Sax777,
I would appreciate hearing your interpretation of the following:
1. In both real and dream life I am being presented images of the black widow spider, 2 in fact, one grown and one small. My take is they are harbingers of death no doubt, but whose? That's the missing piece. There are 3 people I think it might refer to, myself, my child and my spouse. Then again it could refer to several people close to any of us. Thoughts?
Quoting: Anonymous Coward 473983Black widow spiders have one interesting trait in that the female, much larger than the male, devours the male after getting children from him. Therefore, this would be aimed at your wife and child, and/or your wife and yourself.
Now, that doesn't mean your wife is going to murder you or even divorce you for that matter, but that now that she's got children/child you've been sidelined in her Heart due her obsession with the child. This is actually rather common, and a mistake made by many women these days.
The primary huband/wife relationship is monumental above ALL relationships in a family, and if it isn't, the husband/wife will suffer and MORESO the children will suffer.
2. In a very recent dream I was looking at the top of my sons head, at his hair, when a dot of light illuminated it - like the laser dot that modern guns have but in a yellow color not red. I'm not a gun person, so the meaning here eludes me.
Of course I realize these are most likely "personal" symbols - rather than archetypes. Again, just curious for your take on them. Thank you.
Quoting: Anonymous Coward 473983This is a continuation of the first part of this post, the "annointed" gold spot on the top of your son's head. Apparently you feel fairly stronly subconsciously about what I stated above.
And no, I'm not saying you don't Love your son, or that your wife doesn't Love your son etc etc etc.
I'm just saying, that somewhere in there you're grieving the loss of something due the presencce of your son in both of your lives.
I'd say it's time to find a good babysitter and start spending more time together and bring the focus of your family back to the primary relationship where it belongs.
Just watch what children do when they see Daddy Loving Mommy, openly showing affection to her in their presence. They light up like Christmas trees, and for GOOD reason, as such GREATLY backs up their feelings of security as well many other spiritual things.
