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HELP!!! I'm Starting to HATE my Step Kids!!!!!

 
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What is the solution of hiring a housekeeper to clean up behind two mentally sound teen boys doing for their long term benefit? So, when they grow up and move into their own place, making a modest wage just starting out, then it's fine to live like a slop because mom will hire a housekeeper for us to come clean it up? This attachment non parenting crap is turing out weak kids who can't pour piss out of a boot.
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Exactly! They are two healthy young men who should be able to do chores.

I refuse to buy paper plates or ignore the messes. That is only catering to their laziness.

They left their clothes all over the upstairs this morning getting ready for school. They are scattered everywhere and so are towels, throw blakents, etc. Then I go downstairs and there are dishes all scattered on the coffee table waiting for the cleaning fairy to come take care of them. They will not be back until Thursday and I refuse to clean up after them. It's damn disrespectful. Surely they know SOMEONE has to come clean it up. For some reason it just enrages me today.
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I wonder if you feel that you must some how in a short time fix his kids to be more like you children. Do you feel like a "failure" somehow because of their lack of character? You did not have a hand in their upbringing until just recently. I think that you are torturing yourself over principle instead of clean dishes. You may be just making yourself sick. Just hire the housekeeper and let your husband be the one responsible for how horrible they turn out. Kids from some of the best families turn out to be the worst. Some kids from the worst social situations turn out to be the best. Don't let the issue with the kids lead you to a divorce or early grave.



What is the solution of hiring a housekeeper to clean up behind two mentally sound teen boys doing for their long term benefit? So, when they grow up and move into their own place, making a modest wage just starting out, then it's fine to live like a slop because mom will hire a housekeeper for us to come clean it up? This attachment non parenting crap is turing out weak kids who can't pour piss out of a boot.
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I only suggest the housekeeper because of how sick that you are, and suspecting that hubby is likely out of the country half the time with his job. Let go of the idea of these kids somehow becoming clean, orderly, and respectful to you as long as you are still the enemy. Give it a 3 month break of demanding and complaining from you. Tell your hubby that he is in charge of making them see the light during this time. Buy a dishpan to put their dirty dishes in. They can't eat off of anything clean until they hand wash the dishes in the dishpan. Have your hubby do all the enforcing of this. It is best that he be the bad guy during this time.
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The last 5 days have been very stressful for me. I need to vent.

I have been extremely ill for the past 9 months and my step kids (2 boys ages 11 and 15) know it. I even left my accounting practice 3 months ago.

Anyway, the youngest one never shuts up...honestly his mouth never stops! He complains and whines about EVERYTHING. Most weekends I feel like crying because his voice literally makes my ears want to bleed.

For over a year now they have been told to put their dishes in the dishwasher after they eat. Those fucking assholes have to be TOLD G'DAMNED MEAL to put the dishes in the sink or they won't do it. They supposedly are very bright kids. They do no pick up after themselves WHAT SO EVER ANY TIME. If they do manage to do something helpful around the house they do it soooooooooo fucking half assed it wasn't even worth the effort they put into it.

The oldest only comes out of his room and off his computer for meals. Then he stays up all nights on the weekend. He'll come downstairs and make himself all these elobrate things to eat and then leave ME the fucking dishes!

I love my husband more than anything, I've tried to talk to him, he tries to make changes, but the kids never do. I feel sooooooooooooooo frustrated and angry I don't know what to do.

They are allowed to live like total and utter pigs at their mom's house because she does not cook or clean.

Talking, taking money out of their allowance and punishing doesn't seem to matter. What can I do!?! I can't take it anymore.

Should I start giving them half asssed meals? Should I feed them on their half assed washed plates? I do their laundry and they throw them all over their room and then complain to their Dad they have no clean clothes.

HELP!!! I have been very ill as well.


Kids today are soooo lazy and so entitled. I feel like running down the street screaming! I'd like to smack the living Hell out of the youngest one, but know I can't.






Arrrrrrrrrrrgggggggggggghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!
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except, reality.
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Do it the legal way..

Take kids to DOJO
Slip the Sifu or Kyoshi 50 bucks

Beat shit out of kids.. in a fun for you but safe for them kinda they get hurt really bad but you play it off like it was a boo boo mistake kinda way..

Take home... Say do dishes.. Or you'll have a boo boo!


:-)


Worked for me...

It didn't wear of for like 20 years...

Man my mom hits hard!! :-)
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Do it the legal way..

Take kids to DOJO
Slip the Sifu or Kyoshi 50 bucks

Beat shit out of kids.. in a fun for you but safe for them kinda they get hurt really bad but you play it off like it was a boo boo mistake kinda way..

Take home... Say do dishes.. Or you'll have a boo boo!


:-)


Worked for me...

It didn't wear of for like 20 years...

Man my mom hits hard!! :-)
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Now that is a damn good idea LOL! Beat the crap out of them legally.

Your Mom is brilliant.

My step-sons are too wussy take that class. The oldest one took gymnastics and complained it was too hard.

They are the biggest wussies on the planet! The youngest one plays football and I still can't believe it, though he is a wuss and tries not to ever get hit and flinches when the ball is thrown at him.
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I totally understand where you are coming from. I have two step daughters 12 & 15. When I moved in they were off the hook. They would leave them milk on the counter, so I stopped buying milk until they learned to put it away. They like cold cereal for breakfast so they learned quick if they wanted to eat they needed to put stuff away.
But eventually the oldest didnt like doing chores and she chose to live with mom.(She doesnt even clean up the dog poop on the floor) This is a matter of choice for the kids. If they dont like the rules they can always go to moms.

Sorry about your problem it sucks. But if you dont take control now the situation will just get worse
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Well, Talk to their father, and have him point out to them that you have been pretty ill and that they have to help out and pick up the slack now.

This means no whining, making and cleaning up from meals to help out and helping pick up the place for about an hour a day.

They can do this when they like, or it can be a specific time when their dad can stand and watch them do it, their choice.

:)

They are his kids, so he can deal with them.

Still, try to be understanding of them as well. They come to your house and the rules are different, you seem pushy, asking them to do things they are not used to and don't want to do, and then you yell and complain to them, about them, get them punished...

This is not conductive to them wanting to do what you ask of them!

After all, you simply are not their Mother, and you making rules for them probably rankles more than a bit.

*This doesn't get them OUT of following your rules, but as I said, try to understand where they are coming from as well.

Just the fact that you can note all this will mean some thing to them if you explain that you know...

Kids aren't dumb. They do need consistent rules however, just like you do.

These kids don't have that, so they push the boundaries.

It is not going to be easy for anyone to fix this, but try to be kind about it, don't yell or hate them for being what others made them!

Just do your best and try to be understanding, even while your ears feel like they will bleed!

Take care and best of luck friend.

D.
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I bet those kids LOVE living with an unhealthy, bitchy woman.
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I'm calling bsflag on this thread. Probably started by a pimple faced wanker.
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same all over the world, you need to kick your man in the nuts
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same all over the world, you need to kick your man in the nuts
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I totally see where you are coming from. I am only 28 years old and have a 15 years old step son. I love the kid but i don't like him very much.
Lazy,Lazy,Lazy, cannot stand it anymore. I cook dinner for our family every single night ,do the dishes,clean the house ,everything ,yet he always forgets to wipe the table after he eats. I get the same answer 3 times a day "I FORGOT" and i want to run away! I stopped doing his laundry this year and of course he forgets to do that now. My husband will make him do it once he starts smelling something bad in the house.
Also he can not put the empty milk bottles,coke boxes in the trash,he just leaves them on my kitchen floor.

My husband and i had an amazing relationship,we only fight because of my stepson ,b/c i'm tired of being his maid and i won't accept his snotty attitude.
I realized that my problem is with my husband and not my stepson,for condoning this type of behavior. So from today i stopped cleaning ,leave all the dishes in the sink,put trash on my own kitchen floor ,even stop cooking. We'll see how long until someone realizes something's WRONG! I'll keep you posted . Don't feel lonely tough,there's many of us out here dealing with the same issues.
Good luck to both of us and God bless!


The last 5 days have been very stressful for me. I need to vent.

I have been extremely ill for the past 9 months and my step kids (2 boys ages 11 and 15) know it. I even left my accounting practice 3 months ago.

Anyway, the youngest one never shuts up...honestly his mouth never stops! He complains and whines about EVERYTHING. Most weekends I feel like crying because his voice literally makes my ears want to bleed.

For over a year now they have been told to put their dishes in the dishwasher after they eat. Those fucking assholes have to be TOLD G'DAMNED MEAL to put the dishes in the sink or they won't do it. They supposedly are very bright kids. They do no pick up after themselves WHAT SO EVER ANY TIME. If they do manage to do something helpful around the house they do it soooooooooo fucking half assed it wasn't even worth the effort they put into it.

The oldest only comes out of his room and off his computer for meals. Then he stays up all nights on the weekend. He'll come downstairs and make himself all these elobrate things to eat and then leave ME the fucking dishes!

I love my husband more than anything, I've tried to talk to him, he tries to make changes, but the kids never do. I feel sooooooooooooooo frustrated and angry I don't know what to do.

They are allowed to live like total and utter pigs at their mom's house because she does not cook or clean.

Talking, taking money out of their allowance and punishing doesn't seem to matter. What can I do!?! I can't take it anymore.

Should I start giving them half asssed meals? Should I feed them on their half assed washed plates? I do their laundry and they throw them all over their room and then complain to their Dad they have no clean clothes.

HELP!!! I have been very ill as well.


Kids today are soooo lazy and so entitled. I feel like running down the street screaming! I'd like to smack the living Hell out of the youngest one, but know I can't.






Arrrrrrrrrrrgggggggggggghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!



Stop feeding them. They are too old to be catered to. Tell their Dad they need money for Burger King or whatever and throw them out of the freaking house. Then tell hubby that he will be helping to prepare and clean up after the evening meal if any. Demand that he discipline them and if he doesn't you will do whatever you have to to get the situation under control. "Making changes" isn't cutting it. And why the hell can't you smack the hell out of them? Would hubby lose custody? That would be too bad now wouldn't it?

And one more thing - don't take advice from me or anyone else on GLP. We're all mentally ill.
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I totally see where you are coming from. I am only 28 years old and have a 15 years old step son. I love the kid but i don't like him very much.
Lazy,Lazy,Lazy, cannot stand it anymore. I cook dinner for our family every single night ,do the dishes,clean the house ,everything ,yet he always forgets to wipe the table after he eats. I get the same answer 3 times a day "I FORGOT" and i want to run away! I stopped doing his laundry this year and of course he forgets to do that now. My husband will make him do it once he starts smelling something bad in the house.
Also he can not put the empty milk bottles,coke boxes in the trash,he just leaves them on my kitchen floor.

My husband and i had an amazing relationship,we only fight because of my stepson ,b/c i'm tired of being his maid and i won't accept his snotty attitude.
I realized that my problem is with my husband and not my stepson,for condoning this type of behavior. So from today i stopped cleaning ,leave all the dishes in the sink,put trash on my own kitchen floor ,even stop cooking. We'll see how long until someone realizes something's WRONG! I'll keep you posted . Don't feel lonely tough,there's many of us out here dealing with the same issues.
Good luck to both of us and God bless!


The last 5 days have been very stressful for me. I need to vent.

I have been extremely ill for the past 9 months and my step kids (2 boys ages 11 and 15) know it. I even left my accounting practice 3 months ago.

Anyway, the youngest one never shuts up...honestly his mouth never stops! He complains and whines about EVERYTHING. Most weekends I feel like crying because his voice literally makes my ears want to bleed.

For over a year now they have been told to put their dishes in the dishwasher after they eat. Those fucking assholes have to be TOLD G'DAMNED MEAL to put the dishes in the sink or they won't do it. They supposedly are very bright kids. They do no pick up after themselves WHAT SO EVER ANY TIME. If they do manage to do something helpful around the house they do it soooooooooo fucking half assed it wasn't even worth the effort they put into it.

The oldest only comes out of his room and off his computer for meals. Then he stays up all nights on the weekend. He'll come downstairs and make himself all these elobrate things to eat and then leave ME the fucking dishes!

I love my husband more than anything, I've tried to talk to him, he tries to make changes, but the kids never do. I feel sooooooooooooooo frustrated and angry I don't know what to do.

They are allowed to live like total and utter pigs at their mom's house because she does not cook or clean.

Talking, taking money out of their allowance and punishing doesn't seem to matter. What can I do!?! I can't take it anymore.

Should I start giving them half asssed meals? Should I feed them on their half assed washed plates? I do their laundry and they throw them all over their room and then complain to their Dad they have no clean clothes.

HELP!!! I have been very ill as well.


Kids today are soooo lazy and so entitled. I feel like running down the street screaming! I'd like to smack the living Hell out of the youngest one, but know I can't.






Arrrrrrrrrrrgggggggggggghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!



Stop feeding them. They are too old to be catered to. Tell their Dad they need money for Burger King or whatever and throw them out of the freaking house. Then tell hubby that he will be helping to prepare and clean up after the evening meal if any. Demand that he discipline them and if he doesn't you will do whatever you have to to get the situation under control. "Making changes" isn't cutting it. And why the hell can't you smack the hell out of them? Would hubby lose custody? That would be too bad now wouldn't it?

And one more thing - don't take advice from me or anyone else on GLP. We're all mentally ill.
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The last 5 days have been very stressful for me. I need to vent.

I have been extremely ill for the past 9 months and my step kids (2 boys ages 11 and 15) know it. I even left my accounting practice 3 months ago.

Anyway, the youngest one never shuts up...honestly his mouth never stops! He complains and whines about EVERYTHING. Most weekends I feel like crying because his voice literally makes my ears want to bleed.

For over a year now they have been told to put their dishes in the dishwasher after they eat. Those fucking assholes have to be TOLD G'DAMNED MEAL to put the dishes in the sink or they won't do it. They supposedly are very bright kids. They do no pick up after themselves WHAT SO EVER ANY TIME. If they do manage to do something helpful around the house they do it soooooooooo fucking half assed it wasn't even worth the effort they put into it.

The oldest only comes out of his room and off his computer for meals. Then he stays up all nights on the weekend. He'll come downstairs and make himself all these elobrate things to eat and then leave ME the fucking dishes!

I love my husband more than anything, I've tried to talk to him, he tries to make changes, but the kids never do. I feel sooooooooooooooo frustrated and angry I don't know what to do.

They are allowed to live like total and utter pigs at their mom's house because she does not cook or clean.

Talking, taking money out of their allowance and punishing doesn't seem to matter. What can I do!?! I can't take it anymore.

Should I start giving them half asssed meals? Should I feed them on their half assed washed plates? I do their laundry and they throw them all over their room and then complain to their Dad they have no clean clothes.

HELP!!! I have been very ill as well.


Kids today are soooo lazy and so entitled. I feel like running down the street screaming! I'd like to smack the living Hell out of the youngest one, but know I can't.






Arrrrrrrrrrrgggggggggggghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!
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sounds like kids to me but then again, it helps if you love em.
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OP, these are not step kids. These are step teenagers. The worst of the worst. They are at the age where they have mixed feelings about their biological parents, let alone their step-mom. They are at an age when parents have mixed feelings about their own biological offspring too!

American teenagers are usually pretty atrocious. They expect to be waited on like little kids but talk back like an adult.

Not sure what advice to give you, except that you are not alone. Maybe try to put some pressure on dad to get them in line and force them to be men and pull their own weight.
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I kicked mine out after putting up with them for 2 years. Their mother is now looking for a place to put them up with her whilst we work out what to do.

2 years of constant entitlement issues from spoiled retards is long enough. Stepkids are often life's evolutionary deadends, sad but true. Mine are literally retarded and spoiled as well- fatal combination for them since E or D is the highest mark they are ever likely to earn, they make no effort about anything and should each wear a T-Shirt saying GAME OVER... because for them it is.

For these preachy fucks saying the OP is a bitch- grow the fuck up. We aren't put on this earth to nursemaid unwanted and deleterious humans who add NOTHING to their biological family let alone their step family.

Stepkids dine out on the broken home syndrome, constantly using guilt and blackmail and when all else fails acting out. Fuck that.

Disciplining children seems to be alien to some parents' makeup- so they and their offspring can deal with it.
DOH!
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Mine step kids are fucking demons from hell....they are in there 20's there father is dieing from cancer and they don't bother calling are coming to see him. For years they have made our life miserable, now when there is no money and the chips are down they turn there back...well fuck them and what goes around comes around...dirty low life little bastards.
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I bet those kids LOVE living with an unhealthy, bitchy woman.
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Hey, I made my daughter start washing her own clothes when she was 12. Kids should have responsiblites. One day they will be out on their own.
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I think you resent the $5000 a month that hubby has to send for child support. You hate them for it don't you!

someone got ditched for the new step mommy....


No, I am a female and the natural parent in a blended family situation.

My side is hearing the step parent constantly yelling about leaving on a light, not eating properly, "walking like a girl", being messy and lazy, on and on. I have a hard time with supporting someone whom I perceive is attacking my child. I agree with many complaints, but it seems the kid can do nothing right. This step admits to being a lazy, messy kid himself, but by God this kid just needs to be yelled at to get him to change, Right????? My son told me that he feels like he can do nothing right. He cries so much about all of this. My son is beginning to hate the step too. It is a shame because in the beginning he recieved him with open arms. His natural father passed away and he was eager for the step. He even told the step he loves him, etc. Now it is like he feels betrayed. He doesnt' trust step anymore. He pulls away feeling rejected. I am very anmgry. We have had many fights over this. I know that I will not tollerate anyone who openly hates my child. It is a matter of it the marriage is worth the misery of constant conflict or not. There needs to be a comprimise or it will end for sure sooner or later.
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Gee and what a loss you will be, with a faggot halfwit kid and a preachy "natural" mother. I hope the poor motherfucker who stupidly married you escapes quick enough to find a bright shiny young thing to give him kids of his own if he wants them rather than God's mistakes.

This is why lions eat other lion's cubs. Only sensible way.
DOH!
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The last 5 days have been very stressful for me. I need to vent.

I have been extremely ill for the past 9 months and my step kids (2 boys ages 11 and 15) know it. I even left my accounting practice 3 months ago.

Anyway, the youngest one never shuts up...honestly his mouth never stops! He complains and whines about EVERYTHING. Most weekends I feel like crying because his voice literally makes my ears want to bleed.

For over a year now they have been told to put their dishes in the dishwasher after they eat. Those fucking assholes have to be TOLD G'DAMNED MEAL to put the dishes in the sink or they won't do it. They supposedly are very bright kids. They do no pick up after themselves WHAT SO EVER ANY TIME. If they do manage to do something helpful around the house they do it soooooooooo fucking half assed it wasn't even worth the effort they put into it.

The oldest only comes out of his room and off his computer for meals. Then he stays up all nights on the weekend. He'll come downstairs and make himself all these elobrate things to eat and then leave ME the fucking dishes!

I love my husband more than anything, I've tried to talk to him, he tries to make changes, but the kids never do. I feel sooooooooooooooo frustrated and angry I don't know what to do.

They are allowed to live like total and utter pigs at their mom's house because she does not cook or clean.

Talking, taking money out of their allowance and punishing doesn't seem to matter. What can I do!?! I can't take it anymore.

Should I start giving them half asssed meals? Should I feed them on their half assed washed plates? I do their laundry and they throw them all over their room and then complain to their Dad they have no clean clothes.

HELP!!! I have been very ill as well.


Kids today are soooo lazy and so entitled. I feel like running down the street screaming! I'd like to smack the living Hell out of the youngest one, but know I can't.






Arrrrrrrrrrrgggggggggggghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!
 Quoting: ! 62603

Okay this is going to sound stupid, but you are telling them to do stuff without showing them how. They probably don't know the right way to load the dishwasher. They probably don't have a laundry hamper. Boys are clueless about housekeeping unless you explain things to them, the same way you'd have to explain how to shoot a gun to a girl. The things that seem simple to you don't make sense to them. I figured this out by growing up with lots of brothers. All they see is you telling them to do stuff and then getting angry at them. They don't want to be around you. Make things more organized and simple for them. If they don't do something, explain step by step how to do it and ask them if they understand.
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Just dump him and live on your own.

I could not put up with step kids of any kind. Most kids these days are demon like spawn from hell who are spoiled, self centered, and gross.

And none of this "they are being teenagers" business. That's all from t.v. When I was a teen and my sister, we cleaned after ourselves, made our beds, helped around the house, and were never out late or gave worry.

It won't get better. Just leave him for your own mental health. You can find someone without all that garbage.
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I am there, my step brats come over to spend all of our money buying usless thing. They put bugger on the walks trash there room and always snitch on everything they see and do. I don't want them in my house. My husband is great but I hate them brats. Twin boys ugly like their mom.
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I totally sympathise with your dilemma.
I’m married with two children with my wife two, boys 1 and 6.I love them very much. The problem is with my step son there so many issues with him its tearing us apart I was so angry tonight that I told my wife that if I had known what he was like I would have terminated the relationship before the children. Like you my wife will not sort it out he has so many allies with his father, who I incidentally dumped his wife with an 18 month old baby after 9 weeks of marriage. He and his family have been allowed to brain wash the boy to not listen to me .Now there is no trust or relationship between us(him and I)and he’s now in a mess because he’s destroyed all trust and is causing tension .I know what you’re saying “ he can live with his father” that would be great. But his father will not take responsibility for him and comes up with excuses why he can’t. Might have something to do with the woman with whom he lives with, just happens to be the woman he left his wife of 9 weeks for. She doesn’t want her perfect little life with her new baby spoiled by having a fuckin foul, lying, greedy, manipulative kid living in her nice house. So it’s not just you I have it from all sides.
I wish I knew what I know now 8 years ago. Fuckin yeh
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Not anymore. Lazy little bastards. Thank god we only get them every other weekend now.


you sound like a lazy cunt complaining about dishes! those kids should not be allowed to be around YOU!!! i wish i could rat you out!!!
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shiiittt.....I got two step kids also and they are fucking assholes,I would love to slap the shit out of them and their mother......I am ashamed of my step kids, and honestly so is their own father,it leaves me in utter disgust,and no one here that has NEVER had BAD STEP KIDS have NOOOOO room to talk, YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW FUCKING RIODICULOUS THEY CAN BE!!!with there snobby little attitudes and how they want thir fathers attention, so they act like dicks and then I end up getting it all anyways..HA HAHAHAHHHAHA HA and the youngest one plays with his shit, shits on his floor,and does everything that is fucking nasty and the little girl looks JUST LIKE HER UGLY ASS MOTHER ...so EW I'm sorry but she is fucking UGLY I cant help it It makes me feel like a bad person, but I tried having a good relationship ,and at one time I did , but there mental case mom who sees them 52 days a year if she shows up fills their heads with shit so fuck itr I have two beautiful little girls who I love to be with and so does my husband,(the baby is his also) and my 2 yr old he adores,so I got enough with my man and my kids trying with the step-fucks again would just be a waste of time...like who would want to be around them two....well NOT ME!!!!maybe if they would change but as is NO fucking way rant
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Those fucking assholes have to be TOLD G'DAMNED MEAL to put the dishes in the sink or they won't do it.
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You EVIL step mom!! I stopped reading after you called the fucking assholes...bitch!
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Those fucking assholes have to be TOLD G'DAMNED MEAL to put the dishes in the sink or they won't do it.

You EVIL step mom!! I stopped reading after you called the fucking assholes...bitch!
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Have you tried child-abuse yet? blink
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I hear a blackjack is awesome, only leaves bruises, but they feel like they were kicked by a mule, almost leaves tears in my eyes picturing the little shit in a wonderful state of pain.
My little asshole has stolen tons from only me for his bullshit drug habit, even call his mother MOMMY at 21!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Asshole tried to face me down in MY house with 2 of his scum friends, should have seen how fast they all headed for the door when I got my ugly stick and generously offered to beat the fuck out of them all.
Should have heard him announce that he is an ADULT when it was his BD. What a joke.
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Maybe they see your illness as a weakness and take advantage of it. What is the nature of your illness. I have been studying alternative medicine for a few years now.
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Not anymore. Lazy little bastards. Thank god we only get them every other weekend now.


you sound like a lazy cunt complaining about dishes! those kids should not be allowed to be around YOU!!! i wish i could rat you out!!!

May you live in interesting times, maybe then you will understand in your miniscule mind what complete monsters these scum are really like, you have no idea how many of them are very lucky to be alive.




shiiittt.....I got two step kids also and they are fucking assholes,I would love to slap the shit out of them and their mother......I am ashamed of my step kids, and honestly so is their own father,it leaves me in utter disgust,and no one here that has NEVER had BAD STEP KIDS have NOOOOO room to talk, YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW FUCKING RIODICULOUS THEY CAN BE!!!with there snobby little attitudes and how they want thir fathers attention, so they act like dicks and then I end up getting it all anyways..HA HAHAHAHHHAHA HA and the youngest one plays with his shit, shits on his floor,and does everything that is fucking nasty and the little girl looks JUST LIKE HER UGLY ASS MOTHER ...so EW I'm sorry but she is fucking UGLY I cant help it It makes me feel like a bad person, but I tried having a good relationship ,and at one time I did , but there mental case mom who sees them 52 days a year if she shows up fills their heads with shit so fuck itr I have two beautiful little girls who I love to be with and so does my husband,(the baby is his also) and my 2 yr old he adores,so I got enough with my man and my kids trying with the step-fucks again would just be a waste of time...like who would want to be around them two....well NOT ME!!!!maybe if they would change but as is NO fucking way rant
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I truly understand what your saying. I have the three step- children 25 year old,22 and a 12 year old.The worst is the 25 year old daughter she as never gave me a chance. I get along with the 22 year old and the 12 year old believes what he hears from his mom and older sister, were I am giving up myself.Good luck
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Shouldn't have married their father, then.

If they don't clean up after themselves, serve them dinner on their dirty dishes.
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+100

Never married a person with children!!!!!!!!!!

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