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Have you ever been cheated on?
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coolhandluke74 
Lone Wolf
User ID: 429719
5/26/2008 8:25 PM
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My question to everyone out there is have you ever been cheated on and if so what did you do?
Did you stay with them or did you leave them?
Resistance is Futile!!!
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malu
User ID: 421073
5/26/2008 8:31 PM
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yes, and each time it was the last time i spoke to her
burn a bridge it is burnt forever
that is just something i would not do
When peaceful revolution becomes impossible, violent revolution becomes inevitable.
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Anonymous Coward
User ID: 357912
5/26/2008 8:39 PM | | Re: Have you ever been cheated on? | Quote |
Yep. I left her sorry ass. She still suffers for it too. |
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Reality is BS
User ID: 413040
5/26/2008 8:42 PM
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Yes and that was the end or a 9 year marriage. Haven't spoken to her more than twice in the last 7 years. |
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picesnator
User ID: 318318
5/26/2008 8:44 PM
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yep....been more than 29 years....and i am still surprised... she did it.... |
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The Anti-Hero
User ID: 378593
5/26/2008 8:52 PM | | Re: Have you ever been cheated on? | Quote |
Before I date a gal, I often ask "Do you know how to disappear?" and after they reply I tell them "If I catch you fucking around you will disappear"
This helps weed out the cheaters usually, but it's about 85% useful.
Needless to say, there have been disappearances. |
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Enaid
User ID: 310721
5/26/2008 8:59 PM
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Yes, when I was young. Broke it off. Joined the military. The guy had the nerve to hunt me down in a different state!!! Told him to f-off - again.
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It makes you lean -- against tables, chairs, floors, walls and ugly people. |
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kublai khan
User ID: 430688
5/26/2008 9:01 PM | | Re: Have you ever been cheated on? | Quote |
Broads have been cheating since the beginning of time. They dont know how to quit....they see a mickey in front of them...they just have to go for it..... i say dont get married...its not worth it....a woman gives you half a marriage and take half of what you own....forget it...Stay the Hell Away from Broads......your live will be much, much easier.... |
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Anonymous Coward
User ID: 272356
5/26/2008 9:01 PM | | Re: Have you ever been cheated on? | Quote |
Does the woman's husband count? Oh, wait- HE should be answering this. Never mind.  |
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Turtles Know
Warning: Turtles Bite
User ID: 406673
5/26/2008 9:08 PM
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Walked in on a boyfriend mid thrust. He was white collar, I was blue collar, after I cleared the room by saying, "You're got 90 seceonds and then I'm going to cause the biggest scene you're ever seen." As a white-bread, white collar guy, he didn't like scenes. The chick grabbed her clothes and ran into the bathroom, after she left, he explained to me that it was business. I stuck around a few weeks after that, but it was never the same, I mean the white collar guy with all his CDs, IRAs and etc, saw it as business, I saw something else, no way it could work.
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malu
User ID: 421073
5/26/2008 9:10 PM
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Walked in on a boyfriend mid thrust. He was white collar, I was blue collar, after I cleared the room by saying, "You're got 90 seceonds and then I'm going to cause the biggest scene you're ever seen." As a white-bread, white collar guy, he didn't like scenes. The chick grabbed her clothes and ran into the bathroom, after she left, he explained to me that it was business. I stuck around a few weeks after that, but it was never the same, I mean the white collar guy with all his CDs, IRAs and etc, saw it as business, I saw something else, no way it could work. Quoting: Turtles Know
you did good
i would have killed a couple of people in a few seconds of blind rage
i am impressed :)
When peaceful revolution becomes impossible, violent revolution becomes inevitable.
"Hard pressed on my right. My center is yielding. Impossible to maneuver. Situation excellent. I am attacking." |
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Anonymous Coward
User ID: 440372
5/26/2008 9:11 PM | | Re: Have you ever been cheated on? | Quote |
yes and I am still with her after she cheated many times, I have a really small dick. I have no choice but to stay with her to get laid. |
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Anonymous Coward
User ID: 440372
5/26/2008 9:13 PM | | Re: Have you ever been cheated on? | Quote |
Or turn gay |
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Anonymous Coward
User ID: 440391
5/26/2008 9:14 PM | | Re: Have you ever been cheated on? | Quote |
Twice. Once in a long-term exclusive relationship - almost engaged. The second time was in a non-exclusive relationship but we had agreement to tell the other so that the other could make the decision to leave or not He saw several someones over six months before I found out.
Both times I left without a trace. No big fight, no fuss, not many words even. The first one got down on his knees and cried for my forgiveness. The second one still shows up at my door to talk but I tell him there is nothing to talk about and there isn't.
Once someone lies to me I don't give them a second chance. The shame is that it takes a long time to get back to trusting other people now.
It sucks. Sometimes I wish I were the cheater and it would be easier. But I'm faithful to a fault I guess. I just think it important in a relationship no matter what the temptations are. It's a matter of respect. |
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Anonymous Coward
User ID: 282587
5/26/2008 9:20 PM | | Re: Have you ever been cheated on? | Quote |
yes, with a LDS man who decided to become polygamist without informing me. I cut him loose. |
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Anonymous Coward
User ID: 439283
5/26/2008 9:50 PM | | Re: Have you ever been cheated on? | Quote |
Or turn gay Quoting: Anonymous Coward 440372
???
erm, whats that?
Is that when you laugh hysterically all the time and hop around with joy?
.... or, did you mean ... "or turn homosexual*?
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coolhandluke74
Lone Wolf
User ID: 429719
5/26/2008 10:07 PM
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So far it seems everyone so far has left the person when they got cheated on.
Has anyone stayed with them and worked it out?
Resistance is Futile!!!
Can't Pm? Feel free to send any questions to al.gore@live.com
[link to coolhandluke1974.mybrute.com]
Fight my brute!!! |
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Anonymous Coward
User ID: 436575
5/26/2008 10:19 PM | | Re: Have you ever been cheated on? | Quote |
So far it seems everyone so far has left the person when they got cheated on.
Has anyone stayed with them and worked it out? Quoting: coolhandluke74
I have been cheated on numerous times over the years, to the point where I almost expected it as standard male behavior. It's a dandy way to end a relationship, although dramatic. I've had some pretty big blow-ups over it, you would have been scared :)
However, there was one guy who cheated two different times, with different women, and both times he had been drinking. Him I kept. We have been together for almost ten years now, and I forgave him because (1) he came straight to me with a tearful confession both times, sobbing and apologizing for his mistake, and (2) I can't seem to find a way to stop loving this guy!
So yes, it can work out, and I trust him more than anyone because he has always been straight up honest with me in every way, even when it was so hard to be. He isn't trying to be with anyone else, and I truly feel in my heart that these were isolated incidents. If I felt otherwise I would probably have to find a way out. |
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Anonymous Coward
User ID: 425444
5/26/2008 10:24 PM | | Re: Have you ever been cheated on? | Quote |
So far it seems everyone so far has left the person when they got cheated on.
Has anyone stayed with them and worked it out? Quoting: coolhandluke74
It works out for a little while, maybe even a few years.
But ultimately, it doesn't work out.
There are deep seated reasons why someone cheats.
For one, they aren't with you for the right reasons, or rather the same reasons as the non-cheater.
And two, it's ultimately not your problem, it will be theirs.
Be ready to move on to healthy relationships & happiness. |
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Anonymous Coward
User ID: 435640
5/26/2008 10:27 PM | | Re: Have you ever been cheated on? | Quote |
IS LOOKING AT DIRTY PICTURES CONSIDERED TO BE CHEATING?? |
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Winningjob
Out of my mind. Back in five minutes.
User ID: 385114
5/26/2008 10:29 PM
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Twice...the one was a psych major from Harvard..go figure! The second one was in Michigan and just a young stupid girl with issues.
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DreamSeeker
User ID: 439120
5/26/2008 10:44 PM
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My exhusband cheated on me. We had a daughter together. she was one year old at the time. For the sake of her, I took him back and it lasted 1 year and 3 months and wouldn't you know, not only did he cheat again, but with the same person. (this girl wasn't even pretty in the least little bit, which still shocks me to this day)
Anyways, the problem is, when you take them back, you can't trust them because the trust is long gone. So, whether you mean to or not, everytime they leave the house, you find yourself questioning them over and over. Trust me, its a horrible way to live. I know I put my ex through pure hell, but what can I say, I didn't trust him.
So, my advice to you is this...I'm not saying that it will never work again, because maybe counseling does help, I wouldn't know. But, it is a horrible way to live once the trust is gone.
To be honest, my questioning him all the time or shall I say "having to question him because I didn't believe him" was a horrible way to live for the both of us.
I wouldn't advise it.
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Anonymous Coward
User ID: 424925
5/26/2008 11:17 PM | | Re: Have you ever been cheated on? | Quote |
My brother cheated with a girl from his office for six months. When the wife found out, she thought about it for a few weeks then left, moving to her mother's house.
8 years later, she changed jobs. She met someone, cheated her ass off and moved in with him a year later. I could see it but bro was in denial until she moved in with the new boyfriend.
Damn near killed him. True he had it comming, but after eight years he thought she was over it. Not.
Leave, you will both be better off.
When trust is gone, love is lost. |
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Anonymous Coward
User ID: 424925
5/26/2008 11:19 PM | | Re: Have you ever been cheated on? | Quote |
Sorry, I left out the part where she moved back after a month because she was lonely. |
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Anonymous Coward
User ID: 362074
5/27/2008 12:08 AM | | Re: Have you ever been cheated on? | Quote |
When trust is gone, love is lost. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 424925 |
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Smerk
User ID: 440454
5/27/2008 12:48 AM | | Re: Have you ever been cheated on? | Quote |
Yes, so I immediately hooked up with her best friend, who ironically was hot as hell, and WAYYYY better than the original girl ever was. It's funny how these things work out, and even though at first I was quite pissed off and somewhat hurt, it all worked out far better than I could have ever imagined, (I almost married her friend) As they say, God never closes one door without opening another. |
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Insomnia
User ID: 440472
5/27/2008 12:57 AM
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IS LOOKING AT DIRTY PICTURES CONSIDERED TO BE CHEATING?? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 435640
i don't think so. i look at dirty pictures and i'm a female and have never once thought it was cheating. i even like looking at other females, i think they are sexy and i consider myself hetero. i've even shown my boyfriends better porn than the crap they had and we looked at it together and i enjoyed watching him get horny over it with me.
every boyfriend i ever had cheated on me. i'm not sure if that's cuz i attract those kinds of guys, or men are just not capable of keeping it in their pants. my belief is that these wonderful guys some women have that claim they would never cheat are just good at not getting caught.
and for the record, i've cheated too. mostly because for a long time i had no concept that my actions might hurt the other person and i figured, if they are gonna do it to me i'm gonna do it to them.
pretty jaded.
probably while i'm still single too. |
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Smerk
User ID: 440454
5/27/2008 1:24 AM | | Re: Have you ever been cheated on? | Quote |
every boyfriend i ever had cheated on me. i'm not sure if that's cuz i attract those kinds of guys, or men are just not capable of keeping it in their pants. my belief is that these wonderful guys some women have that claim they would never cheat are just good at not getting caught.
and for the record, i've cheated too. mostly because for a long time i had no concept that my actions might hurt the other person and i figured, if they are gonna do it to me i'm gonna do it to them.
pretty jaded.
probably while i'm still single too. Quoting: Insomnia
Poor girl, I do feel sorry for you. It must just be the guys you attract. Heaps of guys would never cheat on their girlfriends, and vice-versa. Guess it depends on the social circles you move in, similiar morals, values, etc.. |
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Anonymous Coward
User ID: 419355
5/27/2008 2:18 AM | | Re: Have you ever been cheated on? | Quote |
My 10 year marriage turned sour about year 5. He cheated and I forgave him because I was in love and had made our relationship into a mental fantasy. The cheating signals continued, but I did not want to know.
Then, I saw him undress a woman with his eyes, and I felt like a fool. It took me 2 years to stop loving him and plan my escape. When I left, he was shocked. He thought I would be his dedicated slave/servant forever. Leaving him was the best thing I ever did.
Unfortunately, after he lost his mommy he became a homeless drunk. Last I heard he was living in his car in the desert. His affairs are not as much fun without the devoted wife at home.
I like the single life . . . |
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Anonymous Coward
User ID: 421612
5/27/2008 2:40 AM | | Re: Have you ever been cheated on? | Quote |
I've been cheated on and am no longer with that person. I would never and have never cheated. Cheaters get to live with what they did for the rest of their lives, it haunts them years later. Cheaters also never trust anyone because of what they did. I researched it a lot and realized that most cheaters do it because of their own issues. |
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coolhandluke74
Lone Wolf
User ID: 429719
5/27/2008 3:38 AM
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I've been cheated on and am no longer with that person. I would never and have never cheated. Cheaters get to live with what they did for the rest of their lives, it haunts them years later. Cheaters also never trust anyone because of what they did. I researched it a lot and realized that most cheaters do it because of their own issues. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 421612
Usually what goes around comes around. Eventually cheaters get cheated on and then they realize what they did. Then its too late.
Resistance is Futile!!!
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Fight my brute!!! |
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