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Women have caused all my problems
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Sinanju
User ID: 511173
10/1/2008 4:27 PM | | Re: Women have caused all my problems | Quote |
"It's Gettin' deep hon!"
>>Above all things, I tell the truth.
Like I said, I have been cursed myself.
Believe me or not... but there are women HERE that can attest to my charisma. |
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Witness_ 
User ID: 352356
10/1/2008 4:33 PM
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Anything's possible. I wouldn't say I've had anything resembling good luck.
Luck is bullshit. All you have to do is be positive and grateful for what you do have. That will make you the luckiest person in the world! Quoting: Poe
Spot on!!!!!!
Long term luck doesn't exist. You make your luck.
Short term luck balances out in the end, sometimes you "get lucky", other times you get "unlucky", but it all balances out in the end.
Long term, you make your luck and it's your approach to life that matters. It's how you see the world. The glass is either half full or half empty. |
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Cynical Realist
User ID: 513516
10/1/2008 4:33 PM
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"It's Gettin' deep hon!"
>>Above all things, I tell the truth.
Like I said, I have been cursed myself.
Believe me or not... but there are women HERE that can attest to my charisma. Quoting: Sinanju 511173
.... And thats coming from an old Cynic |
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Witness_
User ID: 352356
10/1/2008 4:37 PM
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Right now I want to move away from where I'm at. Find a better job so I can afford some land. Grow my own food. Live in the mountains near a lake. Travel. Quoting: ObeyTheOctopus
So you're gonna run away?
You can't. Because where you are isn't the problem. Who are surrounded by isn't the problem. Women are not the problem.
The problem is you. Your negative attitude and your victim's mentality.
You will always be abused because your WANT to be abused. You're in the "feel sorry for me" vortex and you won't ever get out until you simply say "enough" and change your ways.
Behaviour in others is what you allow it to be.
It's determined by what's in you.
It really is that simple. |
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Indy NoName
User ID: 489456
10/1/2008 4:38 PM | | Re: Women have caused all my problems | Quote |
Ever since Eve, women have been the downfall of man. Do not trust them. Not a single one. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 514749
Hold on thar, pardner .... that account is just plain HORSESHIT! An evil campaign put together to decry, villify and make women the SCAPEGOAT for millions of years. And it worked.
Don't blame the wimmen' for your problems ... if you've got 2 balls and you're walking around, upright, on 2 legs, stuffed with testosterone and ego - YOU are your own walking nightmare of a problem! Get off the backs of millions of women for a change, and take responsibility for your own actions, dude!
You wuss.
PS - Women USED to be amazons and could kick any man's ass around for miles! THEY used to raid men's camps, kidnap and carry them off and use them for breeding purposes. Then, somewhere along the line, they became 'DOMESTICATED' by men (read: rape and pillage campaigns brought many women under the rule of men) ...... result: GAME OVER for women being in power. I think that the bible passages you're referring to - incidentally written by MEN - used that book as a basis for rulership over and ownership (in those days, at least) of women. Today things are changing, though not as much as they SHOULD be. I'm not for dominion of either men OR women over each other, just a basic partnership with each person doing the right thing and pulling their share. But to blame women for your own problems is just plain stupid, dude. Face it, NONE of us would be here today without the egg and the sperm - one can't exist without the other. I say, it's time for a TRUCE, and for real partnership between the sexes to coexist in its truest form.
'Nuff said. |
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NikkiLaVey
User ID: 272356
10/1/2008 4:39 PM
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"It's Gettin' deep hon!"
>>Above all things, I tell the truth.
Like I said, I have been cursed myself.
Believe me or not... but there are women HERE that can attest to my charisma.
Sinanju... you realy want to care for someone!!! Have you been let down badly somewhere also? Quoting: Cynical Realist
Sounds like another "Player" to me ... Can't be loyal to one woman.
If we don't help each other who will
Dream the Good Dream,
Nikki |
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ObeyTheOctopus
User ID: 452708
10/1/2008 4:41 PM
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"I'm sure that's true. I'm still alive and I intend on staying that way for a while."
>>Exactly! Now... take your newfound intention of FUCKING LIVING and be hedonistic, tentacle boy!
Live and do it well!
Here is a nice peek into my life...
I average about 4 or 5 women being interested in me at any given time... I 'kinda' have an interest right now... but I am still bombarded daily by gorgeous and intelligent women wanting my company...
and WHY?
Money!
Just kidding!
It is charisma.. it is not fearing the reaper... it is living each moment as if it is your last.
Try it! Don't fret about the past.. don't ponder the future..
ENJOY THE MOMENT.
When you experience ONE PERFECT MOMENT.. it all becomes worth it. But you will miss your window if you are freaking about past relationships or craving future ones.
Don't pine away, son.
And trade your cat in for a dawg. Not a foo-foo pansy puppy.. a DAWG... Quoting: Sinanju 511173
I have no problems with women not being interested in me. I often have women approach me and give me their phone numbers without me even asking. My problem is making the effort to respond back and it's tied in with my past. I try to be in the moment, I know it's what I have to do. Easier said than done, but you're absolutely right.
"Buy the ticket, take the ride." |
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Sinanju
User ID: 511173
10/1/2008 4:41 PM | | Re: Women have caused all my problems | Quote |
"Sinanju... you realy want to care for someone!!! Have you been let down badly somewhere also?"
>>Hold on there, dancing queen... I said I was cursed... I would rather be left alone.. but I have charisma and pheromones that literally draw people to me constantly...
No, I DO NOT want someone to care for.. tried that once and it doesn't work... so I prefer the lone wolf method. |
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ATTC
User ID: 514114
10/1/2008 4:41 PM | | Re: Women have caused all my problems | Quote |
Ever since Eve, women have been the downfall of man. Do not trust them. Not a single one. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 514749
You are severely mistaken.
The downfall of man has been sin. Man has inflicted pain and suffering upon his fellow man since the beginning of time. |
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Poe
User ID: 483611
10/1/2008 4:41 PM
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Believe me or not... but there are women HERE that can attest to my charisma.
Sinanju... you realy want to care for someone!!! Have you been let down badly somewhere also?
Sounds like another "Player" to me ... Can't be loyal to one woman. Quoting: NikkiLaVey
Both assessments are correct.
“Whatever women must do they must do twice as well as men to be thought half as good. Luckily, this is not difficult.”
~ Charlotte Whitton |
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NikkiLaVey
User ID: 272356
10/1/2008 4:42 PM
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Ever since Eve, women have been the downfall of man. Do not trust them. Not a single one. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 514749
The Bible is one of the most sexist book ever written!
If we don't help each other who will
Dream the Good Dream,
Nikki |
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Sinanju
User ID: 511173
10/1/2008 4:43 PM | | Re: Women have caused all my problems | Quote |
"Sounds like another "Player" to me ... Can't be loyal to one woman."
>>Ha! I was loyal for nearly ten years total... but you are right.. I am pretty much a player now. But I don't sleep around... I COULD... but I don't.
Well... to be honest...
I use President Clintoon's definition of sex.... |
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Sinanju
User ID: 511173
10/1/2008 4:44 PM | | Re: Women have caused all my problems | Quote |
"Both assessments are correct."
>>Unless you know me IRL.. I would not be so quick to think you understand me.
I am.... complicated. |
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Cynical Realist
User ID: 513516
10/1/2008 4:45 PM
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"Sinanju... you realy want to care for someone!!! Have you been let down badly somewhere also?"
>>Hold on there, dancing queen... I said I was cursed... I would rather be left alone.. but I have charisma and pheromones that literally draw people to me constantly...
No, I DO NOT want someone to care for.. tried that once and it doesn't work... so I prefer the lone wolf method. Quoting: Sinanju 511173
Look..im not trying to invade your space here.... You stayed with it.... she didn`t... am i right..... total respect here!!!!!
.... And thats coming from an old Cynic |
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NikkiLaVey
User ID: 272356
10/1/2008 4:47 PM
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"Both assessments are correct."
>>Unless you know me IRL.. I would not be so quick to think you understand me.
I am.... complicated. Quoting: Sinanju 511173
How are you complicated?
If we don't help each other who will
Dream the Good Dream,
Nikki |
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Anonymous Coward
User ID: 425325
10/1/2008 4:47 PM | | Re: Women have caused all my problems | Quote |
Maybe it's not the women, and it's you not being a man.
Ever think about that ? Sorry, but you cant blame it all on us !! |
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Sinanju
User ID: 511173
10/1/2008 4:48 PM | | Re: Women have caused all my problems | Quote |
"Look..im not trying to invade your space here.... You stayed with it.... she didn`t... am i right..... total respect here!!!!!"
>>Pretty close.. but that is fairly common knowledge amongst the regulars here. Either way, when I do anything I 'go for broke'... Like I said..
Cursed. |
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NikkiLaVey
User ID: 272356
10/1/2008 4:48 PM
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"Sounds like another "Player" to me ... Can't be loyal to one woman."
>>Ha! I was loyal for nearly ten years total... but you are right.. I am pretty much a player now. But I don't sleep around... I COULD... but I don't.
Well... to be honest...
I use President Clintoon's definition of sex.... Quoting: Sinanju 511173
I'm a one woman woman myself ... I would never cheat.
I can't it just isn't in my nature.
If we don't help each other who will
Dream the Good Dream,
Nikki |
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Witness_
User ID: 352356
10/1/2008 4:50 PM
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Perhaps she abandoned me out of love? I will never know what she was thinking until I find her, if I ever do. Quoting: ObeyTheOctopus
get over it already!
This is a classic case of your victim's mentality.
That was then, this is now. Go out and meet some women. Just talk to them. Keep it light. Stay away from all your problems and negativity. Be funny, be interested in them, avoid deep conversations and stick away from anything to do with your screwed up psyche.
Don't try to bed them. Be there to simply enjoy their company, have a few laughs, entertain them, engage them and talk to them.
Get out of your self-imposed prison already! Sheesh! You are your own problems, buddy and it's because you are stuck in a "I have been so hard done by" state.
The person abusing you is yourself. Not your mother, not your aunt and not anything else out there with a pussy between its legs. It's you. You are the abuser. You are the person harming yourself because your behaviour makes others abuse you.
You are to blame. You are responsible. You have no excuses.
All this nonsense about "women are so bad". Read my post about how to be a male in a relationship with a female. It's you who made that chick walk out on you. You probably drove her away with your bad attitude, victim's mentality and stuck in the past psyche. What future did she have with you?
Want to know why she took your kid? Because she wanted to protect him from your attitude. She didn't want him picking up the same psychological catastrophe that you keep yourself wallowing in. She wanted him to be normal. What future would he have being in your mental state?
You are to blame, my friend. Not women, not your past. You are the reason that you are where you are now.
Forget the new age meditation, psychological psycho babble crap. Grow some testicles. Become a man. Live your life today for today instead of reliving your past over and over again.
Your past was crap. Fine. Make today better than your past.
Right now you want to suck everyone into a "we feel so sorry for you" state of bullshit. For what? It won't sort your problems out because no-one is your problem. You are. So sort yourself out and the problems go away.
If not for you. Do it for your son. Because you are a pathetic excuse for a father right now and your son deserves better. How can he learn how to have a relationship with a woman when he sees the mess that you are in? |
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Sinanju
User ID: 511173
10/1/2008 4:50 PM | | Re: Women have caused all my problems | Quote |
"How are you complicated?"
>>Hyper-intelligent, tall dark and handsome, charismatic, opinionated, correct, party like a rockstar, insomniac, antagonistic, hedonistic, strict code of honor, psuedo-death wish....
Voted most likely to become a superhero by the International Martial Arts Association!
Basically bad news. |
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Cynical Realist
User ID: 513516
10/1/2008 4:51 PM
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"Look..im not trying to invade your space here.... You stayed with it.... she didn`t... am i right..... total respect here!!!!!"
>>Pretty close.. but that is fairly common knowledge amongst the regulars here. Either way, when I do anything I 'go for broke'... Like I said..
Cursed. Quoting: Sinanju 511173
But that doesnt happen often..... is your fear rejection?
Cursed..... is that how YOU see yourself?? ....again total respect
.... And thats coming from an old Cynic |
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ObeyTheOctopus
User ID: 452708
10/1/2008 4:52 PM
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So you're gonna run away?
You can't. Because where you are isn't the problem. Who are surrounded by isn't the problem. Women are not the problem.
The problem is you. Your negative attitude and your victim's mentality.
You will always be abused because your WANT to be abused. You're in the "feel sorry for me" vortex and you won't ever get out until you simply say "enough" and change your ways.
Behaviour in others is what you allow it to be.
It's determined by what's in you.
It really is that simple. Quoting: Witness_
I wouldn't call it "running away." I think I could learn a lot about myself and gain new experiences by changing my environment and going places I've always wanted to go.
As far as wanting to be abused. Not consciously. I don't want people to feel sorry for me. What would I have to gain from that? I don't like being pitied. Maybe this stuff just goes deeper than I realize, I don't know.
"Buy the ticket, take the ride." |
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Sinanju
User ID: 511173
10/1/2008 4:52 PM | | Re: Women have caused all my problems | Quote |
"I'm a one woman woman myself ... I would never cheat.
I can't it just isn't in my nature."
>>Nor mine. But I refuse to be labeled by a female companion again for that very reason. I am keeping my options open as much as I can. Not sleeping with more than one woman at a time.. but not being tied down either. |
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Cynical Realist
User ID: 513516
10/1/2008 4:53 PM
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"Sounds like another "Player" to me ... Can't be loyal to one woman."
>>Ha! I was loyal for nearly ten years total... but you are right.. I am pretty much a player now. But I don't sleep around... I COULD... but I don't.
Well... to be honest...
I use President Clintoon's definition of sex....
I'm a one woman woman myself ... I would never cheat.
I can't it just isn't in my nature. Quoting: NikkiLaVey
Would the exeption be a man??......
.... And thats coming from an old Cynic |
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Poe
User ID: 483611
10/1/2008 4:53 PM
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"Both assessments are correct."
>>Unless you know me IRL.. I would not be so quick to think you understand me.
I am.... complicated. Quoting: Sinanju 511173
I know enough and you echoed exactly what I said in your own post about it. You were hurt and you do like to play.
But I would NEVER think anyone could "understand" sinanju. ;)
“Whatever women must do they must do twice as well as men to be thought half as good. Luckily, this is not difficult.”
~ Charlotte Whitton |
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Sinanju
User ID: 511173
10/1/2008 4:53 PM | | Re: Women have caused all my problems | Quote |
"But that doesnt happen often..... is your fear rejection?
Cursed..... is that how YOU see yourself?? ....again total respect"
>>My fear?
FEAR is irrational. I suppose you could say the only thing I fear IS fear.
Cursed? Yeah... I am. Never met anyone in real life that could relate to me for long. |
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Anonymous Coward
User ID: 480936
10/1/2008 4:54 PM | | Re: Women have caused all my problems | Quote |
My mother abandoned me when I was an infant
My aunt abused me as a child
My first love lied and made a fool of me
My wife cheated and took my daughter away
Friends tell me I'd be better off dead
All of the girls in my life have caused so much misery
I guess it's all in my head
find someone nice not a whore !!!  all women are not the same ,,
OK, I hate to admit it but she's right! There are some really, really good ones out there-gotta look though and take a wait and see attitude-people will tell and show you what they're all about-sometimes the ones that are the most fun arn't what you need (damn!). |
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Sinanju
User ID: 511173
10/1/2008 4:55 PM | | Re: Women have caused all my problems | Quote |
"I know enough and you echoed exactly what I said in your own post about it. You were hurt and you do like to play.
But I would NEVER think anyone could "understand" sinanju. ;)"
>>Fair enough. I have a sneaky suspicion that you know me IRL.... my alias is fairly well known among a few... |
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Eve_4000Bc
User ID: 468693
10/1/2008 4:57 PM
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Ever since Eve, women have been the downfall of man. Do not trust them. Not a single one. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 514749
haa haaa haa
and free will is not to your taking? I knew someone was going to mention Eve.
My opinion to the main poster is you're not the only one suffering. Men can and do a lot of damage to women as well. What you have to do is take people in stride. Maybe don't invest all your eggs in one basket when you first date someone. Sometimes going out is just what it is with the oppisite sex. It's getting out of the house and going out with no emotional investment other then whats good to do while you're out.
Just last night I was flaked on. That's what people do. They flake. Do I take it out on the next man? No! Just do what I do. Go places with the oppisite sex and carry no emotional tighs to the person at first. If you see signs they are a jerk then move to the next date. Go slow...
Question authority every time. Ask them how that makes them feel. Ask them why? Ask them when you have an opinion with your opinion and question them with that! There is no being with ALL THE answers accept for God. Even still question. But trust if it's all good and loving then follow with your full heart believing. For the light will always be the light. It makes me a believer. |
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Anonymous Coward
User ID: 450645
10/1/2008 4:58 PM | | Re: Women have caused all my problems | Quote |
You know what? You say you don't want people to pity you? Then stop pitying yourself.
YOU ARE NOT A VICTIM ANYMORE.
Get the fuck over it. Grow up. Move on. FIX IT.
This is now about YOU and no one else. |
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