to serve jail time for spanking his 16-year-old daughter.

John T. Cox was found guilty Friday by Judge Bratton Cook on the charge of domestic assault following his second hearing in two weeks.

His first hearing before General Sessions Judge Larry Ross ended in a mistrial after Cox revealed Ross' wife was his attorney for his divorce, and the judge recused himself.

Cox was ordered to serve two days of an 11-month, 29-day sentence and attend anger management classes.

He was also ordered not to spank or physically correct his daughter when he has visitation.

Cox was charged after his daughter reported he had spanked her during a confrontation between the two, sparked by a disagreement the daughter had with her father's girlfriend.
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This to me is exactly why kids are able to get away with so much today. The parents are afraid to discipline them, for fear of getting in trouble for it like this guy has.
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pics??
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Re: Father given jail time for spanking 16-year-old daughter
At any rate, I think 16 is too old for spanking. If your child hasn't learned by then, a spanking isn't going to be much help.
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yeah Nic, thats too weird
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In this day and age I'm surprised he wasn't charged for a sex crime...
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In this day and age I'm surprised he wasn't charged for a sex crime...
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That was my first thought.
"As nightfall does not come at once, neither does oppression. In both instances there is a twilight where everything remains seemingly unchanged. And it is in such twilight that we all must be aware of change in the air--however slight--lest we become unwitting victims of the darkness."
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"There are three kinds of intelligence: one kind understands things for itself, the other appreciates what others can understand, the third understands neither for itself nor through others. This first is excellent, the second good, and the third useless."
--Niccolò Machiavelli

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And miles to go before I sleep"
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Re: Father given jail time for spanking 16-year-old daughter
At any rate, I think 16 is too old for spanking. If your child hasn't learned by then, a spanking isn't going to be much help.
 Quoting: Niccolò


I agree, I gave spankings to my son, by but the time he was 6, there was no more need. As a single mom raising a son, a look was all I needed.
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A father shouldn't be spanking a 16-year old daughter.

That's just creepy.

And you punish a 16-year old by taking away privileges. Physical punishment at that age is moot, unless you're beating them.

Which, once again, is wrong.
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A father shouldn't be spanking a 16-year old daughter.

That's just creepy.

And you punish a 16-year old by taking away privileges. Physical punishment at that age is moot, unless you're beating them.

Which, once again, is wrong.
 Quoting: TexasT


Good point, at that age, you can do more damage really by taking things away then by hitting them.
No one is perfect. A babe before walking will first stumble and fall many times but NEVER gives up until he succeeds.

Always remember, ultimately, to never follow any person's belief. Your relationship with God is between you and God.

If nothing else, remember this: religion = subservience, control and conformity, the same template as EVERY government

"Most believers would kill truth if truth threatened their religion." L. K. Washburn

"This crime called blasphemy was invented by priests for the purpose of defending doctrines not able to take care of themselves." Robert Ingersoll

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Re: Father given jail time for spanking 16-year-old daughter
He should have imposed sanctions and cut off her internet instead.
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In this day and age I'm surprised he wasn't charged for a sex crime...
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Bingo. But at 11 mo 29 days he might as well have been.
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Re: Father given jail time for spanking 16-year-old daughter
Spanking a 16 yr old girl? Sounds like this father should be arrested for molestation.
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Re: Father given jail time for spanking 16-year-old daughter
Wow, did daddy get wood from spanking her?
just sayin...that's a serious jail sentence...
oh, and the judge and the mother have a "relationship"?
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Cox revealed
beavis Whoa, he said Cox reavealed!
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Re: Father given jail time for spanking 16-year-old daughter
This is exctally why teenagers are killing teenagers. They have no fear of their parents punishment. This had nothing to do with her age. It was because he used physical force in punishing her.

We were not there to see what led to his spanking his daughter and how much spanking was done. Shoot as far as the article says there was nothing mentioned except that he spanked her. He could have just popped her once on the behind but that consituted physical punishment(spanking).

All this did was to further teach the children that it's ok to disrespect an adult, you won't get punished. He may have said he was taking away her priviledges and she may have argued even more to the point the father was left with nothing more to do than to smack her behind to remind her he was the adult in charge and not her.

Keep making excuses and approving this type of punishment to parents who try to decipline their children and your going to see more kids who have NO RESPECT for authority. And then you can go about your bitching when you come across a illmannered child who has no respect for you and calls you obscene names just because you asked them to please get off your car. And then try to blame their parents for not parenting correctly. Well doh, they can't without going to jail for trying.

I'm not saying brutality is acceptable. But a good swift smack on the ass is not brutal it's sometimes necessary. We've lost a generation here people and if we don't put a stop to it soon you might as well just dig your grave and jump in it, because this is the generation who will be in charge when your old, and they won't have any respect for their elders to give a shit about you at all.

Child abuse is a crime, but one smack on the ass isn't abuse. Its repeated beating on a child because you've lost your temper that is abusive.
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what is strange is how nanny state intervenes.

After generations of Australian's not being allowed to discipline their children the state has now introduced several laws that simple politeness taught at home would have covered.

If you don't stand up for little old ladies on buses you get a fine.

Has that been their idea all along. Take away the parents rights to tell the kids right from wrong and then make money for the state on correctional measures.
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I am the girls mother in this story. Since the media is leaving out the details of the story I feel it is my duty to make the public aware of the truth in this case. This man is a child abuser, a wife abuser. He has a history of child and spousal abuse, as well as animal abuse.
What you aren't being told by the media is how he left bruises and his hand prints on her thigh for over 8 days before they finally began to fade away! You aren't being told how the police officer went and called the dept. of children's services himself, the school nurse as well. You aren't being told how my daughter couldn't sit due to pain, she was limping, and her pants touching her leg was very painful for her.
You aren't being told that she was sitting in the floor and 'daddy' sat on top of her and hit her at least 20-30 times!
You aren't being told by the media that this father accused said daughter of doing this to herself; that she was 'coming after him'!!
Typical response of an abuser!
I want the world to know, the people to know the truth.
This man was found guilty of DOMESTIC ASSAULT here. Some of you can't get past the word spanking. This word is being used for a knee jerk reaction from the public!
Think before you write such horrible things about my daughter.
She is the innocent victim here and 2 days in jail is nowhere near enough time for this jerk off!
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I am the girls mother in this story. Since the media is leaving out the details of the story I feel it is my duty to make the public aware of the truth in this case. This man is a child abuser, a wife abuser. He has a history of child and spousal abuse, as well as animal abuse.
What you aren't being told by the media is how he left bruises and his hand prints on her thigh for over 8 days before they finally began to fade away! You aren't being told how the police officer went and called the dept. of children's services himself, the school nurse as well. You aren't being told how my daughter couldn't sit due to pain, she was limping, and her pants touching her leg was very painful for her.
You aren't being told that she was sitting in the floor and 'daddy' sat on top of her and hit her at least 20-30 times!
You aren't being told by the media that this father accused said daughter of doing this to herself; that she was 'coming after him'!!
Typical response of an abuser!
I want the world to know, the people to know the truth.
This man was found guilty of DOMESTIC ASSAULT here. Some of you can't get past the word spanking. This word is being used for a knee jerk reaction from the public!
Think before you write such horrible things about my daughter.
She is the innocent victim here and 2 days in jail is nowhere near enough time for this jerk off!
 Quoting: protecting.mother


You
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A father shouldn't be spanking a 16-year old daughter.

That's just creepy.

And you punish a 16-year old by taking away privileges. Physical punishment at that age is moot, unless you're beating them.

Which, once again, is wrong.
 Quoting: TexasT


Im guessing you dont have a smart ass 16 yr old daughter.

Here is a novel idea.
Mind your own fucking business.
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Re: Father given jail time for spanking 16-year-old daughter
I am the girls mother in this story. Since the media is leaving out the details of the story I feel it is my duty to make the public aware of the truth in this case. This man is a child abuser, a wife abuser. He has a history of child and spousal abuse, as well as animal abuse.
What you aren't being told by the media is how he left bruises and his hand prints on her thigh for over 8 days before they finally began to fade away! You aren't being told how the police officer went and called the dept. of children's services himself, the school nurse as well. You aren't being told how my daughter couldn't sit due to pain, she was limping, and her pants touching her leg was very painful for her.
You aren't being told that she was sitting in the floor and 'daddy' sat on top of her and hit her at least 20-30 times!
You aren't being told by the media that this father accused said daughter of doing this to herself; that she was 'coming after him'!!
Typical response of an abuser!
I want the world to know, the people to know the truth.
This man was found guilty of DOMESTIC ASSAULT here. Some of you can't get past the word spanking. This word is being used for a knee jerk reaction from the public!
Think before you write such horrible things about my daughter.
She is the innocent victim here and 2 days in jail is nowhere near enough time for this jerk off!
 Quoting: protecting.mother

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This story is beyond creepy.
Any father with a conscience or brain isn't hitting a sixteen year old girl, whether his daughter or not.
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This story is beyond creepy.
Any father with a conscience or brain isn't hitting a sixteen year old girl, whether his daughter or not.
-pdb
 Quoting: psychodogbitch

Words of wisdom from 'psychodogbitch?

Pardon me while I throw up.
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This story is beyond creepy.
Any father with a conscience or brain isn't hitting a sixteen year old girl, whether his daughter or not.
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Words of wisdom from 'psychodogbitch?

Pardon me while I throw up.
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May you gag on your own vomit.
I know sick when I see it.
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Re: Father given jail time for spanking 16-year-old daughter
Now when they say spanked, do they mean spanked like....bend them over your lap and hand-to-ass spank?

Who does that? That's so....weird....and lame.

Use the belt, the wooden spoon, use...something jeez.
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You
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Lying

:)




I am not. My first reaction is to get angry at this accusation, but eh, I know the truth, it's MY life and
the truth ALWAYS comes out.

Believe everything the media throws your way eh?

Sheeple much?
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Sorry but these two girls Thread: 2 White Teenage Girls Rob a Girl Scout in Broad Daylight

need their asses beat.
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You
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I am not. My first reaction is to get angry at this accusation, but eh, I know the truth, it's MY life and
the truth ALWAYS comes out.

Believe everything the media throws your way eh?

Sheeple much?
 Quoting: protecting.mother


For you to actually expect us to believe that you are the mother of that girl is pretty insane, and it underestimates our intelligence.

I find that offensive and in part, I find you offensive.
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This story is beyond creepy.
Any father with a conscience or brain isn't hitting a sixteen year old girl, whether his daughter or not.
-pdb

Words of wisdom from 'psychodogbitch?

Pardon me while I throw up.


May you gag on your own vomit.
I know sick when I see it.
-pdb
 Quoting: psychodogbitch

Spare the rod, spoil the child.

While im choking on my vomit, you can scratch you own head and try and figure out why your own daughters turned out like this:
Thread: 2 White Teenage Girls Rob a Girl Scout in Broad Daylight

If you want to raise little hooligans, by all means go ahead.
Once they grow up, with no sence of cause vs effect, and end up behind bars, you can feel good about yourself that you had no part in her discipline.
After all, thats what the state is for right?

You really are psyco arent you?
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You
Are
Lying

:)




I am not. My first reaction is to get angry at this accusation, but eh, I know the truth, it's MY life and
the truth ALWAYS comes out.

Believe everything the media throws your way eh?

Sheeple much?


For you to actually expect us to believe that you are the mother of that girl is pretty insane, and it underestimates our intelligence.

I find that offensive and in part, I find you offensive.
 Quoting: GLPGoddess



Why would you not believe I am her mother? You don't know me and you sit there and automatically ASSume things about me that you don't know. You automatically call ME a liar.
I am her mother. I am not a troll. I am a real person.
My name is Julie Cox, I live in McMinnville, TN.
You find me offensive? I find you offensive for finding me offensive...
Also name calling isn't a very intelligent form of communcation to begin with. =D

If you want the real truth I am here to give it.
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Corporal punishment of teenager -just does not seem right. I also think this story is a bit weird in that the Judge's wife was his lawyer.
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