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Have you ever been cheated on?
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Anonymous Coward
User ID: 396542
5/27/2008 4:09 AM | | Re: Have you ever been cheated on? | Quote |
First of all i am honest with my self ...I am not a One woman man... and I always tell a women this before i start a sexual relation ship with them...and if she disagrees with that fine...sure...ok .. .what ever... if she leave... even better... you go girl... and if she does decide to start that relationship and she is seen another guy? great awesome wonderful I would never think less of the woman! never...but the last thing want to do is lie to a women and lie to my self... |
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Smerk
User ID: 440454
5/27/2008 4:44 AM | | Re: Have you ever been cheated on? | Quote |
Well, I would have to answer your question with another question,
How many abbadiginals do you see modelling? |
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Anonymous Coward
User ID: 396542
5/27/2008 4:49 AM | | Re: Have you ever been cheated on? | Quote |
well im also not the one to kiss and tell to others |
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Anonymous Coward
User ID: 418352
5/27/2008 5:57 AM | | Re: Have you ever been cheated on? | Quote |
A man is only as faithful as his options |
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AC
User ID: 320717
5/27/2008 7:38 AM | | Re: Have you ever been cheated on? | Quote |
Yes, I was cheated on, and fortunately for me he left me for the other woman. He's her problem now.
And it was solely for money, she's not attractive at all. Fat, divorced, loud, been with all his friends, lots of makeup, with a little kid. I could see how his mind works, he thinks he will quit his job and play all day. But she won't have it. She'll do to him what she did to her husband and the other men, and he has it coming. |
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Sireen-reborn
User ID: 425272
5/27/2008 8:13 AM | | Re: Have you ever been cheated on? | Quote |
I've personally never cheated on a partner, regardless of how shitty the relationship is, and I never busted my man cheating on me, nor was it ever confessed, but there was one occasion where I suspected it was going on and so the sex between he and I stopped...and the relationship ended.
anything after 'but' is bullshit!
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kat 
The #1 Threadkiller
User ID: 437430
5/27/2008 8:25 AM
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The man I have been with for the past three years has a wife, and he goes back and forth between me and her. it is hard to tell who is cheating on who at this point. We have tried to break up every few months or so but it never works. I never imagined I would be in such and ugly situation but here I am. It might be my ultimate test of my humanness. He loves both of us, is guilty that he has fallen in love with another woman, and he wants to be with me. But I go off the deep end and the situation drags on and on.
It is very easy to say "dump him." It is the advice I would give to any one in this situation. But we cannot seem to live without each other in our lives. I chock it up to timeline bleed through. This should never have happened in this timeline, but we are a couple in another one. We both know it. The connection is undeniable for us, even though this is such a fucked up situation.
No good deed goes unpunished. |
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Anonymous Coward
User ID: 406259
5/27/2008 8:29 AM | | Re: Have you ever been cheated on? | Quote |
So far it seems everyone so far has left the person when they got cheated on.
Has anyone stayed with them and worked it out?
It works out for a little while, maybe even a few years.
But ultimately, it doesn't work out.
There are deep seated reasons why someone cheats.
For one, they aren't with you for the right reasons, or rather the same reasons as the non-cheater.
And two, it's ultimately not your problem, it will be theirs.
Be ready to move on to healthy relationships & happiness. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 425444 |
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Anonymous Coward
User ID: 272356
5/27/2008 8:35 AM | | Re: Have you ever been cheated on? | Quote |
Or turn gay Quoting: Anonymous Coward 440372
So, gay guys don't mind a small dick? Something up the ass is better than nothing? |
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coolhandluke74
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User ID: 429719
5/27/2008 1:29 PM
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He drew a circle that shut me out,
Daunted, rebel -- a thing to flout,
But love and I had the wit to win,
We drew a circle that shut him in.
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Fight my brute!!! |
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Nada Khazar
User ID: 224132
5/27/2008 1:38 PM | | Re: Have you ever been cheated on? | Quote |
I've been cheated on and am no longer with that person. I would never and have never cheated. Cheaters get to live with what they did for the rest of their lives, it haunts them years later. Cheaters also never trust anyone because of what they did. I researched it a lot and realized that most cheaters do it because of their own issues.
Usually what goes around comes around. Eventually cheaters get cheated on and then they realize what they did. Then its too late. Quoting: coolhandluke74
I think you guys are both ascribing your own morals to someone else.
Cheaters are not at all haunted by their actions.Maybe someone who made a one time slip up, but not actual cheaters.
If they saw things the way you do, they wouldn't be cheaters to begin with.
They know full well what they are doing and they enjoy it. |
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InterDimensional One (ID1)
User ID: 440828
5/27/2008 1:39 PM
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IS LOOKING AT DIRTY PICTURES CONSIDERED TO BE CHEATING??
i don't think so. i look at dirty pictures and i'm a female and have never once thought it was cheating. i even like looking at other females, i think they are sexy and i consider myself hetero. i've even shown my boyfriends better porn than the crap they had and we looked at it together and i enjoyed watching him get horny over it with me.
every boyfriend i ever had cheated on me. i'm not sure if that's cuz i attract those kinds of guys, or men are just not capable of keeping it in their pants. my belief is that these wonderful guys some women have that claim they would never cheat are just good at not getting caught.
and for the record, i've cheated too. mostly because for a long time i had no concept that my actions might hurt the other person and i figured, if they are gonna do it to me i'm gonna do it to them.
pretty jaded.
probably while i'm still single too. Quoting: Insomnia
Let me be your male counter-part. I have been in a relationship with a woman (not married) but we have lived together for 18 years, 2 kids, and in the first 16.5 years of our relationship, she cheated on me 11 times, and thats only the ones I know of. I can say that I have had propositons from other women, but have kept honest and loyal to her the whole time. Call me what you will, but I am trying my best to set the example to my kids, my family and everyone I know, that you love them and stick it out. So she's finally coming around to not having affairs on me. Or so I feel.
One Good Man's opinion. And so sex is not the basis of our relationship. But even today she says she can't live without me, so I must mean that much to her.
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InterDimensional One (ID1)
User ID: 440828
5/27/2008 1:43 PM
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I think you guys are both ascribing your own morals to someone else.
Cheaters are not at all haunted by their actions.Maybe someone who made a one time slip up, but not actual cheaters.
If they saw things the way you do, they wouldn't be cheaters to begin with.
They know full well what they are doing and they enjoy it. Quoting: Nada Khazar 224132
We have to discern here between 'Cheaters' and 'Swingers' - the latter being couples and married couples who agree upon swapping partners and stuff like that, and as long as all parties are ok with that. . .
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Anonymous Coward
User ID: 440859
5/27/2008 1:45 PM | | Re: Have you ever been cheated on? | Quote |
The man I have been with for the past three years has a wife, and he goes back and forth between me and her. it is hard to tell who is cheating on who at this point. We have tried to break up every few months or so but it never works. I never imagined I would be in such and ugly situation but here I am. It might be my ultimate test of my humanness. He loves both of us, is guilty that he has fallen in love with another woman, and he wants to be with me. But I go off the deep end and the situation drags on and on.
It is very easy to say "dump him." It is the advice I would give to any one in this situation. But we cannot seem to live without each other in our lives. I chock it up to timeline bleed through. This should never have happened in this timeline, but we are a couple in another one. We both know it. The connection is undeniable for us, even though this is such a fucked up situation. Quoting: kat
thats such a crock, you can live without anyone, its hard but it can be done. have more respect for youself and dump him. do you not worry about whats he's bringing home to you? if he loved you and was getting what he needed from you he wouldn't stray.
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oil company knows there area i
User ID: 435925
5/27/2008 2:29 PM | | Re: Have you ever been cheated on? | Quote |
oil wants to make big money before the area over seas is boomed all to heck and then they know 2012 that machines won t work and knowlege is increasing whereby telsa theory will get energy from the spinning earth ....ok making some speedy greed! |
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InterDimensional One (ID1)
User ID: 440828
5/27/2008 9:34 PM
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oil wants to make big money before the area over seas is boomed all to heck and then they know 2012 that machines won t work and knowlege is increasing whereby telsa theory will get energy from the spinning earth ....ok making some speedy greed! Quoting: oil company knows there area i 435925
and this has  to do with this thread?
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Anonymous Coward
User ID: 437044
5/27/2008 9:50 PM | | Re: Have you ever been cheated on? | Quote |
The man I have been with for the past three years has a wife, and he goes back and forth between me and her. it is hard to tell who is cheating on who at this point. We have tried to break up every few months or so but it never works. I never imagined I would be in such and ugly situation but here I am. It might be my ultimate test of my humanness. He loves both of us, is guilty that he has fallen in love with another woman, and he wants to be with me. But I go off the deep end and the situation drags on and on.
It is very easy to say "dump him." It is the advice I would give to any one in this situation. But we cannot seem to live without each other in our lives. I chock it up to timeline bleed through. This should never have happened in this timeline, but we are a couple in another one. We both know it. The connection is undeniable for us, even though this is such a fucked up situation. Quoting: kat
I been there done that and got the g-string. I can't tell you what to do, but serious talk, men like this are just pathetic. They want to have their cake and eat it too. They want to save face with the in-laws and the community and the clubhouse and have his pretty little plaything on the side while the wife is the one with the keys to the castle. I used to be a scheming, evil bitch. I did ruin a man's carreer once for fucking with my heart, and I do NOT have any remorse for that at all. This One man I gave my whole heart and soul to, and I believed he was single. So I find out the truth one day and it made everything he had ever said to me worth shit.
The relationship went down hill from that point on, and even with knowing as you do alreday, you will get tired of being the other woman and those nagging feelings of jealousy. Who the fuck do they think they are? Better question, aren't YOU worth more? I played men for a spell until I got that out of my system and now I am happliy married. But I was once that little naieve, innocent doe eyed thing that these men claim don't exist anymore. But I was mistreated one too many times after giving all. That makes many a gentle woman into a saber toothed beast. Tame the beast, take your time and feed your soul and get you a REAL man. Even if he left his wife (which statistically, he will not) how do you know he won't do you the same way? Men like these never change except when they are Ronald Isley's age and mentality..."so sorry" for all those years of playing with women's delicate hearts and minds, and now want to give their all someone young and tender when they are like 60. Ewwww. 
Fuck that motherfucker. I say that with as much love and light as possible. |
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Anonymous Coward
User ID: 396816
5/27/2008 10:03 PM | | Re: Have you ever been cheated on? | Quote |
love is a tough game |
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Anonymous Coward
User ID: 410120
5/27/2008 10:03 PM | | Re: Have you ever been cheated on? | Quote |
Once, by the girl I was already cheating with. So I had it coming. I knew it wouldn't last with her so it didn't bother me that she found someone else. What hurt I found out a month before she finally told me and she felt the need to lie to me about it for that time. We had been good friends, which is how the cheating with her started and if she had just told me she had found someone else I would have been happy for her. Too bad she was too busy spreading her legs to just send me an email. I haven't really talked to here since. I did find out that the guy she cheated with she was exclusive with but he screwed around and told her about it. he was proud of it. Some crap about how he wanted to make sure she was the right one by screwing other girls. They ended up getting married later. |
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Anonymous Coward
User ID: 312060
5/27/2008 10:11 PM | | Re: Have you ever been cheated on? | Quote |
We all get cheated on every four years, and the slick bastards never even give you a reacharound while they're porkin' you up the hieny. |
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Anonymous Coward
User ID: 441141
5/27/2008 10:22 PM | | Re: Have you ever been cheated on? | Quote |
OMG Kat...you sound like me two years ago. Run don't walk out of this. I too, had a two year affair which we just couldn't break off. The guilt, the emotional bond. The soul mate connection. Here is what it will get you - mine dumped me when his wife finally started catching onto cell phone bills, got me fired from the place we both worked, i lost 7000 in severance pay. Then he bad mouthed my sex life to members of my own wedding party which spread through whole community and eventually back to my own kids. He got off scott free and was seen this past weekend, lovingly holding hands with his wife. I told her more than once about the affair, trying to help her see him for what he is. You are in for nothing but grief. He will dump you in the blink of an eye, when push comes to shove they don't leave their wives. The wives seem to want to look the other way too. |
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ntisithoj
User ID: 441149
5/27/2008 10:39 PM
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I have cheated on every woman I have been with, except one, and she was the only one who cheated on me... and I stayed with her for 6 more years. then it ended, but not because of the cheating.
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Anonymous Coward
User ID: 396816
5/27/2008 10:40 PM | | Re: Have you ever been cheated on? | Quote |
The thing is with cheating,when you cheat it feels like its not such a big deal,it feels like nothing although its a serious game to play if you are in love with someone and if you have children,well thats just insanity to risk your family for a shag,its pathetic to cheat really isnt it ?
when you are cheated on... it hurts like your soul has been ripped out and the whole world is laughing at you,its feels like you are the joke of the world
The worst part about being cheated on... is you are the last to find out, thats when can find yourself in a hedge at 3am doing a stake out lol
i have done both,been the cheater and been cheated on,i grown up since then and seen the error of my ways though...
when i cheated it was just one night stands,i couldnt live with an affair, all the lies and sneaking about like a rat its not cool,i guess im just to honest,he,he
its never worth it,sex can cause a lot of trouble and lets be honest, sex doesnt last very long does it ?,infact sex is over rated if you ask me,sure sex is good but its just a very small part of life
conclusion
play with fire,you will get burned |
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Anonymous Coward
User ID: 440226
5/27/2008 10:58 PM | | Re: Have you ever been cheated on? | Quote |
I don't know why I found it funny at the time, but i was dating a guy much younger than me, and he came to me all morose and said he had gone home with some girl the night before, who he hates, but who took advantage of him because he was drunk.
I said, "Well, I realize you were drunk and didn't have sex, but do you think you might have possibly remembered to use a condom?"
He said 'Oh yeah, we used a condom!'
Jeez. I couldn't get mad at someone so dense. I just said maybe it's best he enjoy being young and free and sent him off home.
At the time, I was still sharing my digs with an ex, who having heard the new boyfriend got off so lightly, approached me after the new date had left.
"I want you to know that I also cheated on you when we were together. I kissed a girl I worked with"
Well, by that time I was stumped at the stupidity of these guys. All I could do was laugh.
I don't know why that should be, and I'm laughing now, and I guess it's a heck of a lot better than being hurt. |
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Anonymous Coward
User ID: 396816
5/27/2008 11:03 PM | | Re: Have you ever been cheated on? | Quote |
I don't know why I found it funny at the time, but i was dating a guy much younger than me, and he came to me all morose and said he had gone home with some girl the night before, who he hates, but who took advantage of him because he was drunk.
I said, "Well, I realize you were drunk and didn't have sex, but do you think you might have possibly remembered to use a condom?"
He said 'Oh yeah, we used a condom!'
Jeez. I couldn't get mad at someone so dense. I just said maybe it's best he enjoy being young and free and sent him off home.
At the time, I was still sharing my digs with an ex, who having heard the new boyfriend got off so lightly, approached me after the new date had left.
"I want you to know that I also cheated on you when we were together. I kissed a girl I worked with"
Well, by that time I was stumped at the stupidity of these guys. All I could do was laugh.
I don't know why that should be, and I'm laughing now, and I guess it's a heck of a lot better than being hurt. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 440226
why is it stupidity to be honest ?
at least they havent got a Guilty Conscience no more,its good for the soul to fess up
not that i ever did |
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Anonymous Coward
User ID: 282587
5/27/2008 11:08 PM | | Re: Have you ever been cheated on? | Quote |
...a cheater is a cheater is a cheater forever.
They will bring you unending pain & grief.
Cheaters are self centered and don't care who gets hurt by their lies and misdeeds.
Trust them at your own peril. |
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Anonymous Coward
User ID: 421612
5/27/2008 11:09 PM | | Re: Have you ever been cheated on? | Quote |
A man is only as faithful as his options Quoting: Anonymous Coward 418352
That is not true. My dad never cheated on my mom because he loved her.
It's sad that I've seen so many complaints about men here being rude to women yet look at this comment. What a shame. |
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Anonymous Coward
User ID: 396816
5/27/2008 11:12 PM | | Re: Have you ever been cheated on? | Quote |
...a cheater is a cheater is a cheater forever.
They will bring you unending pain & grief.
Cheaters are self centered and don't care who gets hurt by their lies and misdeeds.
Trust them at your own peril. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 282587
people cheat less as they get older
if you have faith in a cheater,you have faith in yourself
btw
war = peace |
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Anonymous Coward
User ID: 379467
5/27/2008 11:25 PM | | Re: Have you ever been cheated on? | Quote |
Yes, but only when dating women. I immediately broke off the relationships (2 when I was younger) after discovering they were cheating. Married now and neither my wife or I have the desire to see other people. |
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SickDaveMondo
User ID: 298804
5/27/2008 11:38 PM
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Oh yes. Went to one of my close friend's weddings. I have a few drinks, go up to the bar at one point and the bartender goes, "Hey did you used to date C.V.?"
I go, what do you mean "used to." At the time, me and this heartless cunt were engaged or something...So anyway, the bartender starts laughing at me, and starts telling me how he has my finance up in his hotel room.
I say "fuck you", grab my beer and go out the parking lot for a smoke. While I'm out there, I see her car. Hmmm, this isn't where she works. So I go back inside, and this asshat bartender is laughing at me as I walk in. One of the top 7 worst moments of my life. What a couple of motherfuckers. She did have one of the sweetest fucking asses I have ever seen though...
SDM
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Because an enemy of man is what I am, and when the end comes you'll hear me laughing."
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