My Wife Hates Me

SO MANY BULLSHIT comments by men on this thread...there appears to be quite a few mysogynists here...Ive said it before and Ill say it again, its about understanding your partner and committing to keeping the relationship thriving...it DOES NOT happen on its own, nothing, including relationships can survive without nourishment...when a women feels, ignored, used, pushed aside, devalued, misunderstood, etc day after day it grows into resentment, just like it does when men feel those thimgs...this goes for ANY relationship...most people want their relationship to be a walk in the park and if it fails its the partners fault......BULLSHIT...a relationship fails because BOTH people in it failed to keep it nourished...many people are just too clueless and selfish to BE in a relationship.

Damn right, and that is why I'm single. Pussy can only ruin a man. And it all started with eve screwing over adam.

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Why she hates you? And why would a women you have and do love feels free to treat you with less respect that a total stranger? I don't get it. They feel free to say things to their mate that would get their ass kicked by their friends, fired by their employer, and generally just bad manners. Go figure

Well, I hate you too. And I don't even know you.......

yep constructive positive manipulation works well.

Maybe you could arrange a "single car accident" and get a new model.

i think im in love! =)~

god took adams rib, NOT his backbone!

dude...you lost your pimp and and she no longer RESPECTS you.

unless you are very clever, this bitch is toast

Ever since Adam and Eve the men have been blaming women for their own actions.... "she made me do it...it's her fault".

That's where the vicious cycle of blame and self pity begins. When 2 people in a marriage are self centred this is what you get. Both want the other to change. Self righteous and arrogant. Not willing to take responsibility but rather insist the other has to change.

That's what we get for rushing into sex and avoiding getting to know and respect each other first.

+1

You don't beat her enough. Bitches LOVE that shit. They want a man strong enough to beat the shit out of them and if you're not, then they'll bitch and bitch and bitch until you get mad enough to smack the shit out of them, then everything is ok and they're happy again until it's time for the next beating.

Don't forget the beer.

Get a couple of mistresses.
This is the age old tried and tested solution that works.

you are a manipulative piece of swine

That's right! Didn't you ever wonder why women are most attracted to the biggest strongest man in the room? Having the biggest dick is only part of it. The other part is they want a man strong enough to beat the shit out of them. A man strong enough to beat the shit out of a woman is EXCITING to women and if you wimp out on them, they get VERY agitated because they're missing out on the thrill of the beating. Every major religion documents this in their holy texts. This is especially true in the Holy Quran, where it actually tells men that it is their religious duty to beat their wives when they ask for it. Not only does it give women their needed thrill, but also a sense of comfort in her man and a sense of purpose in life. So if the wife is acting like the bitch from hell, it's really the man's fault for not beating her back into submission where she belongs.

Yes, and it's also written in the Holy Quran that if one wife does not make you happy, than you may take another and another until you find one that does.

My wife and I aren't separated but we sleep in separate rooms. We both snore so whomever used to go to bed last would not get any sleep. Separate bedrooms has worked for years now. I sleep in my man cave. Its been good to tell you the truth.

It's not that she does not love you. Once you're married it is different. You both live together and all your flaws come out more apparent. Women are great at hiding their feelings and thoughts and those little things come out when she's mad at you. Due to her feeling what she feels now, it makes her rethink of what she couldn't have done at the time because she felt as if she didnt have the chance, but now she sees the opportunity she did have. Not that she regrets it, it's that she thinks so much that it's causing her to be such manner, which leads to a further lack of communication thus understanding. Women or People in general for the most part live in two lapses of time, which is called regret. It's not healthy because in order to be mentally and spiritually stable and happy one has to live in one. She feels as if though she gave her past and is giving her present for you, which due to her perplexity you do not understand, and she feels you are being inconsiderate and selfish. So you're best bet would be to talk to her, be a man and state the qualities you feel you are lacking, she'll most likely throw a few other cards at you, and if you don't feel as if she is right state your defense of why it is not true, quickly think about why she must be feeling that way. Arguments and the feeling of Separateness are usually due to an imbalance in the foundation of a unity, those include understanding, comprehension, communication, sacrifice, love, compassion, time, commitment, leisure, trust, truth, respect and dedication. There is obviously a lack of. Your job is now to Search, Recognize, Analyze, Plot, Initiate, Deploy, Reach,Change, Finalize and restore balance.....Human kind's greatest battle is love.