I am a Transsexual ask me a question.

any relation to stanton lavey nikki? [link to www.wiolawapress.com]

Well? I would like to know too.

I have a whole herd of friends in the London area and I do plan on going back after my surgery in March I am hoping for summer.

Dita is a GODDESS!

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my nephew---and his friends.

oh man isn't she though? *droolz*

Thanks
Good stuff there. Perfect!

From my perspective...

1. To educate people that this is not something that involves our sexual orientation, it involves our gender identity, it is who we are. My goal in talking about it is to pay it forward and hope that children growing up with the condition today do not run into the same problems I have.
2. Yes (see above answer ;0)
3. No, but I am not afraid of attention either. I am who I am but, I do not go shouting it from the rooftops.
4. I would like you to understand mainly because I think it is important to how you and people who come after you are able to understand the beautiful diversity that is life. I do not ask you to accept it, you have free will and will believe what you want, I unfortunately, have to live with the negative side of those beliefs.
5. No, I did not understand what was wrong for a long time and I would be a biggot myself or at the least a hypocrite to expect anyone else to "get it" without having to live through it.
6. I don't I only answer questions asked of me as honestly as I can, if I am openly posting about my personal side it is only to try and open the eye's of people that have a hard time understanding what we go through.
7. Personally, I educate people so that future generations may have it easier, pay it forward as I said earlier. It might be easy for me to go "stealth" and not talk about it I am to the everyday eye "just another girl" but I seldom take the "easy" road.
8. Not at all. I think the people that would hurl insults at me are the same people that will hurl insults at any other human in order to boost their somewhat fragile and growing ego's. I have learned in accepting who I am that we cannot "force" people to accept others unconditionally, people need to come to that level of maturity and understanding themselves.

I hope that helps a little if there is anything I can do to try and clarify please just ask. I believe we are all different, the key is to embrace those differences and be able to do something constructive with them regardless of the paths we walk down.

too much make up. extra sway in the hips, venomous glare....

God's judgement is one thing, but HUMAN Judgement is
the worst. The God I worship knows this woman from the
inside out. He already knows Her heart. I will not
even suggest that I understand what happens physically
and mentally to a person while in the womb, but I have
seen that there are true instances where the two genders
are somehow mixed up. Please DO NOT judge harshly
our fellow man. READ up on this subject and try to see
this from another perspective. Judgements go BOTH ways.
When you point a finger at some one, there just might
be a bigger one pointing back. I'm not trying
to be a smart *ss, just hoping to help you out.

Peace

Let me see if I can answer this fully.

I do try to educate people here ... this thread is an example of that. I think if people do understand they will except that we are Good People too. I post so many details about my life because that's just me and the way I am ... Imagine stending 1/2 a century living in fear that someone would guess who you really were and now you are free to talk about it.

Everytime I post on a tread someone brings up my Transsexual status when I'm not even talking about it.

I wish I didn't have to put up with the attacks but they have become part of my life I could run and hide or face them and I often try to make jokes about those attacks that is how I deal with them.

good LORD that is some awesome makeup skillz

i'd love to be able to do that

*jealous*

No LaVey isn't my real last name ... when I first started to use it I did it to protect my children.

Many moons ago I knew Anton Levay but never joined his church.

His names Shaun-- makes good money too@ Lucky Chans in Vegas.-- If anyone is there step in and say hi.-- send him my love -Greg

I always picked on him--and give him a hard time..

he loves the hell outa me.

He talks to my mom constantly/..

Wrong!

I was the first transsexual Army officer and teacher and they tried to kill me!

I beat them in a big case at the Pentagon after they sent me a phony discharge.


They hate my guts in Washington!

Kewl I know a lot of drag performers

I wear the same amount of makeup as other woman my age.

Since I use a weelchair it's real hard to sway my hips when moving.

as for my glair in that avatar I was poising and havin' some fum.

Funny I never heard of that case.

Wait I think I know some of the people that work there.

I'll have to check.

Well, you have now!

I did the talk show circuit in the 90's and was a very well known Army officer which pissed them off even more.

I was a friend of the wife of the Sec. of Defense and a high level political analyst.

Diane Schroer is a close friend of mine.

I hate makeup but I also don't like to look "made up" when I wear it so I typically go for the least amount I can get away with. As for swaying the hips, go I wish I hade some hips to sway and that someone was actually paying attention to them, venomous glare, only when I am really pissed off and being Irish look out when that happens because it's not my glare people need to worry about.

In my family non of the woman go to the mail box unless their hair and makeup are done!

Me I will run out for milk or something without makeup but to the mall Heavens No!

What kills me is women that go out to a mall looking like they just rolled out of bed.

I provided information on my case to her attorneys at the ACLU in DC.

BTW you do know I would give someone right leg to look like you!

Cool but as we all know the DoD is very homophobic/transphobic

is that you in your avatar? cuz you still look like a man.

You're such a darlin' Nikki

I served 10 years as a man and 10 years as a woman. Perhaps we'll chat some time.

I was waiting for one of these people to come on board.

ALL have fallen short, bozo...what is YOUR excuse?

Nikki, I don't know why some of us turn out the way we do, but it seems to me that many other behaviors are perhaps more deserving of 'God's judgment' than this. Even you people out there that do no worse than break the speed limit have missed the mark so they should lay off the condemnation.

How better it would be to pray for someone, than to fling s#it at them and condemn them...take care about judgement coming down on your own heads.