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My Wife Hates Me

 
Anonymous Coward
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04/19/2008 10:35 PM
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My Wife Hates Me
Why do women hate men.Never had a problem when I was single>They loved me.I got married 17 years ago and she immediately turned int the bitch from hell.I have supported her and have 3 beautiful children from her,but she is bitchy and unloving to us all.I don't get it,but i hang on.
Anonymous Coward
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04/19/2008 10:36 PM
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join the club.
Summer Sun
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04/19/2008 10:39 PM
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Why bother to hang in there, very destructive for all concerned.
Anonymous Coward
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04/19/2008 10:40 PM
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Women know they can't attract a man if they act bitchy from the start , so they lay on the sweet stuff until the ring is on the finger . Once that happens they become the boss and they never let you forget it .
Anonymous Coward
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04/19/2008 10:43 PM
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Why do women hate men.Never had a problem when I was single>They loved me.I got married 17 years ago and she immediately turned int the bitch from hell.I have supported her and have 3 beautiful children from her,but she is bitchy and unloving to us all.I don't get it,but i hang on.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 419047

can't believe it happened overnight unless she caught you cheating on her (emotionally/mentally and not necessarily physically). would explain it. what sort of things do you do just to make her days happy?
Anonymous Coward
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04/19/2008 10:44 PM
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Why bother to hang in there, very destructive for all concerned.
 Quoting: Summer Sun 419507


good advice. don't make the same mistake i did and wait until it nearly kills you from the stress, frustration and isolation.

Move on
Anonymous Coward
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04/19/2008 10:45 PM
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Some one needs to invent double ended underwear.
Anonymous Coward
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04/19/2008 10:45 PM
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I hear ya brother... reminds me of a joke, and why they may be bitchy
When God saw that adam was bored he decided to give him a mate, God ran this by Adam and Adam thought great... But God told Adam I will need to take an ear, an eye, a kidney, a arm and a leg... Adam thought for a moment, geezzz that's a lot... so he asked God... what can I get for a rib?
Al
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04/19/2008 10:48 PM
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Dump the bitch emotionally from your memory banks, but stay physically there next to her in your home. And don't let her trap you again. Be strong, and chin up old man.
smtwngrl33

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04/19/2008 10:48 PM
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Women know they can't attract a man if they act bitchy from the start , so they lay on the sweet stuff until the ring is on the finger . Once that happens they become the boss and they never let you forget it .
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 397538


I agree that happens quite often...but I think the men change, too.
hardboiledheretic

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04/19/2008 10:49 PM
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Unfortunately, that is the classic stuff of marriage, OP.

Having no idea what your situation is like, I would ask you, do you both work? And if so, does she still do all the cleaning and possible cooking and child raising, if there are children?

If you answered yes to any of the above, I would ask you, do you help her at home? If not, bingo.

Of course this is only one theory. But if the woman is working full time and dealing with taking care of you, kids and home, there is no time left for her and she is exhausted and (perhaps unconsciously) resentful.

Communication is a must! And without attitude or anger. Remember the love.

Good luck OP!


hbh
Mr. Predictor

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04/19/2008 10:50 PM
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why, oh why did you reproduce with her ???
:6473madburger:

"The inherent vice of capitalism is the unequal sharing of blessings; the inherent virtue of socialism is the equal sharing of miseries." - Winston Churchill
Anonymous Coward
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04/19/2008 10:51 PM
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Just build your own room in the basement and pretend that she is your sister instead. find some hobbies to keep you busy..Ham Radio or something,, and stay away from women! They are a nasty companion, but OK as a distant family member!
Anonymous Coward
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04/19/2008 10:51 PM
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Yea my wife told me to go out by myself today. I had a great day without her. Relaxed, went to the park on the harbor, ate some health food and most importantly of all I didn't have to hear her bitch about how she doesn't want to do this or that, eat this or that, sit here or there. She's got so many damn rules about everything I am sick and tired of it all.
Join the club dude!
picesnator

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04/19/2008 10:55 PM
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try shaving your nuts
Anonymous Coward
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04/19/2008 10:56 PM
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have a heart felt talk with her and tell her if it continues you are on your way and tell her you are sorry for saying it before you do actually say it.or else the next time she starts bitching tell her your horny one of two things will happen she will either shut up or she will give you some
Anonymous Coward
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04/19/2008 10:58 PM
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Why don't you guys just "choose" to be gay?

Why put up with all the "heterosexual" crap?

5a
Anonymous Coward
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04/19/2008 11:00 PM
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I feel for ya, bro. Several times I was in a relationship and caught just the faintest *flicker* of what you describe, and my gut instinct told me this was just the tip of the iceberg, that it would become greatly magnified if I made the mistake of marrying her. So single I remain.
smtwngrl33

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04/19/2008 11:05 PM
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I feel for ya, bro. Several times I was in a relationship and caught just the faintest *flicker* of what you describe, and my gut instinct told me this was just the tip of the iceberg, that it would become greatly magnified if I made the mistake of marrying her. So single I remain.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 106431


SMART!!! There's nothing wrong with being single. When the right one comes along..you will know it.
Arcaneshift
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04/19/2008 11:05 PM
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join the club.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 419508

Most Women in my experience want to talk ,it
's about time you shut up and listened and with more than your ears !!!!! they do have hearts.
Anonymous Coward
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04/19/2008 11:07 PM
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try shaving your nuts
 Quoting: picesnator

lol charlie
Anonymous Coward
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04/19/2008 11:08 PM
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perhaps it is not you she hates

perhaps it is how her life has turned out

what were her hopes and dreams when you first met?

did she get a chance to follow any of them?
Mr. Predictor

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04/19/2008 11:08 PM
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try shaving your nuts
 Quoting: picesnator


sounds like you need to shave her nuts
:6473madburger:

"The inherent vice of capitalism is the unequal sharing of blessings; the inherent virtue of socialism is the equal sharing of miseries." - Winston Churchill
Anonymous Coward
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04/19/2008 11:10 PM
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A fine women is a fine women
but a fine cigar is a great smoke.
Anonymous Coward
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04/19/2008 11:14 PM
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try shaving your nuts


sounds like you need to shave her nuts
 Quoting: Mr. Predictor



Beat her at her own game and sprout a pair yourself.
Anonymous Coward
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04/19/2008 11:16 PM
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A fine women is a fine women
but a fine cigar is a great smoke.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 419510

And I prefer the cigar.
Anonymous Coward
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04/19/2008 11:17 PM
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Why bother to hang in there, very destructive for all concerned.


good advice. don't make the same mistake i did and wait until it nearly kills you from the stress, frustration and isolation.

Move on
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 404286


My wife and I seperated for 1.5 years. We're back together now but I think it was necessary for us to seperate at the time (situation was much like OP's).
Now we appreciate each other a little more. Yes we do have kids and it was hard but things are a lot better for us now.

Oh, and I also have my own bedroom in the basement she's got hers upstairs.
Anonymous Coward
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04/19/2008 11:22 PM
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Why do women hate men.Never had a problem when I was single>They loved me.I got married 17 years ago and she immediately turned int the bitch from hell.I have supported her and have 3 beautiful children from her,but she is bitchy and unloving to us all.I don't get it,but i hang on.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 419047

Why do women hate men?
My sister, with whom I get on really well, explained it to me once.
"If we have babies our lives turn into a messy nightmare. if we don't we turn into bitter hormonal bitches. We're fucked either way. You men....."
It's envy.
Women don't really enjoy life much without it being hugley complicated and emotionally daramatic, but we men just have simple needs and pleasures.
So they have to make our lives as shitty and fucked up as their's are... because that way they can enjoy the mutual pain.
smtwngrl33

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04/19/2008 11:32 PM
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Why bother to hang in there, very destructive for all concerned.


good advice. don't make the same mistake i did and wait until it nearly kills you from the stress, frustration and isolation.

Move on


My wife and I seperated for 1.5 years. We're back together now but I think it was necessary for us to seperate at the time (situation was much like OP's).
Now we appreciate each other a little more. Yes we do have kids and it was hard but things are a lot better for us now.

Oh, and I also have my own bedroom in the basement she's got hers upstairs.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 389795


HUH? You are back together, yet you don't sleep in the same bed?
anonymous coward
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04/19/2008 11:33 PM
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Why bother to hang in there, very destructive for all concerned.


good advice. don't make the same mistake i did and wait until it nearly kills you from the stress, frustration and isolation.

Move on


My wife and I seperated for 1.5 years. We're back together now but I think it was necessary for us to seperate at the time (situation was much like OP's).
Now we appreciate each other a little more. Yes we do have kids and it was hard but things are a lot better for us now.

Oh, and I also have my own bedroom in the basement she's got hers upstairs.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 389795


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Separate rooms are out for me. I'm a spoon sleeper. If a womans screw me every night but won't sleep with me, I would get rid of her. (that's never happend)

Falling asleep in someones arms is second on my "must have" list. After being married three times and having other women live with me at other times, I have to have a spoon sleeper.
Enigmatoid

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04/19/2008 11:34 PM

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Women know they can't attract a man if they act bitchy from the start , so they lay on the sweet stuff until the ring is on the finger . Once that happens they become the boss and they never let you forget it .
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 397538

The trick is to let them think they are the boss but in reality you have the upper hand. The art of constructive manipulation maintains civility. While temporarily devious, it allows a timeframe (a day, a week, whatever) where things may be resolved.

My wife has the same level of bitchdom today as she did when we were married. "...they become the boss and they never let you forget it...", does not apply. She thinks
she is the boss, and I'd be a fool to esuage her delusion. hf
The glass is neither half-full nor half-empty. The glass is 2x as big as it needs to be.

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