girlfriend will not give up talking to ex boyfriends

Never, I repeat, NEVER TRUST a girl who is mantaining contact with her ex boyfriends and is reluctant to cease every contact, that's the rule NUMBER 1. She's not giving up on them because "JUST IN CASE".. you know.. I'm not saying she's a whore but sometimes someone does this shit unconsciously, it is a red flag and you should deal with it.
Really, just tell you want her to stop seeing/talking to her exs, if she say no, you know what to do.

^^^^^ This person is either a woman or a retard . Dont ever let a woman disrespect you like that. Be a man , tell her you dont like it and to stop it . if she doesnt do it them pack up your shit and leave . BE A MAN

yup... I'm sorry =/

kill her op and then run

Too funny. An incredibly honest way to cut out the fancified sugar coating ( top post ). Sadly this would be right, who dumped who? It has been proven ( check the studies ) that there is always one wanting more. If she had dumped them - you prob have no worries of her ever wanting them back, or being there with false reason. If they dumped her ( and guessing they indeed did by the fact you cannot meet them, never mind be out for the " drinks " - chances are they still just get a free use of a joke to them.

Let me clue you in..
Once you have been banging ass you can never get put back to friends only mode.
Speak if you meet in public,etc be pleasant etc but if you have someone else in your life have respect for that person.There is no going back to friends mode as you want to call it.Its called playing games and playing with fire that will ruin your new relationship.
If you couldnt get a long with the person before than let it go it will only keep dooming the future relationships.

u sound very nice.seems to me she doen't appreciate what a good man she has.um it is har enough for a man and a woman to be friends even if they never slept together. if she was involved wt those men for years chances are they had deep feelings for each other and someone or both betrayed those feelings in a major way, hance the brekup. not a very good bases fro friendship, isn't it. in my mind u got good reasons just to ask her never to hang out wt those people, just coz u said so. (yes sometimes in love we do give each other ultimatums and if not too often that is completely acceptable) but seems likem u are confident, understanding man, u offered her to incorporate those people in ur life, and share their friendship, she refused.totally lame of her......frankly, she totally needs to set her priorities straight and star appreciating what a great man she has....

ur an idiot.and probably a virgin.OP sounds like a real man, which u wldnt know anything about.u need to at least see a girl naked to have some understanding of what it means to be a man.

If that's the case...it's not good. I wouldn't trust her. You sound like a good person, and you can do better. Don't give her an ultimatum between you and them, because she'll just resent you and sneak behind your back.

It will be interesting to see what she does with you after the break-up. It will probably be similar to what she's doing with them.....that's if she continues to be "friends" with you.

This is exactly what's happening. She's fucken em both.

Curb this bitch after you plow her asshole for an hour or two.

4some?

^^^^this^^^^
it may not be respectful of her to continue this behaviour knowing that it upsets you, but it is her life. You do not have the right to censor her behaviour or tell her who she can and can't see. Either you are fine with it, or you ned to leave and find a girl whose behaviour is compatible with your own. Sometimes love isnt enough to sustain a long term relationship. It requires many elements. You can love her, but realize that to be happy you need someone different, and that is ok.

I went through the same shit once.I finally flipped out and asked her if she even told the motherfuckers how many inches I had?Fuck her,those dudes don't need to know ANYTHING about you, so tell her to go fuck herself NOW!!!!SHE AIN'T WORTH IT!!!!!!

Have some respect for yourself because she doesn't have any for you, leave her. Ex's that still talk is always a red flag!

Dude get out... just leave her... it is more than obvious that she is not committed to the relationship...

You will not change her, or win her over, get out now and go get checked out by a doctor for stds. Yes I m serious..

if it bothers you now, it'll only get worse. the fact that she's keeping it a secret would eat at me quite a bit, because it means they are "plan b". afterall, why else wouldnt she want to keep you in the loop and introduce you...

the worst part... she'll probably spin it if you confront her. If you make her choose, she'll blame you for being an insecure asshole. If you give in and let her keep the friends as is, then she'll lose respect for you for not being able to stand your ground.

Truth be told, someone else called it right - you came on here to GLP and bitched about your GF - that's not very alpha male of you. You can be an alpha and keep your sex appeal while still being respectful. However, if you become the beta male... it'll probably never last.

I'm still a huge believer that at the relationship level, animal instinct and body chemistry still go a long way.

Were I in your shoes, I'd let her keep the friends. In fact, I'd throw a huge party with all of your "most fun" friends there, and have her invite "those guys". Its your space - your show - your party. Be the man! I'd probably get them drunk just so I could get past the bullshit filters and see what the deal really is, while under the guise of just having a good time.

You're playing office politics... It sucks, but she's either worth the fight, or she isn't, and you need to decide that. For me, I'd rather shame the friends into feeling less than adequate as a partner for her, and I'd do that in a controlled situation - IE my party. These guys need to feel like they can't compete. Then, if they are her friends... they'll really be happy for her. If they just want her still, they'll back off, because its not worth the bother. Just remember, they might really be just friends. Plus... who knows if she previously dating some d-bag who made her get rid of a bunch of friends and that's why she was afraid to tell you.

Or maybe you're that d-bag. We don't know you. Either way, she's either worth a fight or she isn't. At some point you need to do something, otherwise you'll end up single.

The OP posted this 4 years ago. Why is this thread still alive?

Because, secretly, we all wonder if we are fucking insane for wanting to kill every other male on the planet. Or if it just makes sense.

The closest most guys can get pushed to that decision is when you are trying to figure out if your chick is banging another guy. Killing every other male is impractical; killing one she really is just friends with would be wrong. Putting up with her suspicious behavior is intolerable.

Classic conundrum, interplay of biological and societal dictates. This thread could have started with the pyramids and still be valid in the year 10,000.

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I would have to agree with most of the people on here. Leave her, just cut your losses and go. I may be painful at first, but you will feel so much better later. She doesn't respect you or your relationship, and if you guys are young as I assume you are, then definitely go. My gf talks to her ex but he is the father of their kids. So I don't have a problem, also she knows he doesn't step foot in my house unless I ok it, kids or not, I have a huge set of balls and will fuck him up and then kick her out.

oh shit good call, didn't notice this was 4 years old.....hahahaha....well too late, sounds like a puss anyways....probably married her and she cheated on him...

listen you pussy man, fuck her and use that bitch like a toilet after your done, tell her to fuck out of your life.

find another bitch