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Your most Compatible Romance?

 
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Bullshit. She has accused me of things which are not true, and try to find was to dismiss my real pains and say all kinds of silly things which don't real with reality. That's done by someone who is heartless but wants to look kind: see what I did, I suggested something... doesn't matter if what was said was junk, they should appreciate it, and if not, see, proves they are bad people!

See it and the world as you wish.
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Fageddaboudit... he is trying to hijack the thread... no dice!
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Bullshit. She has accused me of things which are not true, and try to find was to dismiss my real pains and say all kinds of silly things which don't real with reality. That's done by someone who is heartless but wants to look kind: see what I did, I suggested something... doesn't matter if what was said was junk, they should appreciate it, and if not, see, proves they are bad people!

See it and the world as you wish.


Fageddaboudit... he is trying to hijack the thread... no dice!
 Quoting: Coolchick


hf
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...hithere Ms Geogal... I would have to say that all of my romancings have been just the bestest compatibility-wise ever... and I say that cuz they all have been, lol, and still are, just the very bestest right kinda thang, and at just the right time too, for me.
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Well I suppose it would be fun to make a Frankenman. And I do know what I would combine for a total ultimate package that would please me very much.

But, in actuality I have been married to the same man for what will be 20 years in a couple months. His particular points of compatibility with me were things that I highly value. He is highly communicative, extremely witty with a great sense of humor, generous and kind and mentally we have probably had the longest nonstop conversation with each other for 19 years as we share similar interests. We are best friends and have had a lot of fun together because of that.

Sources of conflict would be that he is extremely extroverted and I am more inclined to introverted at this time in my life, though was very extroverted until around 40. Then, I became like a Bob Dylan song that I can't remember the name of off hand.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 379014

LMAO! I like that "Frankenman". I don't think I'd want one of those though. I like real people and people with their own thoughts and opinions. There is plenty of truth to the old saying "people change"... They can and do. But, if you've got a 20 year marriage and are still happy, communicative, loving and respecting, you have something wonderful! And it's in the package of a real person, not someone made up. I hadn't know before your current situation! LOL! But, CONGRATS on nearly 20 years of happiness!
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Bullshit. She has accused me of things which are not true, and try to find was to dismiss my real pains and say all kinds of silly things which don't real with reality. That's done by someone who is heartless but wants to look kind: see what I did, I suggested something... doesn't matter if what was said was junk, they should appreciate it, and if not, see, proves they are bad people!

See it and the world as you wish.


Fageddaboudit... he is trying to hijack the thread... no dice!


hf
 Quoting: Tessa


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I've dreamt so long..
I cannot dream anymore..
Geogal (OP)

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LMAO!! hi Teal!!!! laugh Again, I'd say that the mental is your best starting point, but do you know what else you need for MOST?


But seriously I do agree that you'd need much more than mental compatibility.

Social Context

Physical/Chemical compatibility

..and don't forget Fate (if you believe in it)
 Quoting: teal

Yes, i do actually believe in Fate... some call it chance, some call it happenstance, but Fate has a lot to do with MANY things, not jsut romance. As to the rest, I also agree. @ people can seem perfect for each other but the right "chemical" solution, "electricity", "spark" just doesn't ignite or stick.
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I want a guy that walks upright... ohhh that's right...
I've dreamt so long..
I cannot dream anymore..
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LMAO!! hi Teal!!!! laugh Again, I'd say that the mental is your best starting point, but do you know what else you need for MOST?


But seriously I do agree that you'd need much more than mental compatibility.

Social Context

Physical/Chemical compatibility

..and don't forget Fate (if you believe in it)

Yes, i do actually believe in Fate... some call it chance, some call it happenstance, but Fate has a lot to do with MANY things, not jsut romance. As to the rest, I also agree. @ people can seem perfect for each other but the right "chemical" solution, "electricity", "spark" just doesn't ignite or stick.
 Quoting: Geogal


i'm behind you there darlin'

i believe 100% in fate
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I want a guy that walks upright... ohhh that's right...
 Quoting: Coolchick


watch it now with those high standards!!!

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Thanks to the big loser for incredible answers on what is completely incompatible.

Humor, responsibility, companionship, intelligence, self respect are all things that make a compatible relationship for me.

Luckily, I found all that in one person.

Phenn: Thanks for that comment on Aquarians. That explains alot for me about myself. LOL

Tessa: Great insight on not wanting a man you have to raise or finish raising. Too many men who are still children these days.
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My experience has been that compatible and romance don't go together.

sigh...


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hi HBH... I'm sorry to hear. do you have an idea of what qualities are most compatible for you?
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I'm alright darlin', how are you?


Sunday evening and trying to keep the positive energy up..

Thanks.. :)

I think you tend to do a wonderful job of that. LOL!


Thanks, ..you're too kind!

ura
 Quoting: teal

hf
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Thanks to the big loser for incredible answers on what is completely incompatible.

Humor, responsibility, companionship, intelligence, self respect are all things that make a compatible relationship for me.

Luckily, I found all that in one person.

Phenn: Thanks for that comment on Aquarians. That explains alot for me about myself. LOL

Tessa: Great insight on not wanting a man you have to raise or finish raising. Too many men who are still children these days.
 Quoting: Poe


I think there are too many wome who THINK they need to finish raising a man. They want to change him into what they think a perfect man will be instead of just letting him be himself.
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Fageddaboudit... he is trying to hijack the thread... no dice!


I am trying to do no such thing. Interestingly, the people who claim it keep speaking to me... and about me. They are self hypocritical it's not even funny.

I am just being honest. I answered the question. I got attacked. And I am told that being attacked was just having people be nice to me!

Heartless bitches.
 Quoting: TheBigLoser 518003


Just an observation...

You were attacked.
So what, it happens to everbody...move one at some point.

Are you so insecure that you need to continually bash others and throw temper tamtrums to make a point that nobody is really listening to?

The only point that serves is to eventually make yourself look foolish.
Learn to "roll" with the punches.
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I think there are too many wome who THINK they need to finish raising a man. They want to change him into what they think a perfect man will be instead of just letting him be himself.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 484970


Correct. And more than that, the women think an "adult man" is a guy who gives them everything they want, but they give nothing back in return. They are also quite immature themselves, but don't see it. They don't know how to be with others in a true relationship, but only want selfish one-sided attention, and anything else is said to be problematic because the guy is not "adult enough" to see they should be doing that!
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Then there was the best sex ever compatible relationship. Wow were we hot... but the other stuff wasn't there.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 121768



WoW.....that just reminded me of a few lovers. Though, the years went by 3 1/2 years (one), five years (the other) around a year (another). It mind as well have been "silent film". Somehow I think the intensity of the physical atraction crushed communication, but at the time I just chocked it up to we didn't have anything in common except for a mad passion for "silence" and hot hot hot physicality.

These "silent lovers" were okay as there were communicative boy friends to do things with.

I used to think marriage was for the weak. Because I enjoyed the 10 years between my two marriages A LOT.
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and a VERY clear list of personal needs. Not many people can be that clear on what they need. The more details you have the better chance you have of finding what it is you need, IMHO.



oh haha i wish.



lol Geo i once had a very precise, long list.. but after the 3 relationships I have had , all that is left is "be nice if he walked upright.." Har!!!


laugh





He he keep dreaming, I am!



yea i know...right!
 Quoting: ~BriZz~

:chickle: Bizz, from what I've read of your posts, you are a pretty strong and self assured lady. You have stated a pretty clear picture. If Fate is with you, and the other person ready, you will find each other.
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I hve to say I am very amused. For days, TBL has been cool as a cucumber thru all the suggestions and insults, and tonight all of a sudden, he snaps. Very intriguing.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 484970

Intriguing, but... sad.
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Yes, it's just finding it. And I know I can't expect someone to change for me, so do I stick it out with who I have, or search for that once in a life time #1.

No, a person can't change and become something they aren't.

Gosh... such a tough personal choice. I can't give you an answer on what to do, but some things to think on, maybe is all I can offer.

Do you have children together?
Is there something about the current relationship that is helping you to grow still?
What chances do you have of finding what you are after if you walk now as opposed to later, or will you stick with this one for life for the level of commitment?
How will you end it for your own needs? Harsh and fast or gentle and soft but firm?

Only you can tell yourself if you should end it or not and when. If you are unhappy, and there is nothing tying you together, then it's an easier transition. If you are both somewhat happy, and have something tying you together, then that's harder and stickier.


Thank you, you're very good at this.

WHy thanks, Aldpam! I just got a crazy idea and went with it for the thread. But, everything else I just go on gut instinct. Nothing is right for everyone, but somethings are right for just one, KWIM? An individual has to decide what is their own destiny and make it happen.
 Quoting: Geogal

Spoken like an Aquarian, lol!

I've been pondering this question and and I think the best way to describe it would be a best friend.

That about covers it, I think... ;)


btw, Geo...you ARE very good at this!! hf


Hey everyone! Good thread, eh... stoner
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Geogal (OP)

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I met the man of my dreams...

He loved nature - so did I.

We went skiing together - so fun

Skinning dipping - I'm in.

I found him cooking in my kitchen, healthy food - me too.

We traded massage - both massage therapists for over 20 years

We both had children and loved having them around - He always included my child in conversation and talk.

Health nut - me too.

Physically active - me too.

I even liked his dog.

Loved adventure - me too

Liked late night talks and early morning sex - me too

Dreamed about contributing to the world, making it a better place with his presence - me too.

laughed often - me too

Drug addiction - .................. not for me. It ended the relationship. ............ ...................... i wonder if I will ever get the whole package.

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Then there was the best sex ever compatible relationship. Wow were we hot... but the other stuff wasn't there.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 121768

WOW! Yeah. I've seen that too and been there... one thing as BIG as that can end it... I call it the "breaking point". The one thing that makes all the compatibility dissolve.
And sex is wonderful, but if the rest isn't there... well, sex can just go away with age... but the rest is harder to.
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Thanks to the big loser for incredible answers on what is completely incompatible.

Humor, responsibility, companionship, intelligence, self respect are all things that make a compatible relationship for me.

Luckily, I found all that in one person.

Phenn: Thanks for that comment on Aquarians. That explains alot for me about myself. LOL

Tessa: Great insight on not wanting a man you have to raise or finish raising. Too many men who are still children these days.
 Quoting: Poe


What they said...!! applause


cheers
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Alright, what are all you horny wimmin doing?

Looks like theres a party going on in here
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I told ya all that idiot TBL was gonna fuck with your thread......

Now carry on darlin's of GLP.....
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Alright, what are all you horny wimmin doing?

Looks like theres a party going on in here
 Quoting: Paradigm


hf Hi darlin'
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My best friend is about the most compatible relationship I have ever had. He has made me grow as a person and he is the man I want to spend the rest of time with. That will very likely not happen, because he is a few years older than I am, but I would like to spend as much of my time as we have left together.
 Quoting: j_stevens0n

You made me smile. Actually saying "best friend" about your SO/husband I think is amazing. It's a top criteria of mine also. Every moment you have with him is precious!
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...hithere Ms Geogal... I would have to say that all of my romancings have been just the bestest compatibility-wise ever... and I say that cuz they all have been, lol, and still are, just the very bestest right kinda thang, and at just the right time too, for me.
 Quoting: gooderboy

LOL! hi Gooderboy! The best for the time! That is a wonderful statement. Hugz to you, my friend!
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Thanks to the big loser for incredible answers on what is completely incompatible.

Humor, responsibility, companionship, intelligence, self respect are all things that make a compatible relationship for me.

Luckily, I found all that in one person.

Phenn: Thanks for that comment on Aquarians. That explains alot for me about myself. LOL

Tessa: Great insight on not wanting a man you have to raise or finish raising. Too many men who are still children these days.
 Quoting: Poe


that sounds awesome Poe!!
"Whether this song is about sex, drugs, or Ramen Noodles, it's moving. And you can bet your ass that you can fuck to it."
Tessa

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I told ya all that idiot TBL was gonna fuck with your thread......

Now carry on darlin's of GLP.....
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lol

hf
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I want a guy that walks upright... ohhh that's right...
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LOL! laugh
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I want a guy that walks upright... ohhh that's right...

LOL! laugh
 Quoting: Geogal


LOL You know, Geo!
I've dreamt so long..
I cannot dream anymore..