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Kanigo2 User ID: 442313 United States 11/05/2008 02:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Will you beat me with an eel whilst I kiss your feet? Quoting: PoeHaha Poe--- that is pulling an old one outa the closet.. Whoops... Alt+F4 Allows GodLikeProductions User to Check Current score in Thread Dialog. "GLP has some batty shit, but yours takes the fucking biscuit "-Disputed- Hurray for Anarchy! This is the happiest moment of my life. |
NikkiLaVey (OP) User ID: 272356 United States 11/05/2008 02:42 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Do you feel righteous and justified when someone attacks you or treats you inhumanly? I hate to see you abused. It makes me sad for you. Quoting: FreethinkerI knew before I came out there would be people who would attack me and I was ready for it and these people don't bother me .... some of it is rather silly. If we don't help each other who will Dream the Good Dream, Nikki |
The_Venerable User ID: 412220 United States 11/05/2008 02:42 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Or your haters out there can attack me ... I'm use to that here. Quoting: NikkiLaVeyI am very open about who I am and will answer any legitimate questions you might have. Why don't you call yourself transgender instead. Good Question Venerable. Transgender is an umbrella term that includes Crossdtressers and transvestites. Transsexual is more specific. It also marginalizes you into a stereotype. In all honestly, I support transgender people. And I support your right to be who you want to be. But I take issue with you and your pals as you market porn on here and describe yourself as transexual and misrepresent the transgender community. You act like the stereotypical transgender woman that marginalizes who you are or want to be. I am naturally inclined to be suspicious of older transitioners particularly those who have had families earlier in their lives...but understand that I support your right to live your life how you want. That being said, I am uncomfortable with how you carry yourself / present yourself. |
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S. User ID: 543879 United States 11/05/2008 02:44 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So do I! Quoting: NikkiLaVeyNow in many cultures they would say I have two spirits and I would be a holy person. This sent shivers down me back. And it's true! Adjusting perceptions will make this world a better place, for sure for sure! :-) Blessings Nikki! No matter how many cookies you consult, you will find that love is our greatest fortune. ~ Leigh Standley |
NikkiLaVey (OP) User ID: 272356 United States 11/05/2008 02:44 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Or your haters out there can attack me ... I'm use to that here. Quoting: Babe in a BunkerI am very open about who I am and will answer any legitimate questions you might have. When did you realize you were transsexual? I knew when I was about 4 or 5 ... I didn't have a word for it put I couldn't understand why silly grown ups kept saying I was a boy. It must have been hard for you growing up. I can't imagine it was too easy for your family, either. And all I mean by that is that it must have been a confusing ride for everyone. For me it was a living Hell! I lived in fear for almost 1/2 a century I made it though .. many of my sisters don't! If we don't help each other who will Dream the Good Dream, Nikki |
Wonderer User ID: 534029 United States 11/05/2008 02:45 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Completely honest question with no offense meant: Why do transgender folks always seem to be a caricature of the gender they're becoming? I realize this is a stereotype, and I'm not just thinking of RuPaul or Divine, I've met others who seem to dress very flamboyantly, walk flamboyantly, speak with phrases like girlfriend, honey, darling, and have uncommon names like Nikki, Trisha. |
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NikkiLaVey (OP) User ID: 272356 United States 11/05/2008 02:49 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Or your haters out there can attack me ... I'm use to that here. Quoting: The_Venerable 412220I am very open about who I am and will answer any legitimate questions you might have. Why don't you call yourself transgender instead. Good Question Venerable. Transgender is an umbrella term that includes Crossdtressers and transvestites. Transsexual is more specific. It also marginalizes you into a stereotype. In all honestly, I support transgender people. And I support your right to be who you want to be. But I take issue with you and your pals as you market porn on here and describe yourself as transexual and misrepresent the transgender community. You act like the stereotypical transgender woman that marginalizes who you are or want to be. I am naturally inclined to be suspicious of older transitioners particularly those who have had families earlier in their lives...but understand that I support your right to live your life how you want. That being said, I am uncomfortable with how you carry yourself / present yourself. I disagree. Transsexuals don't market porn "Shemales" do. I for one have never done any porn. The fact that I do have a cxlose friend that is a "Shemale" upsets many Transsexuals ... But you know what ... She is a Good Person too, pon is her job and not who she is. If we don't help each other who will Dream the Good Dream, Nikki |
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NikkiLaVey (OP) User ID: 272356 United States 11/05/2008 02:50 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So do I! Quoting: S.Now in many cultures they would say I have two spirits and I would be a holy person. This sent shivers down me back. And it's true! Adjusting perceptions will make this world a better place, for sure for sure! :-) Blessings Nikki! Thank you dear! If we don't help each other who will Dream the Good Dream, Nikki |
Isaac Brock died for us User ID: 535709 Canada 11/05/2008 02:51 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | But you dig chicks? Right? Quoting: NikkiLaVeyI dig people! Their gender is not an issue. It just so happens I fell in love with another woman. In Canada, they would diagnose a man who identifies as a woman but is still sexually attracted to women, as a "Gynophilliac" - one who loves women so much, he wants to be one. Gender reassignment is no longer recommended for this condition. owner of an extensive collection of curios from the exotic orient |
The_Venerable User ID: 412220 United States 11/05/2008 02:52 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I disagree. Transsexuals don't market porn "Shemales" do. I for one have never done any porn. The fact that I do have a cxlose friend that is a "Shemale" upsets many Transsexuals ... But you know what ... She is a Good Person too, pon is her job and not who she is. Quoting: NikkiLaVeyI don't take any issue with you having a friend who does that. I think that's great. But yet you market her all the time and constantly make excuses when the fact is it makes prejudice against you stronger. It's that whole line about give a woman a fish and she eats a day teach a woman to fish and she eats for a lifetime. |
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Fantasia II Koo Koo Ka Choo User ID: 255967 United States 11/05/2008 02:53 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | At least you are honest and COOL! George Orwell was right..Black is White, Up is Down, War is Peace... "Never believe anything until it has been officially denied." Yesterday is history.......Tomorrow a mystery.......Today is a gift......thats why we call it the Present!!! |
NikkiLaVey (OP) User ID: 272356 United States 11/05/2008 02:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Completely honest question with no offense meant: Why do transgender folks always seem to be a caricature of the gender they're becoming? I realize this is a stereotype, and I'm not just thinking of RuPaul or Divine, I've met others who seem to dress very flamboyantly, walk flamboyantly, speak with phrases like girlfriend, honey, darling, and have uncommon names like Nikki, Trisha. Quoting: WondererAhhh See these people fall under the general term "transgendered" which is why I avoid the term except when I am talking to people who know better. RuPaul and Divine are/were Drag Queens they were suppose to be caricaturesand not to be taken serously. If we don't help each other who will Dream the Good Dream, Nikki |
Babe in a Bunker User ID: 539721 United States 11/05/2008 02:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Or your haters out there can attack me ... I'm use to that here. Quoting: NikkiLaVeyI am very open about who I am and will answer any legitimate questions you might have. When did you realize you were transsexual? I knew when I was about 4 or 5 ... I didn't have a word for it put I couldn't understand why silly grown ups kept saying I was a boy. It must have been hard for you growing up. I can't imagine it was too easy for your family, either. And all I mean by that is that it must have been a confusing ride for everyone. For me it was a living Hell! I lived in fear for almost 1/2 a century I made it though .. many of my sisters don't! Good for you, Nikki! Well it seems so real I can see it And it seems so real I can feel it And it seems so real I can taste it And it seems so real I can hear it So why can't I touch it? So why can't I touch it? Twatter: [link to twitter.com] |
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Poe User ID: 284011 United States 11/05/2008 02:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I don't take any issue with you having a friend who does that. I think that's great. But yet you market her all the time and constantly make excuses when the fact is it makes prejudice against you stronger. Quoting: The_Venerable 412220I wouldn't suggest that Nikki not be proud of her friend because other people might not like what she does. If people want to use it for their own prejudice, that is a flaw in them. That's her friend and she accepts her. “Whatever women must do they must do twice as well as men to be thought half as good. Luckily, this is not difficult.” ~ Charlotte Whitton |
NikkiLaVey (OP) User ID: 272356 United States 11/05/2008 02:56 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | But you dig chicks? Right? Quoting: Isaac Brock died for usI dig people! Their gender is not an issue. It just so happens I fell in love with another woman. In Canada, they would diagnose a man who identifies as a woman but is still sexually attracted to women, as a "Gynophilliac" - one who loves women so much, he wants to be one. Gender reassignment is no longer recommended for this condition. But you see I have also dated men as well I'm Pansexual. I have passed all the Benjmin Standards of Care. If we don't help each other who will Dream the Good Dream, Nikki |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 543955 United States 11/05/2008 02:57 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I've read, and don't believe or disbelieve, that people pulled strongly in two directions, such as between two ways of life or having a male body with a female mind, have in past lives lived strongly one way and are currently moving in another direction. Do you think there's any validity to that? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 413608 United States 11/05/2008 02:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | serious question.... you said you are a lesbian. so as a man(in body) you loved straight women. as a woman, you love lesbian woman.... do you love (in love) transgender woman????? If a lesbian knows you have a penis is she not repulsed by your manliness???? would not another transgender woman be more suited for you???? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 148742 United States 11/05/2008 02:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | To your haters: :nanafinger: FUCK YOU, YOU MOTHERFUCKING BIGOTS. :321fu: To you, Nikki: You're cool as hell, always have refreshing things to say, you have an AWESOME positive outlook, and these "people" that criticize you know NOTHING about you. ~markusmaximus |
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The_Venerable User ID: 412220 United States 11/05/2008 02:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I don't take any issue with you having a friend who does that. I think that's great. But yet you market her all the time and constantly make excuses when the fact is it makes prejudice against you stronger. Quoting: PoeI wouldn't suggest that Nikki not be proud of her friend because other people might not like what she does. If people want to use it for their own prejudice, that is a flaw in them. That's her friend and she accepts her. It has nothing to do with that. It has to do with the fact that she furthers a stereotype and increases the stigma and prejudice that transgender people are the victims of. Would a black person act like a black-face Vaudeville actor? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 543955 United States 11/05/2008 02:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I've read, and don't believe or disbelieve, that people pulled strongly in two directions, such as between two ways of life or having a male body with a female mind, have in past lives lived strongly one way and are currently moving in another direction. Do you think there's any validity to that? |
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