Why are YOUNG women so superficial/shallow?

*yawn*

Most people are shallow and superficial and always have been.

The fact that you refer to only young women shows how shallow you are.

What options are you lacking?

The poster above has it ass backwards. I doubt women have changed much over the years but here is what I learned over many years ago.

In my 20's I was skinny scrawny geeky but super nice guy who got a professional degree. Girls/women would say yes to going out, but then stand me up time after time (about 50 times between 22 and 30). After the first 5 to 10 times of being stood up I always called and REconfirmed the date for the weekend on Thursday night ... and STILL time after time I would show up and they were NOT around.

After about 50 times of that I finally gave up even trying to date... women were just inconsiderate selfish bitches. After about a year or so of moping I decided to just act like an ass hole myself, which was hard because it is NOT me. My attitude became, if I could get them to go out at all I would use every trick to get them into bed, and then after a few porks head out the door.

Voila, within 6 months I had women coming out of the woodwork chasing me. The worse I mentally treated them the more there were around to "service" me. (I NEVER engaged in any physical abuse and if some girl ever said NO, or even hinted NO I never forced sex). I was SHOCKED.

Same dorky looking guy ... but the girls/women couldn't get enough of me.

My conclusion? Girls/women do NOT want to be treated nice. They WANT to be treated as Sex Objects. In fact girls/women WANT a guy to treat them like they are Disposable Sex Objects and that he can get another one to replace them at the drop of a hat with no trouble at all, and to reinforce thought that he needs to do that to each of them at least once.

Sure they will be MAD about you sleeping with another woman while you were sleeping with them ... but they will come crawling back. Some will crawl back more quickly than others, the longest it ever took for me was one year for one, though usually a few weeks is all it takes (during which time you just go out and have a grand time with other women).

Another lesson I leared: As for married women ... MOST who have any looks at all are going to play around on their hubby at some point in time, though of course they will deny deny deny (they do lie better than guys do, I will give them that). NEVER expect any woman you date or even fall in love with you to be sexually faithful over the long run. She IS going to play around. The question is only when and how much, NOT IF.

I lost my respect for women when I discovered those aspects of women. I also started having a LOT more fun when I stopped treating them as some sort of equivalent human being and started treating them as the lower life form I concluded that they were (it is definitely MORE fun to have a coupld of women you are dating than to be going through being stood up monthly). FUN to be around, but like a dog, they are NOT on the same plane of existance as you are and never will be.

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WHY do women CRAVE being treated as Sex Objects, Sex Objects that can easily be replaced by another woman? I have really scratched my head over that one for years since it makes no logical sense to me, though that is the way IT IS.

I finally concluded that maybe 70% is due to the sub-conscicious driving them to pro-create above all else, survival of the species and all that jazz, but the other 30% is how women are socialized in society with it's emphasis on Looks, Makeup, Party Lifestyles, ie: make themselves as a desirable OBJECT for males. Give em the lines of BS that their brains have been conditioned to upon hearing say to them ... "OH he is a desirable sex mate" ... and voila even if any limited logic would tell them the line of crap you are feeding them is complete BS they will eat it up time after time.

Strange but true. I wish it wasn't so since personally I CRAVE the deeper thinking type of person, but alas it is.

Older but wiser

Why are YOUNG women so superficial/shallow?

*yawn*

Most people are shallow and superficial and always have been.

The fact that you refer to only young women shows how shallow you are.

Instead of posting all these stupid asshole whiney "boo hoo, women evyyyyyyyylllllllll" threads, why do you get off the computer and find a bathhouse where thousands of men just like you want their pole smoked. Get your queer angst out somewhere else. Fucktard loser.

No one trusts anyone anymore and you shouldn't because your partner is fucking their ex on facebook, seriously.

I'm 38.

I'm tired of old bastards that think 16 YO girls are supposed to fall in love with their hateful old ass, and that's not going to happen. In the past, when women were slaves they were forced into those types of "relationships", but it's the nature of girls to be playful.

You really need to find someone around 30 if you want to be serious. Young girls are just that, GIRLS, they haven't fully developed and like to try on different hats until they settle down. Why do you have such a problem with that?

A BLUNT MESSAGE TO MEN

You men were designed by God to benevolently rule the Creation. You were designed to first; rule yourselves, your lust, your covetousness and your behavior; then, having properly ruled your own lust, you were designed to benevolently rule over that which God has placed under you. However, your lust has enslaved you. Your unwillingness to abstain from your sexual desires has made you into a lower animal, a mere beast, rather than a man. Your beastly behavior has robbed you of your birthright, your honor, your power and your authority. You cannot stand on your own two feet because you have become a dog and not a man. I speak to you as a dog because you have become a dog. No dog is fit to rule God’s creation, and neither will any dog inherit the Kingdom designed for redeemed men from the foundation of the world. Your life is miserable and your culture is fallen because YOU cannot control yourself. Just once let God’s servants take control over their sexual behavior, and they will also once again be seated properly on the throne that God has provided for them. If you are a Christian, God has called you a King and a Priest of the Most High God, but you are only a King if you have properly ruled yourself. You are only a King if your subjects do not rule over you. You are only a King if you have not bought the “50-50” power-sharing lie. You are a King when you benevolently and Biblically rule over that which God has given you. Until such time as you rise up and put off your beastly behavior, you will be nothing but a slave, and the worst kind of slave at that, a slave to a woman who evidently has no respect for you… only disdain.

A VAGINA DIALOGUE

I hate to use offensive verbiage, but it is necessary and no worse than that vocabulary that spills forward from the modern culture… that same culture that has used the sexuality of a woman to enslave men. The wicked and ungodly worship of women, of sex, of harlotry has turned the man into an animal, and it is to these men that I address this rebuke. Your father, Adam, put a woman before God and lost everything he was given and brought death upon all men. Can you not see that this is the same wickedness that prevails in your culture, in your worldview and even in your homes? Ask yourself why God uses the shadow-picture of the woman as the fulfillment of all that entraps and seduces man? Why, you have become a dog and you don’t even know it! Let me speak plainly to you for awhile; maybe I can talk some sense into you.

You men out there who call yourselves “christian”, I’m speaking to you. Why do you learn the ways of male/female relationships from the world? Why do you partake of ungodly and unbiblical mating rituals like “dating” and “going out”, when the Bible knows nothing of these concoctions? Why do you put your hands on Canaanite women? Why do you take them to yourselves as wives? Why do you look on them with lust instead of scorn and derision? Is not the Holy Spirit of God within you? Has God not asked you to come out from among HER and be ye separate? Isn’t the admonition to abstain from ungodly women throughout all of scripture? I don’t have to scold and rebuke women to ask them to quit dressing like whores and seducers; why, if you men would refuse to play their game, if you would refuse to look upon them except with sadness and pity… they would soon have to change their tune AND their clothing. Yes, it is true that women even dress inappropriately and immodestly in churches and in home groups. Yes, it is true that they often dress like the Canaanite women and unbelievers. Why should you be shocked? Where are their leaders? Where is their head? You will not lead them because you are too busy sniffing around them as if you were a dog in heat. You follow them wherever they go. Is there any doubt that they will lead you around by the nose if you act like a base beast? Stand up on your feet man! You’ve been enslaved by a silly chemical release in your brain. You’ve been enslaved by a physical act that has no eternal benefit to you. You look down in disdain at crack addicts and coke-heads, while you slither around in the dust of the earth for a chemical release that isn’t any different. You think you have to have sex? You think you have to have a woman’s attention in order to function? You are under a curse, man! I will tell you this… The day you stand up on your feet and act like a Godly man, you will find that God will lift that part of the curse off of you.



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I posted it in another topic today, but here is the basic for how guys are judged by the other gender. First is looks, if you don't have the right look then a guy better show he has wealth by wearing expensive clothes or driving an expensive car. Second is personality, if he passes the looks test, he must have a great personality, if he don't pass looks and don't flaunt wealth, he is toast. Third, wealth, wealth can override looks, but not so much personality, but it is a preference. The absence of all three is a no go.

A MESSAGE TO WOMEN


Eve was the cause of the fall of mankind. Woman was deceived then, and women are deceived now.

And it seems that your "job" is to continue your history of luring and enticing man into sin.

Whether you realize it or not, you are under a curse yourself, and will not be held without guilt, for every time you manipulated and seduced a man into sin.


This has been a public service announcement.

Another blind Nethertard who thinks things have always been like they are now.

Must be a lot of Fluoride in your water over there.

I am a young 23 year old women.

Why do you think I am shallow?

I was a very popular cheerleader back in high school, had a large social group, always interested in History, Physics, Mythology, Chemistry, people and their feelings.

Always was in the mood to work and have worked always, partied smoked weed and still do on weekends. Always in the mood for a concert or a nice club.

I always talked to elders, heard their voice and teachings, loved to debate more philosophical. Learned 4 languages by 11, read countless books... Went out with cute boys, and acted silly and stupid...

Isn't that just a phase we all go through in life, evolution, learning... Women and men yes it is more confusing now to discover who you really are but never the less we do as women and men.

So it is society that is making it hard to come about into adulthood as women or men, we stay confused and disoriented longer into our puberty years. But not just women also men.

Women are more shallow today about their image and relationships.

Men are more shallow about their image (behavior, beliefs), communication and fear. And mostly these label do not apply as it is individual relevant only, however these are the labels that media advertises.

So really it's not about young women being so shallow/superifical it's about you not having options?

Girls are judged in a similar way:
First is looks as well youth may be a factor.
Second is personality as well.
Third is sexual history for some. Sexual history being not a slut by whatever number he determines.

A common factor for some is being a single mother that negate any of the three previous.

Kids disrespect elders and then turn to themselves for the anwers. Without much experience, they have to go on whatever pops into their heads. That makes them shallow.

Not to mention that there is a whole culture of being shallow. Judgements are based on images and not careful obeservations of character. Entertainment is based on images and not feelings or enlightnemnet.

I am sure there are some young people with depth who are even overlooked, just as the elders and their depth are overlooked. People just don't seem to care about depth. They want what is fast and fun and mindless. They pursue that over what is lasting and strong and true.

It could also be from the concept of evolution as taught in the schools and in science. If changing randomely is considered a virture, then people have no need to develop their characters. They just hope to change in some helpless way and call that an improvement.

Part of it must be that they are trying to conform and fit into a society that is selfish and self absorbed. If there is no room for them to be taken seriously, they just turn to frivolity for distraction.

Character is something that used to be praised and worked at. Now people with character are seen as judgemental or some other undesirable way. Knowing right from wrong is enough to have others accuse you of persecuting them any more.

That or they call you crazy for having morals. It is just a decaying society all around.

Why are YOUNG women so superficial/shallow?

Go for the cougars, dude. They don't yell, they don't swell, and they're forever grateful.

Another blind Nethertard who thinks things have always been like they are now.

Must be a lot of Fluoride in your water over there.

They are spoiled by the media (sitcoms, reality shows, magazines, internet etc. ...TV in general)

they think that men have to live up to those unrealistic shows, and they love the drama of those shows. they think the unrealistic world is the real world. they've lost their sense for reality. they think it should be like in those tv shows and men should be as perfect as those in the media; but this can never happen because it is fictional...not real.

btw: i'm form europe

Why are YOUNG women so superficial/shallow?