OP, first off you are getting some good advice here, many women are more than likely intimidated. But the biggest secrect ever is this............ Be a low talker. When you talk to women speak very softly, so softly they must lean in to hear you. It works, if you are a sincere decent person. I have some friends who are not the best looking guys that are soft talkers, and they can't keep the women away. So, there you go. Try it. With your confidence that you have, you probably speak with commanding self confidence in your voice. Low talker, brings the right kind of women around and it works.