It's very hard to write about something so private...
but what people have written is true...I feel more love and respect for him than anyone else I've ever known...

It's pretty insane to try to describe this rationally...
and I feel that he is the only one that has ever really seen me for who I am.

So from this perspective, it's the blessing of a lifetime. You will never find anything else this deep and this honest.

But don't accrue bad karma for this. End your marriage and then be with him/her. You're already with them in spirit, no matter the distance.