They are spoiled by the media (sitcoms, reality shows, magazines, internet etc. ...TV in general)

they think that men have to live up to those unrealistic shows, and they love the drama of those shows. they think the unrealistic world is the real world. they've lost their sense for reality. they think it should be like in those tv shows and men should be as perfect as those in the media; but this can never happen because it is fictional...not real.

btw: i'm form europe