I am a Transsexual ask me a question.

Ok Nikki iv'e noticed truly transsexual men usually make prettier women than a lot of biological females.Why do you think that is? Do you put a lot of time into yourself in the morning,you always look so polished in your pics.


A very good question indeed!

Women get to take their gender for granted we can't.

It's not that we are prettier we just work at it harder because we have to.

Well you do good work Nikki,very beautiful.One more teeny weeny question if you don't mind what is your favorite brand of make up whatever you are using is superb.


Lambcome

Thank you dear lady,I am officially ditching the MAC.

Nikki, come on over to London and we will go SHOPPING...they have the most AWESOME clothes and BOOTS over here!


I have a whole herd of friends in the London area and I do plan on going back after my surgery in March I am hoping for summer.

Nikki, come on over to London and we will go SHOPPING...they have the most AWESOME clothes and BOOTS over here!


I have a whole herd of friends in the London area and I do plan on going back after my surgery in March I am hoping for summer.


Ohhhhhhhhh have ya been to Ipswich yet? YOu can come and see me.:)

Are you looking for approval or something? Why are you posting this? Do you feel that by posting this you can be justified in your change?

One of the things I had to get use to was the way men looked at me.

Geeez we are human not a dinner entree

Ok Nikki iv'e noticed truly transsexual men usually make prettier women than a lot of biological females.Why do you think that is? Do you put a lot of time into yourself in the morning,you always look so polished in your pics.


A very good question indeed!

Women get to take their gender for granted we can't.

It's not that we are prettier we just work at it harder because we have to.

Nikki,

I have enjoyed reading about you and I hope that you can answer my sincere questions. Please forgive my ignorance.

1. Are "intersexed" and "she-male" the same thing?

2. How did one meet others of your ilk before the internet?

3. Do churches accept you/ intersexed/ inter-gendered cross dressing etc? After all, god made you the way you are...You can't help it. and if so, who do the churches say it's alright to have sex with? (I use this aginst christian a-holes occasinally)

4. I admire you and I'm happy for you

I got a question....

Can I have a hug?

And thanks for the make-up tip, I'll check it out!

One of the things I had to get use to was the way men looked at me.

Geeez we are human not a dinner entree


lol You should try working as a nurse in a male correctional facility. Lots of times I felt like a piece of meat walking down the sidewalk. But.... yu get used to it and just stare them down.

Ok Nikki iv'e noticed truly transsexual men usually make prettier women than a lot of biological females.Why do you think that is? Do you put a lot of time into yourself in the morning,you always look so polished in your pics.


A very good question indeed!

Women get to take their gender for granted we can't.

It's not that we are prettier we just work at it harder because we have to.


Great answer Nikki!

Seriusly, I have always wondered this: A person is born with aspects of both genders and needs to consult with their religious leader on marriage and love. Any decent, non-judgemental spiritual leader would be baffled on how to answer without consulting a text of some sort. After that, (IMHO) he can only answer with logic. To me this is yet another chink in the armor of religion and it's a biggie. The un-answerable question.

(and yes I know there are ALOT of bad religious figures)

The best answer I have heard from a dogmatic spiritual leader was that god wants you to be with those of your "type", since homosexuality is forbidden by the bible.

Of course, I think that you should be able to be with whoever you like regardless.

I have also heard "God takes care of the sick and deformed" which is not an answer as far as I am concerned.

The argument is that god made you what you are so there has to be someone here for you. No spiritual leader worth a crap can turn you away because of your phyical appearence (though I am sure many would). Everyone should be able to have a family and somebody to love.

I have never been able to reconcile this question with anyone.

Can you give me an idea of what you have heard in yur lifetime with regard to this subject?

Or your haters out there can attack me ... I'm use to that here.

I am very open about who I am and will answer any legitimate questions you might have.

One more question post-op would you tell a man you once you were a man if he didn't ask?


Nope ... Even an OBGYN will have to look close.

Questions, Hmmm let's see

Did you ever go through any " purges" wherein you decided , for one reason or another, be it family, friends, financial, fill in the blank , that you would attempt to live as male , even knowing that you are not?

And speaking of family, how are they taking it?

Apologies if they have been answered before :)

Or your haters out there can attack me ... I'm use to that here.

I am very open about who I am and will answer any legitimate questions you might have.


Is it safe to call you bitchboy?

Seriusly, I have always wondered this: A person is born with aspects of both genders and needs to consult with their religious leader on marriage and love. Any decent, non-judgemental spiritual leader would be baffled on how to answer without consulting a text of some sort. After that, (IMHO) he can only answer with logic. To me this is yet another chink in the armor of religion and it's a biggie. The un-answerable question.

(and yes I know there are ALOT of bad religious figures)

The best answer I have heard from a dogmatic spiritual leader was that god wants you to be with those of your "type", since homosexuality is forbidden by the bible.

Of course, I think that you should be able to be with whoever you like regardless.

I have also heard "God takes care of the sick and deformed" which is not an answer as far as I am concerned.

The argument is that god made you what you are so there has to be someone here for you. No spiritual leader worth a crap can turn you away because of your phyical appearence (though I am sure many would). Everyone should be able to have a family and somebody to love.

I have never been able to reconcile this question with anyone.

Can you give me an idea of what you have heard in yur lifetime with regard to this subject?


Now that is a really hard one.

Rev. Dobson says I'm goin' to Hell no matter what I do I'm Damn for being born this way.

I was Excommunicated from the Catholic Church.

The Methodist church feels we are all god's creatures and accepts me.

I think it is said best by

"There is nothing unclean of itself: but to him that esteemeth any thing to be unclean, to him it is unclean."
(Romans 14:14)

One more question post-op would you tell a man you once you were a man if he didn't ask?


Nope ... Even an OBGYN will have to look close.


It's not the hands that give a tranny away. It's the lack of hips.

Once, under the pretense of wanting to see her new tatoo, I got a tranny to pull down her jeans for me.

What immediately struck me was that her pelvis was shaped wrong. A woman's pelvis is slightly convex, whereas hers was slightly concave.

I thought "Whoa, my face is way to close to a man's crotch!"

Up until then the illusion had been working.

Seriusly, I have always wondered this: A person is born with aspects of both genders and needs to consult with their religious leader on marriage and love. Any decent, non-judgemental spiritual leader would be baffled on how to answer without consulting a text of some sort. After that, (IMHO) he can only answer with logic. To me this is yet another chink in the armor of religion and it's a biggie. The un-answerable question.

(and yes I know there are ALOT of bad religious figures)

The best answer I have heard from a dogmatic spiritual leader was that god wants you to be with those of your "type", since homosexuality is forbidden by the bible.

Of course, I think that you should be able to be with whoever you like regardless.

I have also heard "God takes care of the sick and deformed" which is not an answer as far as I am concerned.

The argument is that god made you what you are so there has to be someone here for you. No spiritual leader worth a crap can turn you away because of your phyical appearence (though I am sure many would). Everyone should be able to have a family and somebody to love.

I have never been able to reconcile this question with anyone.

Can you give me an idea of what you have heard in yur lifetime with regard to this subject?


Now that is a really hard one.

Rev. Dobson says I'm goin' to Hell no matter what I do I'm Damn for being born this way.

I was Excommunicated from the Catholic Church.

The Methodist church feels we are all god's creatures and accepts me.

I think it is said best by

"There is nothing unclean of itself: but to him that esteemeth any thing to be unclean, to him it is unclean."
(Romans 14:14)



Thanks! YOU ROCK!

Or your haters out there can attack me ... I'm use to that here.

I am very open about who I am and will answer any legitimate questions you might have.


Is it safe to call you bitchboy?


Not unless your into pain!

Questions, Hmmm let's see

Did you ever go through any " purges" wherein you decided , for one reason or another, be it family, friends, financial, fill in the blank , that you would attempt to live as male , even knowing that you are not?

And speaking of family, how are they taking it?

Apologies if they have been answered before :)

Questions, Hmmm let's see

Did you ever go through any " purges" wherein you decided , for one reason or another, be it family, friends, financial, fill in the blank , that you would attempt to live as male , even knowing that you are not?

And speaking of family, how are they taking it?

Apologies if they have been answered before :)


Purges...Oh Yeah! I think between the ages of 10 and oh, 30 I went through three major purges, due to the stress of family and societal concerns and having grown up with always being informed of how "evil" "I" was. I tried, really, really tried to repress it, to be the person that everyone wanted me to be. Unfortunately that path ultimately found me waking up in a hospital after driving my car 60mph head on in to a tree just to try and make it all go away. Many years later I am now a happily adjusted (i think some may differ ;)) woman and I know now that had the therapist i went to see when I was 16 actually listened to me when I told him I was a girl I probably would have not gone down that self destructive route, that which does not kill us ultimately makes us stronger as they say though I guess. I guess that is why for me educating people and sharing my story at times is important to me.

My family and extended family is fully aware, my Mom and my two sisters are very wonderfully accepting of me and my Dad although we are still on talking terms really has never come to accept it which makes me sad at times and angry at others.

I hope that airing this "personal" stuff is not offensive to those that wonder why we talk about our personal life and I would never post that just for the heck of it but...since you asked, there ya have it. :)