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Think about it, she has sucked all those cocks and taken boners in her anus from these guys, and literally gargles their cocksnot and you are such as pussy that you cannot keep her away from other men she used to fuck. They were the alpha males who just used her as a cum dumpster, and you are the beta male who makes a good domesticated man lesbian. Those guys DIDN'T want to be tied down to her, just use her holes to pound day in and day out. Mark my words, she will being licking their stringer wads off her lips very shortly as you get upset and protest to her about these guys, as again the beta male emerges. Dump the whore before she makes you bankrupt.
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My girlfriend will not stop talking to two of her ex boyfriends. We have been together for almost three years and I just found out that she still talks to them,IM's them and hangs out with them. She does not feel the need to tell me when she is engaging in the above captioned activities. She claims that they are only friends. One guy is on his second marriage(they had a relationship on and off for four years)and the other guy is single (they had a relationship for three years). She said she knew them before she knew me so she's not going to stop talking to them or hanging out with them. I have plenty of ex girlfriends that I get along with. I have disclosed to my ex girlfriends that I am in a relationship so it's not a good idea not to talk to them or hang out with them because I don't want to hurt her feelings. Is this normal behavior or is this a red flag? This is driving me nuts.
 Quoting: help 421612


Never, I repeat, NEVER TRUST a girl who is mantaining contact with her ex boyfriends and is reluctant to cease every contact, that's the rule NUMBER 1. She's not giving up on them because "JUST IN CASE".. you know.. I'm not saying she's a whore but sometimes someone does this shit unconsciously, it is a red flag and you should deal with it.
Really, just tell you want her to stop seeing/talking to her exs, if she say no, you know what to do.
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My girlfriend will not stop talking to two of her ex boyfriends. We have been together for almost three years and I just found out that she still talks to them,IM's them and hangs out with them. She does not feel the need to tell me when she is engaging in the above captioned activities. She claims that they are only friends. One guy is on his second marriage(they had a relationship on and off for four years)and the other guy is single (they had a relationship for three years). She said she knew them before she knew me so she's not going to stop talking to them or hanging out with them. I have plenty of ex girlfriends that I get along with. I have disclosed to my ex girlfriends that I am in a relationship so it's not a good idea not to talk to them or hang out with them because I don't want to hurt her feelings. Is this normal behavior or is this a red flag? This is driving me nuts.
 Quoting: help 421612



The fact that this bothers you shows you're insecure. The fact that you had to establish the boundaries with your ex girlfriends shows that you weren't sure that you could remain faithful if you were in touch with them. Which shows you from where your suspicion stems. Ask her to let you know when she sees them, and if you promise not to get upset then at least have the decency to keep that promise.

If she has been open with you about them and their role in her life, then she probably has nothing to feel guilty about.

Have a chat with her, tell her how you feel. Youcan't really control what she does.. She has a past that you were not a part of. You can either be mature and walk forward, or dump her and try find someone better.

But remember this is probably mostly about what you would do, your value system and how you approach the world.

imo,fwiw
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 190075


^^^^^ This person is either a woman or a retard . Dont ever let a woman disrespect you like that. Be a man , tell her you dont like it and to stop it . if she doesnt do it them pack up your shit and leave . BE A MAN
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10/07/2012 02:20 AM
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Re: girlfriend will not give up talking to ex boyfriends
She's still bangin' at least one of 'em. Guranteed.
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yup... I'm sorry =/
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10/07/2012 02:30 AM
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kill her op and then run
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10/07/2012 02:39 AM
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Think about it, she has sucked all those cocks and taken boners in her anus from these guys, and literally gargles their cocksnot and you are such as pussy that you cannot keep her away from other men she used to fuck. They were the alpha males who just used her as a cum dumpster, and you are the beta male who makes a good domesticated man lesbian. Those guys DIDN'T want to be tied down to her, just use her holes to pound day in and day out. Mark my words, she will being licking their stringer wads off her lips very shortly as you get upset and protest to her about these guys, as again the beta male emerges. Dump the whore before she makes you bankrupt.
 Quoting: David Fap




laugh
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 8764951


Too funny. An incredibly honest way to cut out the fancified sugar coating ( top post ). Sadly this would be right, who dumped who? It has been proven ( check the studies ) that there is always one wanting more. If she had dumped them - you prob have no worries of her ever wanting them back, or being there with false reason. If they dumped her ( and guessing they indeed did by the fact you cannot meet them, never mind be out for the " drinks " - chances are they still just get a free use of a joke to them.
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10/07/2012 02:55 AM
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Maybe it means she's a nice person who actually liked her exes although she didnt see longterm with them because she wasnt INLOVE with them. Maybe after you finish doing her damage, with the possessiveness crap, she would like to be your friend too.

Not all relationships are meant to be...it doesnt mean you no longer give a damn...it justs gets put back to friends ONLY mode. They are married and with gf.....so she realises she isnt their best friend..YOU are but you arent acting like it right now.

Unless people get married there is no reason to amalgamate all friends. Are you married? No....so dont expect her to act like you are either.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 350460


Let me clue you in..
Once you have been banging ass you can never get put back to friends only mode.
Speak if you meet in public,etc be pleasant etc but if you have someone else in your life have respect for that person.There is no going back to friends mode as you want to call it.Its called playing games and playing with fire that will ruin your new relationship.
If you couldnt get a long with the person before than let it go it will only keep dooming the future relationships.
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10/07/2012 09:46 AM
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I have asked to meet these two friends. I said hey why don't we get together for lunch/dinner one night. If these people are truly her friends then I can accept that. If they are going to be a part of her life and we are sharing our life together then that's cool. She refused to let me meet them and she never wants to talk about the activities that go on between them. I have a problem with her secrets.
 Quoting: help 421612


u sound very nice.seems to me she doen't appreciate what a good man she has.um it is har enough for a man and a woman to be friends even if they never slept together. if she was involved wt those men for years chances are they had deep feelings for each other and someone or both betrayed those feelings in a major way, hance the brekup. not a very good bases fro friendship, isn't it. in my mind u got good reasons just to ask her never to hang out wt those people, just coz u said so. (yes sometimes in love we do give each other ultimatums and if not too often that is completely acceptable) but seems likem u are confident, understanding man, u offered her to incorporate those people in ur life, and share their friendship, she refused.totally lame of her......frankly, she totally needs to set her priorities straight and star appreciating what a great man she has....
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10/07/2012 09:51 AM
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Think about it, she has sucked all those cocks and taken boners in her anus from these guys, and literally gargles their cocksnot and you are such as pussy that you cannot keep her away from other men she used to fuck. They were the alpha males who just used her as a cum dumpster, and you are the beta male who makes a good domesticated man lesbian. Those guys DIDN'T want to be tied down to her, just use her holes to pound day in and day out. Mark my words, she will being licking their stringer wads off her lips very shortly as you get upset and protest to her about these guys, as again the beta male emerges. Dump the whore before she makes you bankrupt.
 Quoting: David Fap


ur an idiot.and probably a virgin.OP sounds like a real man, which u wldnt know anything about.u need to at least see a girl naked to have some understanding of what it means to be a man.
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10/07/2012 10:00 AM
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I have asked to meet these two friends. I said hey why don't we get together for lunch/dinner one night. If these people are truly her friends then I can accept that. If they are going to be a part of her life and we are sharing our life together then that's cool. She refused to let me meet them and she never wants to talk about the activities that go on between them. I have a problem with her secrets.
 Quoting: help 421612


If that's the case...it's not good. I wouldn't trust her. You sound like a good person, and you can do better. Don't give her an ultimatum between you and them, because she'll just resent you and sneak behind your back.

It will be interesting to see what she does with you after the break-up. It will probably be similar to what she's doing with them.....that's if she continues to be "friends" with you.
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Maybe it means she's a nice person who actually liked her exes although she didnt see longterm with them because she wasnt INLOVE with them. Maybe after you finish doing her damage, with the possessiveness crap, she would like to be your friend too.

Not all relationships are meant to be...it doesnt mean you no longer give a damn...it justs gets put back to friends ONLY mode. They are married and with gf.....so she realises she isnt their best friend..YOU are but you arent acting like it right now.

Unless people get married there is no reason to amalgamate all friends. Are you married? No....so dont expect her to act like you are either.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 350460


Oh, my God!

Are you serious?

Look-rock dweller, the girl is obviously trying to have her cake and eat it too!

What is it about her behavior that you idiots don't get?

She's having a ball-literally!

Unless, you people are a bunch of "sack-heads" you're all just stupid! Or, worse-idealist!

I dated this air-head blonde-babe for awhile. Time after time she busted me with other girls-guess what routine I pulled? You guessed it-the "Hey, those girls-they're just ol' friends-nothing to it!" But, truthfully, I was banging them, left & right! Is that so hard to see through? Even my "thick-as-a-whale" girlfriend eventually figured it out.

So, don't be stupid, dude-dumb the bimbo and move on (before she dumps you-and she will because, no girl is going to want an idiot for a boyfriend!)

Starbug

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This is exactly what's happening. She's fucken em both.

Curb this bitch after you plow her asshole for an hour or two.
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10/07/2012 10:04 AM
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4some?
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10/07/2012 10:07 AM
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Re: girlfriend will not give up talking to ex boyfriends
Save yourself a lot of pain, if she wants to keep in contact with her ex boyfriends let her, if it doesn't suit you then find a girl that doesn't talk to her ex boyfriends.
 Quoting: skymovingcloud


^^^^this^^^^
it may not be respectful of her to continue this behaviour knowing that it upsets you, but it is her life. You do not have the right to censor her behaviour or tell her who she can and can't see. Either you are fine with it, or you ned to leave and find a girl whose behaviour is compatible with your own. Sometimes love isnt enough to sustain a long term relationship. It requires many elements. You can love her, but realize that to be happy you need someone different, and that is ok.
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I went through the same shit once.I finally flipped out and asked her if she even told the motherfuckers how many inches I had?Fuck her,those dudes don't need to know ANYTHING about you, so tell her to go fuck herself NOW!!!!SHE AIN'T WORTH IT!!!!!!
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My girlfriend will not stop talking to two of her ex boyfriends. We have been together for almost three years and I just found out that she still talks to them,IM's them and hangs out with them. She does not feel the need to tell me when she is engaging in the above captioned activities. She claims that they are only friends. One guy is on his second marriage(they had a relationship on and off for four years)and the other guy is single (they had a relationship for three years). She said she knew them before she knew me so she's not going to stop talking to them or hanging out with them. I have plenty of ex girlfriends that I get along with. I have disclosed to my ex girlfriends that I am in a relationship so it's not a good idea not to talk to them or hang out with them because I don't want to hurt her feelings. Is this normal behavior or is this a red flag? This is driving me nuts.
 Quoting: help 421612


Have some respect for yourself because she doesn't have any for you, leave her. Ex's that still talk is always a red flag!
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10/07/2012 10:35 AM

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Dude get out... just leave her... it is more than obvious that she is not committed to the relationship...

You will not change her, or win her over, get out now and go get checked out by a doctor for stds. Yes I m serious..
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if it bothers you now, it'll only get worse. the fact that she's keeping it a secret would eat at me quite a bit, because it means they are "plan b". afterall, why else wouldnt she want to keep you in the loop and introduce you...

the worst part... she'll probably spin it if you confront her. If you make her choose, she'll blame you for being an insecure asshole. If you give in and let her keep the friends as is, then she'll lose respect for you for not being able to stand your ground.

Truth be told, someone else called it right - you came on here to GLP and bitched about your GF - that's not very alpha male of you. You can be an alpha and keep your sex appeal while still being respectful. However, if you become the beta male... it'll probably never last.

I'm still a huge believer that at the relationship level, animal instinct and body chemistry still go a long way.

Were I in your shoes, I'd let her keep the friends. In fact, I'd throw a huge party with all of your "most fun" friends there, and have her invite "those guys". Its your space - your show - your party. Be the man! I'd probably get them drunk just so I could get past the bullshit filters and see what the deal really is, while under the guise of just having a good time.

You're playing office politics... It sucks, but she's either worth the fight, or she isn't, and you need to decide that. For me, I'd rather shame the friends into feeling less than adequate as a partner for her, and I'd do that in a controlled situation - IE my party. These guys need to feel like they can't compete. Then, if they are her friends... they'll really be happy for her. If they just want her still, they'll back off, because its not worth the bother. Just remember, they might really be just friends. Plus... who knows if she previously dating some d-bag who made her get rid of a bunch of friends and that's why she was afraid to tell you.

Or maybe you're that d-bag. We don't know you. Either way, she's either worth a fight or she isn't. At some point you need to do something, otherwise you'll end up single.
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10/07/2012 10:50 AM
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Re: girlfriend will not give up talking to ex boyfriends
The OP posted this 4 years ago. Why is this thread still alive?
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10/07/2012 11:13 AM
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The OP posted this 4 years ago. Why is this thread still alive?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 18961804


Because, secretly, we all wonder if we are fucking insane for wanting to kill every other male on the planet. Or if it just makes sense.

The closest most guys can get pushed to that decision is when you are trying to figure out if your chick is banging another guy. Killing every other male is impractical; killing one she really is just friends with would be wrong. Putting up with her suspicious behavior is intolerable.

Classic conundrum, interplay of biological and societal dictates. This thread could have started with the pyramids and still be valid in the year 10,000.
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10/07/2012 01:32 PM
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Re: girlfriend will not give up talking to ex boyfriends
The OP posted this 4 years ago. Why is this thread still alive?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 18961804


Because, secretly, we all wonder if we are fucking insane for wanting to kill every other male on the planet. Or if it just makes sense.

The closest most guys can get pushed to that decision is when you are trying to figure out if your chick is banging another guy. Killing every other male is impractical; killing one she really is just friends with would be wrong. Putting up with her suspicious behavior is intolerable.

Classic conundrum, interplay of biological and societal dictates. This thread could have started with the pyramids and still be valid in the year 10,000.
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yah, what he said!
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10/25/2012 09:32 PM
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I would have to agree with most of the people on here. Leave her, just cut your losses and go. I may be painful at first, but you will feel so much better later. She doesn't respect you or your relationship, and if you guys are young as I assume you are, then definitely go. My gf talks to her ex but he is the father of their kids. So I don't have a problem, also she knows he doesn't step foot in my house unless I ok it, kids or not, I have a huge set of balls and will fuck him up and then kick her out.
I'd rather die on my feet, then live on my knees.
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oh shit good call, didn't notice this was 4 years old.....hahahaha....well too late, sounds like a puss anyways....probably married her and she cheated on him...
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