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Women have caused all my problems
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Anonymous Coward
User ID: 514675
10/1/2008 11:24 AM | | Re: Women have caused all my problems | Quote |
wow i have a story of being abused by women all my life |
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Anonymous Coward
User ID: 514923
10/1/2008 11:30 AM | | Re: Women have caused all my problems | Quote |
My mother abandoned me when I was an infant
My aunt abused me as a child
My first love lied and made a fool of me
My wife cheated and took my daughter away
Friends tell me I'd be better off dead
All of the girls in my life have caused so much misery
I guess it's all in my head Quoting: ObeyTheOctopus
Another whiner...crap. |
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Anonymous Coward
User ID: 509464
10/1/2008 11:31 AM | | Re: Women have caused all my problems | Quote |
How about a "MEN have caused all my problems" thread..... I bet there would be a shed load more "clients" on that.
Im sure there would be a lady to oblige on that one.
Hehe I could do that one on my own.But see I learned from my mistakes and dealing with a few hardships and underdeveloped persona's made me a stronger and better person.I now have an impeccable 'issue' radar and tend to stay away from those who have them.You men will develop this too it will just take longer since the erection deal clouds your judgment.One day though you will catch it sleeping and actually see the clear picture. |
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Anonymous Coward
User ID: 513180
10/1/2008 11:33 AM | | Re: Women have caused all my problems | Quote |
My mother abandoned me when I was an infant
My aunt abused me as a child
My first love lied and made a fool of me
My wife cheated and took my daughter away
Friends tell me I'd be better off dead
All of the girls in my life have caused so much misery
I guess it's all in my head Quoting: ObeyTheOctopus
sorry to hear that bro
women suck
get a dog and hang in there, bro
God bless you |
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Daughter of zion 
User ID: 514910
10/1/2008 11:35 AM
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My mother abandoned me when I was an infant
My aunt abused me as a child
My first love lied and made a fool of me
My wife cheated and took my daughter away
Friends tell me I'd be better off dead
All of the girls in my life have caused so much misery
I guess it's all in my head Quoting: ObeyTheOctopus
find someone nice not a whore !!!  all women are not the same ,,
Who so boasteth himself of a false gift is like clouds and wind without rain. |
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Anonymous Coward
User ID: 380667
10/1/2008 11:37 AM | | Re: Women have caused all my problems | Quote |
*hug*
Get a dog or a cat. They are said to help with depression.
Best of luck. |
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ObeyTheOctopus
User ID: 452708
10/1/2008 11:41 AM
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*hug*
Get a dog or a cat. They are said to help with depression.
Best of luck. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 380667
I got a cat in May. He's good company.
"Buy the ticket, take the ride." |
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Cynical Realist
User ID: 513516
10/1/2008 11:42 AM
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How about a "MEN have caused all my problems" thread..... I bet there would be a shed load more "clients" on that.
Im sure there would be a lady to oblige on that one.
Hehe I could do that one on my own.But see I learned from my mistakes and dealing with a few hardships and underdeveloped persona's made me a stronger and better person.I now have an impeccable 'issue' radar and tend to stay away from those who have them. You men will develop this too it will just take longer since the erection deal clouds your judgment.One day though you will catch it sleeping and actually see the clear picture.
In a nutshell guys to "pull" the ultimate woman... you will need a dysfunctional willie and a white head of hair on the old "mountain top" And then when you get her you cant do bugger all with it. But as AC 509464 ipmlies.... at least you are empathicaly in tune!!
.... And thats coming from an old Cynic |
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kat
User ID: 488776
10/1/2008 11:45 AM
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And men have caused all of mine. |
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Anonymous Coward
User ID: 509464
10/1/2008 11:52 AM | | Re: Women have caused all my problems | Quote |
How about a "MEN have caused all my problems" thread..... I bet there would be a shed load more "clients" on that.
Im sure there would be a lady to oblige on that one.
Hehe I could do that one on my own.But see I learned from my mistakes and dealing with a few hardships and underdeveloped persona's made me a stronger and better person.I now have an impeccable 'issue' radar and tend to stay away from those who have them. You men will develop this too it will just take longer since the erection deal clouds your judgment.One day though you will catch it sleeping and actually see the clear picture.
In a nutshell guys to "pull" the ultimate woman... you will need a dysfunctional willie and a white head of hair on the old "mountain top" And then when you get her you cant do bugger all with it. But as AC 509464 ipmlies.... at least you are empathicaly in tune!!
You got it! And don't worry fellas we think you are handsome as you age and stacks more ready to have a partner.Really too bad a lot of you have cut your own noses to spite your faces by the time you get to that point. |
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Anonymous Coward
User ID: 431995
10/1/2008 12:09 PM | | Re: Women have caused all my problems | Quote |
The things that happen when you are a child are the fault of the people who committed them.
What you take away from it is yours.
Almost all that happen as an adult happen with your consent and inplicit involvement.
In other words, when all the players change, and the environment changes, but the story remains the same you have to look at what the common factor is.
The common factor is YOU.
That means you are involved in your own problems. Indeed, you are seeking out people to play out your problems with. You continue to play out the story by finding the people who is take up their places in your mental story of yourself, and if they don't you - without noticing it - avoid or reject them.
You also refuse new patterns, because they make you uncomfortable. However, what does make you comfortable is what you know. What you know, is not a good relationship.
Whenever you find that you are continually in the same place, in the same situation, with different people the ongoing continium is YOU. That means, you are getting something out of it. You are getting enough out of it that you are more comfortable continuing in it than challenging yourself out of it.
New patterns require work. Actually, biological work.
Just like when you exercise, your muscles hurt and you don't want to continue but the tearing makes new, stronger, better muscles. Your brain has neural pathways. Links made based on previous experience.
Often used pathways persist, as the electrical charges between neurons will prefer to use previously established electrical pathways. Indeed, your brain will try and avoid making new connections and reuse previous connections - conservation of energy and new knowledge is easier to understand based on previous knowledge. This maintains homeostasis. Any system, and your body is a system, prefers homeostasis.
Therefore, to create new neural pathways you need to WORK to abandon previous behaviours. This will make you feel really uncomfortable. You won't want to do it. You'll find reasons why it won't work. It'll maybe hurt. You get fatigued. You'll want to stop - you'll make excuses. Anything to not have to make a new set of behaviours, and abandon those neural pathways that were set up in your childhood.
What you have done before is survivable but isn't SUCCESSFUL. It is successful only in continuing to allow the organism to live in percieved safety. Is that really ENOUGH for you? Perceived safety?
Pick a woman you would have never picked before, but seems like a nice person. Pick to do the things that don't seem right, and don't seem comfortable. Actively choose to make decisions that are not what you made before. Logically, think of your GOAL and see if you can logically view things from a third party point of view. If I saw this person walking down the street and talking to someone, would I think they would be a good partner or date for my best friend? If my best friend did this, would I think they were being nice?
Anyway, maybe one or two people will read this and it'll give them a pause to rethink their pattern of behaviour and how they are contributing to their misery. |
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Anonymous Coward
User ID: 431995
10/1/2008 12:11 PM | | Re: Women have caused all my problems | Quote |
forgive the grammar errors - hard to concentrate on work and writing out and editting a long post at the same time. |
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NikkiLaVey
User ID: 272356
10/1/2008 12:26 PM
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My mother abandoned me when I was an infant
My aunt abused me as a child
My first love lied and made a fool of me
My wife cheated and took my daughter away
Friends tell me I'd be better off dead
All of the girls in my life have caused so much misery
I guess it's all in my head Quoting: ObeyTheOctopus
I was done the same way by men.
I'm a Lesbian now.
You might wanna try boys from now on!
If we don't help each other who will
Dream the Good Dream,
Nikki |
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Anonymous Coward
User ID: 413608
10/1/2008 12:30 PM | |
Anonymous Coward
User ID: 413608
10/1/2008 12:33 PM | | Re: Women have caused all my problems | Quote |
wow i have a story of being abused by women all my life Quoting: Anonymous Coward 514675
and I have a story of all the men who have abused me in this life ........
literally called" battered woman" Grandpa, father, brother, boyfriend, strangers, husband..........
funny though, I have healed myself and I continue to LOVE not HATE. |
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Anonymous Coward
User ID: 510318
10/1/2008 12:38 PM | | Re: Women have caused all my problems | Quote |
My mother abandoned me when I was an infant
My aunt abused me as a child
My first love lied and made a fool of me
My wife cheated and took my daughter away
Friends tell me I'd be better off dead
All of the girls in my life have caused so much misery
I guess it's all in my head Quoting: ObeyTheOctopus
What a poor victim your are! I hope that pity party is working for you. I'm sure you'll attract more of the same with that attitude. Why not take control of your own life and tell everyone else to fuck off?
Most people just love playing a victim. Observe your language and actions for a few days. You'll realize just how much you belittle yourself. Take your power back I tell you.
I had a fucked up childhood and bad experiences with woman too but I took my own power back and now control the outcomes, nobody else. |
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ObeyTheOctopus
User ID: 452708
10/1/2008 12:57 PM
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Damn you guys make a lot of sense. I need to really take the time to figure things out before I get myself into any more bad situations.
431995- That was excellent
"Buy the ticket, take the ride." |
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Anonymous Coward
User ID: 431995
10/1/2008 1:20 PM | | Re: Women have caused all my problems | Quote |
Happy to help Octopus. |
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Sinanju
User ID: 511173
10/1/2008 1:48 PM | | Re: Women have caused all my problems | Quote |
"How completely TWISTED of you. You should be ashamed of yourself spouting such poison!"
>>What the fuck are you on about? Twisted? For giving advice that doesn't involve sitting around in a dark room, praising women, and contemplating the lint in one's belly button?
Fuck off...
I gave a man's advice to a man who asked for it. not a metrosexual pansy.. not a woman... a real man's advice.
OP, the best thing you can do is twofold... one, treat them as they have treated you... and LIVE WELL.
Be happy.. be UNAVAILABLE... be yourself regardless of what they or society thinks.
You have gotten to this point by PLAYING BY THEIR RULES. Do NOT listen to them when they list the rules for you again. Make YOUR own rules...
You will find yourself with a virtual harem before you know what you are doing. |
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Sara-Ka-El
User ID: 326961
10/1/2008 1:58 PM
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sorry to hear you are not responsible for your life, op.
that would suck.
Truth is a Stranger to Fiction
Learn to Swim
In the Instancy of Atomic Love, the Footloose are Dead |
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NikkiLaVey
User ID: 272356
10/1/2008 2:05 PM
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My mother abandoned me when I was an infant
My aunt abused me as a child
My first love lied and made a fool of me
My wife cheated and took my daughter away
Friends tell me I'd be better off dead
All of the girls in my life have caused so much misery
I guess it's all in my head Quoting: ObeyTheOctopus
Cute Picture of Cthulhu ... him and I dated for awhile! 
If we don't help each other who will
Dream the Good Dream,
Nikki |
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InfiniTcell
Vegan Yogi
User ID: 515023
10/1/2008 2:10 PM
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Battle of the sexes is lame. There is much dispersed by the PTB that cause this situation for easy victimization, enslavement, domination and control, for the benefit of a few. Men and women have fallen prey to darkness via separatist perspective.
Unconditional acceptance and Love helps one to rise above it all.
Women until my 24th year of life had caused me incredible pain and suffering therefore, I used to think along the OP's lines until a wonderful woman came my way and showed me the light. Now, I am infecting all my previous abusers with happy mojo that is slowly, but surely transforming them into better souls.
Also, what you focus on and believe in does manifest in reality. Conscious mind and physical outcome are intertwined. (It is all in your head) Know that there is an Infinity here and out there that can manifest any possibility.
I personally prefer to work towards the harmony and bliss of all things. |
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InfiniTcell
Vegan Yogi
User ID: 515023
10/1/2008 2:13 PM
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I was thinkin'. Y'all who are in pain and whatnot. You need a hug! <HUG>
Also, know that you are perfect just the way you are!
This consciousness and all the ones connected to it will only encourage you to do and be whatever it is you are, without placing any condition or requirement. |
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Sinanju
User ID: 511173
10/1/2008 2:15 PM | | Re: Women have caused all my problems | Quote |
What a load of unadulterated bullshit!
DO not listen to the 'love and light' crowd. They are 'pie in the sky' morons who do not live in the real world. |
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ObeyTheOctopus
User ID: 452708
10/1/2008 2:16 PM
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Cute Picture of Cthulhu ... him and I dated for awhile!
"Buy the ticket, take the ride." |
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Anonymous Coward
User ID: 480936
10/1/2008 2:20 PM | | Re: Women have caused all my problems | Quote |
Bendem over and take it out on them-they'll love you for it! |
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Anonymous Coward
User ID: 450645
10/1/2008 2:21 PM | | Re: Women have caused all my problems | Quote |
Hey, Octopus, re-read the long post above which explains it all quite succinctly.
There comes a point in the maturation process where, male or female, we stop blaming and take responsibility for our own lives and the quality thereof. Is it easier to continue to perceive ourselves as victims and do nothing? Some seem to think so. What payback does feeling victimized by women get you? Is it working for you? Doesn't sound like it.
So it's taking you awhile to get there, but now you have a chance to sit back and GET there.
Very few of us emerge from childhood unscathed. Leave it to Beaver was a sitcom, not real life. Real life is hard. Ward is never home and emotionally unavailable and June is a drunk in pearls beating the crap out of Wally and the Beaver.
Pick yourself up, brush yourself off, and start all over again. As a grown man this time.
Be the man the kind of woman you want would want to be with and the kind of woman you want just might come into your life. |
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ObeyTheOctopus
User ID: 452708
10/1/2008 2:22 PM
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What a load of unadulterated bullshit!
DO not listen to the 'love and light' crowd. They are 'pie in the sky' morons who do not live in the real world. Quoting: Sinanju 511173
Yeah I hear that. Sounds good in theory but love doesn't solve everything. Unconditional love is partly why I'm so messed up. I'd like to believe it but until I see it myself I'll go it alone.
"Buy the ticket, take the ride." |
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Sinanju
User ID: 511173
10/1/2008 2:24 PM | | Re: Women have caused all my problems | Quote |
"Yeah I hear that. Sounds good in theory but love doesn't solve everything. Unconditional love is partly why I'm so messed up. I'd like to believe it but until I see it myself I'll go it alone."
>>Exactly! You already TRIED their advice and saw that it didn't work. Sadly, they will see that it is horseshit too.
Wonderful sounding rhetoric that gets tossed out the window the second the proverbial rubber meets the road. |
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Poe
User ID: 483611
10/1/2008 2:27 PM
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Yeah I hear that. Sounds good in theory but love doesn't solve everything. Unconditional love is partly why I'm so messed up. I'd like to believe it but until I see it myself I'll go it alone. Quoting: ObeyTheOctopus
Yeah, "All you need is love" makes a nice song and everything but it takes a heck of alot more than that.
“Whatever women must do they must do twice as well as men to be thought half as good. Luckily, this is not difficult.”
~ Charlotte Whitton |
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