REPORT ABUSIVE REPLY
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What is the hardest question in the world?
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If you marry someone you dont REALLY love but like a lot (and never thought that love was real anyway...just a fantasy)...and have children with that person.
And 20 years later meet someone you REALLY love.....that the fantasy fulfills. Is one supposed to give up the fantasy....is one meant to kill themselves (not the person just the dream of a true friend/love/lust). If they are an interim person...why dont they know it and concede without being a tosser about it....ie sucicide/stalking/meaness.
If God is real...why does he torment one with someone that is perfect AFTER you committed yourself to someone you were so-so about BECAUSE you never thought true love would ultimately come?
Quoting: S 662749 God doesn't tell you how to love. The fact that you cannot love freely means that you are limiting it. You practice love as if it is a matter of ownership and that isn't love at all. I understand people have reasons for doing this, but if you weren't all so damn judgmental, for absolutely no reason, and controlling, you would know what love really is. I don't know how many times I have to tell people this. Humans aren't normally meant to be with one person for life and children aren't supposed to be cared for as long as they are. Your society is screwed up and works against what is natural, and this is your reward. Sorry if that was harsh.
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