is it normal to have fantasies of your partner cheating on you?

i dont know if it is normal..
but i have experienced this before
on more than one occasion

my advice...
dont get used to it

and if they persist, and you can't masturbate without this being the object of interest, he has already cheated on you and is continuing to do so...

that is my experience anyway

Sure it is Op.

But the fantasy is different than the reality.

Trust me.


Adult games need to be played by adults.

OP needs to go to swinger party.

lol

everybody has deep dark secrets

Are you male or female?

Normal......I fantasize about midgets, vampires, old guys and paraplegics but I wouldnt wanna go there either.

It seems to be a male. I'm thinking homosexual tendencies.

Even females can have homosexual tendencies, I'm not so narrow minded.

absolutely!

if you are a sick,twisted,perverted human

Not true ..

More than likely the partner has already cheated.

and the visualizations are strong in the young pedawan.

Funny, that was brought up over dinner about a month ago on a girl's night out. Two girls admitted to these fantasies (out of six of us). We talked about related things and both these girls had fathers who cheated on their moms and they were aware of it as small kids.

We decided there was a connection to their fathers like expecting a man to cheat. Don't know if there really is a connection or not.

Must be

This is actually one fantasy I've NEVER had.


And I don't think it would turn me on in the very slightest :)

I think the truth is that people rarely fantasize about what they already have as they dont need to! Therefore what is left? You have to figure out an opposite from normal...or its just not exciting enough. Most hetero women fantasize about other woman at some point or other...even if they arent bi because its DIFFERENT...thats all.

The Human sense of smell, although not all that bright consciously, is often a very subconscious trigger. If you are having such fantasy it could well be that your sense of smell is already telling you as much.

however,OP, there is much too what this poster has stated as well. If you already have it, you won't be fantasing about it. The sexual mind can get very bored and makeup all sorts of stuff for its kicks.

I met a girl once and her live in B/F was out of town. Before he left, he ok'ed the girl to bang some guy. I was the guy, after he returned he would even drive her to my house. Long story blah blah..

I had a few woman cheat on me, so i start to realize i'm sorta getting immune and i'm starting to get into it.

My next G/F let's me watch a video of her getting banged.
Great, then she finally says she wants to bang a guy at her job. We actually planned and let her go to F the guy, but it didn't work out. She wanted to do 3 ways with chics, but truthfully i was too lazy to find someone
we didn't know( her request). Eventually i left her and got married. My wife would completely freak out, if she knew what was in my head.

I've asked her just about another chic and she was not happy. She once said she fantasized about 2 guy's and i asked if she wanted to do that and she just shutdown. Truthfully i doubt i would leave a chic if she f'ed/cheated some guy. I guess i just don't care.

sometimes i imagine my partner riding around in another crown victoria with some other goon from a different alphabet agency cracking skulls without me.

Cuckold fetish?

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I too share this fantacy.. Id like to say im troubled by it but, i have worse fantasies better suited for other forums. Id like to begin by saying it is normal. Its normal for me, normal for you, normal for the countless others sharing this fantacy. We could all speculate on the common denominater between all of us, guys & girls, that do share this taboo, erotic thought patern but, in the end its where ever your sick, perverted, conscious mind dare to dwell, to excite and envoke emotion, that will get your rocks off.

Let's stone OP?

Is that the Christian thing to do?

If so, okay.

Not normal for me but normal for you, we all have our weird things.. I'm not going to go into my fantasies here but i have some weird ones too. Wouldn't worry about it.

Its called being a "cuckold"

you just want to watch...

OP, you should masturbate together with your husband while the dog is watching.