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SubarcticBeef User ID: 221410 United States 09/01/2008 09:07 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Get a paternity test on the last kid. It may not be yours. Large and Powerful [link to i154.photobucket.com] |
SubarcticBeef User ID: 221410 United States 09/01/2008 09:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Get a paternity test on the last kid. It may not be yours. Quoting: SubarcticBeefSorry. Missed that one line. Glad the kid is yours. Large and Powerful [link to i154.photobucket.com] |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 352356 United Kingdom 09/01/2008 09:20 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Get a paternity test on the last kid. It may not be yours. Quoting: SubarcticBeefSorry. Missed that one line. Glad the kid is yours. Yes, I was expecting the father to be someone else and it was a very pleasant surprise to know that I was indeed Daddy. However, I am not sure that my wife is certain. She doesn't know that I had the test done. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 495244 United States 09/02/2008 02:56 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Grow a pair and ask your wife is she is cheating on you. Tell her all the reasons you think she is having an affair and tell her you suspected one or more of the children were fathered by someone else. Say it to her face instead of slandering her to strangers. It's your marriage, you got yourself into it, you get yourself out of it or figure out how to fix it. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 494621 Portugal 09/02/2008 02:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Grow a pair and ask your wife is she is cheating on you. Tell her all the reasons you think she is having an affair and tell her you suspected one or more of the children were fathered by someone else. Say it to her face instead of slandering her to strangers. It's your marriage, you got yourself into it, you get yourself out of it or figure out how to fix it. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 495244No need for much more. Her reaction will tell everything. Look at her in the eyes. If she's hiding something she'll be nervous and her pupils will dilate |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 284011 United States 09/02/2008 03:00 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Grow a pair and ask your wife is she is cheating on you. Tell her all the reasons you think she is having an affair and tell her you suspected one or more of the children were fathered by someone else. Say it to her face instead of slandering her to strangers. It's your marriage, you got yourself into it, you get yourself out of it or figure out how to fix it. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 495244That does sound good but she will probably just freak out and act like he's an asshole. So, I say, hire a private investigator, find out the truth, then give her the opportunity to tell you. Then if she pulls that bull shit, you can pull out the facts. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 494621 Portugal 09/02/2008 03:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | That does sound good but she will probably just freak out and act like he's an asshole. So, I say, hire a private investigator, find out the truth, then give her the opportunity to tell you. Then if she pulls that bull shit, you can pull out the facts. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 284011If she's not guilty of it, the reaction will be quite mellow. It would probably start with a "hmm? what?" If she's guilty she'll jump immediately into a defensive stance. If she freaks out as the first reaction, pupil dilated, sweaty hands, lots of short movements and the impression of discomfort (trying to adjust her position every second), then she's guilty! kinesics 1 O 1 |
Kevin_Martin User ID: 483253 United States 09/02/2008 03:07 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 495244 United States 09/02/2008 03:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Grow a pair and ask your wife is she is cheating on you. Tell her all the reasons you think she is having an affair and tell her you suspected one or more of the children were fathered by someone else. Say it to her face instead of slandering her to strangers. It's your marriage, you got yourself into it, you get yourself out of it or figure out how to fix it. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 284011That does sound good but she will probably just freak out and act like he's an asshole. So, I say, hire a private investigator, find out the truth, then give her the opportunity to tell you. Then if she pulls that bull shit, you can pull out the facts. If she isn't having an affair, she'll have every right to react that way. Just talking to a male friend on the phone is not proof she's fucking him. He could get a private investigator who would charge him a small fortune to put a key-catcher program on their computer, a tap on the phone, and follow her around for weeks... Or he could just put all that money towards a divorce lawyer. A marriage is meaningless without trust and sex anyway. |
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The Boss User ID: 75886 United States 09/02/2008 03:11 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You post this with such distance from your wife. It's almost as if you are watching all of this activity from a window and occasionally sticking your hand in the window for some bread crumbs when you are starved, and all the while watch life go by with but a whimper. I have a suggestion for you. Get a spine. I don't mean be an asshole, I mean let her know that her inatention to the needs of the relationship has affected your emotional security and ultimately your marriage. If she fights you on all points and gets defensive. Get a lawyer she's either fucking around, or stringing you along. Make no mistake about it. Sex is important. Pardon me for interrupting your premature celebration, but I thought it only fair to give you a sporting chance as you are new to this game. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 493438 United States 09/02/2008 03:13 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 352356 United Kingdom 09/02/2008 03:15 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Grow a pair and ask your wife is she is cheating on you. Tell her all the reasons you think she is having an affair and tell her you suspected one or more of the children were fathered by someone else. Say it to her face instead of slandering her to strangers. It's your marriage, you got yourself into it, you get yourself out of it or figure out how to fix it. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 495244She will just deny it. It's naive to think that she will do anything else. |
AC-Heater! User ID: 495860 Netherlands 09/02/2008 03:16 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | DRAMA...DRAMA...DRAMA..DRAMA...AND MORE DRAMA... Has it every dawned on you (OP) that perhaps you participated in some, perhaps small, way to the issue that you are now faced with? Yes, you participated in some way to "create" the drama, so stop playing the blame game with the wife. And, above all, please don't use the children as pawns in the game. For the Love of humanity, find a amicable way to stop the drama...please. |
The Boss User ID: 75886 United States 09/02/2008 03:17 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She will just deny it. It's naive to think that she will do anything else. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 352356Naive? You're a god damned doormat. Pardon me for interrupting your premature celebration, but I thought it only fair to give you a sporting chance as you are new to this game. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 495244 United States 09/02/2008 03:19 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Grow a pair and ask your wife is she is cheating on you. Tell her all the reasons you think she is having an affair and tell her you suspected one or more of the children were fathered by someone else. Say it to her face instead of slandering her to strangers. It's your marriage, you got yourself into it, you get yourself out of it or figure out how to fix it. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 352356She will just deny it. It's naive to think that she will do anything else. You missed the point. Whether she is or isn't having an affair, she definitely has a husband who is talking shit about her to anyone who will listen. You've both got problems in your marriage. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 495244 United States 09/02/2008 03:21 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | DRAMA...DRAMA...DRAMA..DRAMA...AND MORE DRAMA... Quoting: AC-Heater! 495860Has it every dawned on you (OP) that perhaps you participated in some, perhaps small, way to the issue that you are now faced with? Yes, you participated in some way to "create" the drama, so stop playing the blame game with the wife. And, above all, please don't use the children as pawns in the game. For the Love of humanity, find a amicable way to stop the drama...please. Agreed. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 352356 United Kingdom 09/02/2008 03:22 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You post this with such distance from your wife. It's almost as if you are watching all of this activity from a window and occasionally sticking your hand in the window for some bread crumbs when you are starved, and all the while watch life go by with but a whimper. Quoting: The BossI have a suggestion for you. Get a spine. I don't mean be an asshole, I mean let her know that her inatention to the needs of the relationship has affected your emotional security and ultimately your marriage. If she fights you on all points and gets defensive. Get a lawyer she's either fucking around, or stringing you along. Make no mistake about it. Sex is important. Oh she just freaks out. Same as when I told her that I suspected that she was having an affair. If it wasn't for the kids her butt would already be out the door. No way I signed up to a sexless marriage and ultimately she tricked me by letting me think that we would have sex after marriage. But kids change the game, you can screw up their lives and I have a responsibility to my kids as well as loving them. She's said on more than one occasion that I should use professionals for sex. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 2108 United States 09/02/2008 03:23 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Hire a private investigator. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 284011If you have the money - DO IT. Because as everybody says, if you guys get divorced, women usually win custody (so I've heard). If you get a P.I. and find out she's cheating, you have proof and can keep your kids. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 352356 United Kingdom 09/02/2008 03:23 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | DRAMA...DRAMA...DRAMA..DRAMA...AND MORE DRAMA... Quoting: AC-Heater! 495860Has it every dawned on you (OP) that perhaps you participated in some, perhaps small, way to the issue that you are now faced with? Yes, you participated in some way to "create" the drama, so stop playing the blame game with the wife. And, above all, please don't use the children as pawns in the game. For the Love of humanity, find a amicable way to stop the drama...please. Yes it has. No I didn't. And stop being rude. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 495244 United States 09/02/2008 03:26 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Oh she just freaks out. Same as when I told her that I suspected that she was having an affair. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 352356If it wasn't for the kids her butt would already be out the door. No way I signed up to a sexless marriage and ultimately she tricked me by letting me think that we would have sex after marriage. But kids change the game, you can screw up their lives and I have a responsibility to my kids as well as loving them. She's said on more than one occasion that I should use professionals for sex. So if she started getting into having sex with you again, would that change how you feel about her? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 425325 United States 09/02/2008 03:26 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If she has cheated on you, and been with a married man, there is no reason to believe that she would be faithful now or with you. Sorry, but it is the honest truth. She is a woman that is never going to be satisfied. I was with a married man, who I found out that he was not only cheating on his beautiful wife, but also cheating on me the other woman. To this day he has a hard time being faithful. (yes we still TALK), but pretty much the story goes, once a cheater, always a cheater, and since your wife has cheated a few times, she is more then likely doing it again. Does she shower right when she gets home ? Is she reachable during the hours she is away from home ? At any given time? The smell factor, gross, but it holds true. What are you still doing with her anyways? It's not worth it staying together for the kids. Get out, get divorced, keep your name out of the system (child support), and find yourself another woman who wants YOU ! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 450645 United States 09/02/2008 03:26 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You know I could be a woman and tell you how I may have cheated on my husband, but the bottom line is why can't you talk to your wife, tell her you are miserable, and tell her you want a divorce? You have to make a big drama about it and go to war? Why? So you can be a victim? |
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