I am a Transsexual ask me a question.

OMG, I was going to start a thread like this but you beat me to it Sis!

I am also TS so for anyone willing to ask honest questions that wants a "second opinion" on something I will try to answer as well if it is ok with Nikki.

Anytime my darling!

I guess I'll take turns with Tessa.


that sounds fair :)


Nice to see you Tessa!

At least you are honest and COOL!


I tried living the lie and that almost killed me!

Being honest is easier.

At least you are honest and COOL!


I tried living the lie and that almost killed me!

Being honest is easier.

It has nothing to do with that. It has to do with the fact that she furthers a stereotype and increases the stigma and prejudice that transgender people are the victims of.

Would a black person act like a black-face Vaudeville actor?

I don't take any issue with you having a friend who does that. I think that's great. But yet you market her all the time and constantly make excuses when the fact is it makes prejudice against you stronger.

I wouldn't suggest that Nikki not be proud of her friend because other people might not like what she does. If people want to use it for their own prejudice, that is a flaw in them. That's her friend and she accepts her.

I don't take any issue with you having a friend who does that. I think that's great. But yet you market her all the time and constantly make excuses when the fact is it makes prejudice against you stronger.

I wouldn't suggest that Nikki not be proud of her friend because other people might not like what she does. If people want to use it for their own prejudice, that is a flaw in them. That's her friend and she accepts her.


See if you knew Barbi you would see a friend who will go to great lengths to help you and expect nothing in return.

The reason I hawked her site here before was because she really needs the money she had a Roomie that really put her in a hole money wise.

HOW DO FEEL ABOUT GODS JUDGEMENT COMING FOR YOU....,

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OK, this one's for you Maeve.

I've read, and don't believe or disbelieve, that people pulled strongly in two directions, such as between two ways of life or having a male body with a female mind, have in past lives lived strongly one way and are currently moving in another direction.

Do you think there's any validity to that?

sometimes I feel the exaggerated version of femininity expressed by the transsexual is a male trait.... how the man see a powerful woman. This is not a debt, but can you feel it as woman feels and know this?

And you continue to ignore my point. Give a woman a fish and she eats for a day. Teach her to fish and she eats for a lifetime.

No different than if a black person were to act like a black-face Vaudeville actor just to make a buck.

It just so happens I fell in love with another woman.

In Canada, they would diagnose a man who identifies as a woman but is still sexually attracted to women, as a "Gynophilliac" - one who loves women so much, he wants to be one.

Gender reassignment is no longer recommended for this condition.


But you see I have also dated men as well I'm Pansexual.

I have passed all the Benjmin Standards of Care.

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serious question.... you said you are a lesbian. so as a man(in body) you loved straight women. as a woman, you love lesbian woman.... do you love (in love) transgender woman?????

If a lesbian knows you have a penis is she not repulsed by your manliness????

would not another transgender woman be more suited for you????

I've read, and don't believe or disbelieve, that people pulled strongly in two directions, such as between two ways of life or having a male body with a female mind, have in past lives lived strongly one way and are currently moving in another direction.

Do you think there's any validity to that?


It is true that in cases like mine Ihave a female brain and mostly a male body (even before HRT).

As for past lives I have had the bothas male and female.

serious question.... you said you are a lesbian. so as a man(in body) you loved straight women. as a woman, you love lesbian woman.... do you love (in love) transgender woman?????

If a lesbian knows you have a penis is she not repulsed by your manliness????

would not another transgender woman be more suited for you????


Very complex question and I will try my best to answer.

I love people and I don't care about wether lesbian gay or straight.

As for how lesbians and how they react to my penis... they understand that I'm not what is between my legs and two woman make love far different then say a man and woman do and my penis doesn't get "into the mix" when I make love ... in fact at this point it is rather useless.

My wedding anniversary is coming up. Got any good online sources for quality, sexy, spicy, vampish lingerie?

I don't take any issue with you having a friend who does that. I think that's great. But yet you market her all the time and constantly make excuses when the fact is it makes prejudice against you stronger.

I wouldn't suggest that Nikki not be proud of her friend because other people might not like what she does. If people want to use it for their own prejudice, that is a flaw in them. That's her friend and she accepts her.


See if you knew Barbi you would see a friend who will go to great lengths to help you and expect nothing in return.

The reason I hawked her site here before was because she really needs the money she had a Roomie that really put her in a hole money wise.


And you continue to ignore my point. Give a woman a fish and she eats for a day. Teach her to fish and she eats for a lifetime.

No different than if a black person were to act like a black-face Vaudeville actor just to make a buck.

sometimes I feel the exaggerated version of femininity expressed by the transsexual is a male trait.... how the man see a powerful woman. This is not a debt, but can you feel it as woman feels and know this?