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How can people be so hateful and mean?? (vent)

 
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How can people be so hateful and mean?? (vent)
My brother got a big surprise after his stbx moved out. They took everything, except for a couch and a small tv. Did not even leave a bed for him to sleep in. Plus, they stuffed the mailbox FULL of garbage!! And when going into his teenage step son's room, he removed 4 inches of garbage off the already destroyed carpet. Once he ripped up the carpet, he discovered large urine stains (there are no pets). How can people do such horrid things? What is wrong with people who do such crappy things to others?? The sad part about it he had a child with this woman, and now she is trying to take her away from him completely (wants full custody) and has already in the past year been practicing parental alienation to get the daughter away from my brother.

My brother has done nothing. NOTHING to deserve this type of treatment. He has always been a faithful spouse, good husband AND good father. And he worked hard so she could run up her credit cards into the thousands (I am talking like 40+k here). Back when SHE was living in a small two room apartment with small children, he allowed her to move into his larger 3 bedroom NEW home because he felt sorry for them. Then he marries her (against everyone's wishes as she did the I am preggo thing when she really wasn't preggo). Any how, now he is paying for everything thing he tried to do for this woman.
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Wake up calls can be a real pain. There had to be obvious signs though, but love has a way of blinding people to the truth (been there, done that).
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03/25/2009 08:06 PM
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Re: How can people be so hateful and mean?? (vent)
just remember there are 2 sides to every story.
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03/25/2009 08:11 PM
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SOME PEOPLE SUCK AND JUST BE SURE THAT KARMA WILL BITE THE SUCKY PEOPLE!
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sorry you and your family are hurting.....

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03/25/2009 08:15 PM
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I don't even know if I would call this hateful. This is just childish. Did he report it?
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03/25/2009 08:18 PM
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just remember there are 2 sides to every story.
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Her side of the story is she became addicted to world of warcraft and met some guy online. If you knew her, knew her story and her sorted past you know this is her M.O.

The reason she was mad was because she spent TWO years trying to get my brother out of the house because she did not want to be married anymore (she didn't tell him she didn't want to be married anymore until last may). My own mom caught her telling the kids to do bad things to piss my brother off to make him miserable enough that he would move out. She even told him last year to get out and move back to his parents (that didn't work, HA!!!). He refused and stood his ground. AND his step son even VANDALIZED his house last year because my brother yelled at him for almost setting the house on fire (that's another story). She didn't punish the kid for vandalism (however his father did and took him back full time). Now if you had built a home - would you leave it because someone else wanted you to???
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I don't even know if I would call this hateful. This is just childish. Did he report it?
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Not yet, however he did take pictures as the garbage in the mailbox is vandalism of government property.
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SOME PEOPLE SUCK AND JUST BE SURE THAT KARMA WILL BITE THE SUCKY PEOPLE!
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I sure HOPE that KARMA will get her and bite her back.
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03/25/2009 08:21 PM
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At this point he needs an even meaner, more evil divorce lawyer.
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sorry you and your family are hurting.....

xoxo~!
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Thanks so much.

Especially my parents - my mom is taking this extremely hard as she is worried about her grand daughter (who is only 7 years old). My mom is also worried that this woman will take the child thousands of miles away (which is what the step son said was going to happen once he turns 18 she is going to move to another state to be with her BF).
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I don't even know if I would call this hateful. This is just childish. Did he report it?
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Childish is right. My seven year old daughter did something similar to our next door neighbors place while they were on vacation. She knew where the front door key was. They were so pissed when they can back and found the mess that they did not fix her an ice creme sundae for 2 or 3 days.
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03/25/2009 08:27 PM
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Tell Judge Judy
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I don't even know if I would call this hateful. This is just childish. Did he report it?


Childish is right. My seven year old daughter did something similar to our next door neighbors place while they were on vacation. She knew where the front door key was. They were so pissed when they can back and found the mess that they did not fix her an ice creme sundae for 2 or 3 days.
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bump
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My brother got a big surprise after his stbx moved out. They took everything, except for a couch and a small tv. Did not even leave a bed for him to sleep in. Plus, they stuffed the mailbox FULL of garbage!! And when going into his teenage step son's room, he removed 4 inches of garbage off the already destroyed carpet. Once he ripped up the carpet, he discovered large urine stains (there are no pets). How can people do such horrid things? What is wrong with people who do such crappy things to others?? The sad part about it he had a child with this woman, and now she is trying to take her away from him completely (wants full custody) and has already in the past year been practicing parental alienation to get the daughter away from my brother.

My brother has done nothing. NOTHING to deserve this type of treatment. He has always been a faithful spouse, good husband AND good father. And he worked hard so she could run up her credit cards into the thousands (I am talking like 40+k here). Back when SHE was living in a small two room apartment with small children, he allowed her to move into his larger 3 bedroom NEW home because he felt sorry for them. Then he marries her (against everyone's wishes as she did the I am preggo thing when she really wasn't preggo). Any how, now he is paying for everything thing he tried to do for this woman.
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because they get there kicks out of it and they enjoy herting others ....
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03/25/2009 08:44 PM
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Maybe she reached a point in her spiritual growth where she realized that material things are of no importance. Don't worry about the things of this world! What is a house? A pile of sticks nailed together. It's nothing that lasts. Why not piss on the carpet? What is a carpet? Is it anything important? No.
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I wonder this too, most days. Pitiful.
My best to your family.
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Re: How can people be so hateful and mean?? (vent)
Look, I am sorry about your pain and unhappiness, but still the short answer is this woman is Godless as are all who are mean spirited.

This life is a test. The test is to see if we can figure out how to live around others without harm or envy to them. Harm may be physical, mental, or spiritual.

Fail to get it and the next life will actually be the second death from which there is no return.

There is only one law with God. Man complicated it all but it breaks down so easily.

Do unto others as you would have them do unto you; right there on the spot at that time. That is the reason you're here and what you would be well to understand and live up to in this life.
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Your brother won in the end! Thank heaven! And he'll continue to win. The "Crazy Ex" will get it in the end. She and her evil brats will wind up with exactly what they deserve. Nothing! Women like that soon loose their looks and the ability to attract men at all.

You brother should consider turning the vandalism and destruction of the house into his insurance company. He does not "KNOW" for certain who did this to his home. He only knows he discovered it! Let the homeowners insurance company figure it out while they're paying for new carpet and cleaning services, etc. etc. He's paid premiums for years and it may have been someone who entered the house after the ex moved out. He only guesses it's her and her children. But in this instance, it's better to keep his mouth shut and just tell what he does know: ie: that he came back and discovered it in this ruined, damaged, and vandalized condition. NOTHING MORE! And in truth, this is all he does really KNOW for a fact. Everything else is speculation on his part as he did not see it take place.

I hope he got a judge to stop that bitch using her/their joint credit cards and bank accounts! He needs to cut his losses as soon as possible.

Women like this are the reason that some men choose homicide rather than divorce - and in some cases it's a perfectly rational (although still illegal) choice!
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Maybe she reached a point in her spiritual growth where she realized that material things are of no importance. Don't worry about the things of this world! What is a house? A pile of sticks nailed together. It's nothing that lasts. Why not piss on the carpet? What is a carpet? Is it anything important? No.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 642783


She hasn't had any spiritual growth whatsoever. She is a person of marginal moral character.

Sure a house is a pile of sticks nailed together. However, it is going to cost my brother $$$$$$ which he really doesn't have to repair the damage in order to sell the home. So he has to work double at his job and come home AND do all the drywall repair, floor replacements, cleaning AND painting in order to fix it. He is beyond exhausted emotionally and physically.
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... cuz them kinda folks just don't like themselves very much a'tall.
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Your brother won in the end! Thank heaven! And he'll continue to win. The "Crazy Ex" will get it in the end. She and her evil brats will wind up with exactly what they deserve. Nothing! Women like that soon loose their looks and the ability to attract men at all.

You brother should consider turning the vandalism and destruction of the house into his insurance company. He does not "KNOW" for certain who did this to his home. He only knows he discovered it! Let the homeowners insurance company figure it out while they're paying for new carpet and cleaning services, etc. etc. He's paid premiums for years and it may have been someone who entered the house after the ex moved out. He only guesses it's her and her children. But in this instance, it's better to keep his mouth shut and just tell what he does know: ie: that he came back and discovered it in this ruined, damaged, and vandalized condition. NOTHING MORE! And in truth, this is all he does really KNOW for a fact. Everything else is speculation on his part as he did not see it take place.

I hope he got a judge to stop that bitch using her/their joint credit cards and bank accounts! He needs to cut his losses as soon as possible.

Women like this are the reason that some men choose homicide rather than divorce - and in some cases it's a perfectly rational (although still illegal) choice!
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 642285


The damage in the one bedroom WAS caused by the step son as he lived there up till May and the room (and the house) has already been photographed as evidence. Step son also, last May, wrote profanities and phalises on the walls downstairs with black spray paint and glued a box of tiles to the floor which my brother had to repair all the damage. And the recent stuffing of the mailbox with garbage AND silly string left all over what used to be the step son's room it is pretty obviously he did it (or her) because it was done on the day they moved out (brother was working when it happened).

I will mention about the insurance and see if brother can turn it in.

He already got rid of the only joint credit card they had together back in 2007 after he discovered she had run up $20k on that one (she's got more debt on her other credit cards in her own name).

And my brother just found out that she bankrupted her first husband back in the 90's - during that short marriage she had 15 credit cards with debt on it in the thousands. So this woman is looking for someone rich so she can continue on her out of control spending spree. She has pretty much bankrupted my brother (the lawyer told him he's basically bankrupt).
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just remember there are 2 sides to every story.
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Yeah right, trashing his house. What could be a legitimate reason for that. My ex acted like that as well, some people are just borderline mentally ill, all the signs are there but it doesn't come out fully until a stress event like the end of the relationship.
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It helps me to believe in reicarnation and karma.

Just imagine:

People like her may get reincarnated as cows.
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Enjoy eating a hamburger while thinking that!
disgusted (OP)
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Look, I am sorry about your pain and unhappiness, but still the short answer is this woman is Godless as are all who are mean spirited.

This life is a test. The test is to see if we can figure out how to live around others without harm or envy to them. Harm may be physical, mental, or spiritual.

Fail to get it and the next life will actually be the second death from which there is no return.

There is only one law with God. Man complicated it all but it breaks down so easily.

Do unto others as you would have them do unto you; right there on the spot at that time. That is the reason you're here and what you would be well to understand and live up to in this life.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 642760


"Do unto others as you would have them do unto you"

Exactly. Unfortunately, people seem to forget about this!

Your post is very well said!

My brother has a LONG road to go yet, he has to go to court to get the judge to settle the custody thing (he wants joint, she wants full custody). And she wants money out of their house when they sell it - in reality, there is nothing left as it has been maxed out from over refinancing due to her credit card spending sprees.
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OP,

That is awful! I'm sorry for your
brother and for you and your family!
Decent people (these days) are
walking bulls-eye.

My brother exprienced the same thing
but not quite that hostile, she
took everything, when he came home
even the light bulbs and toilet
paper were removed. We tried to
tell him before he married, but
wouldn't listen.
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Re: How can people be so hateful and mean?? (vent)
It helps me to believe in reicarnation and karma.

Just imagine:

People like her may get reincarnated as cows.
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Enjoy eating a hamburger while thinking that!
 Quoting: himself



LMAO!!!!

Actually, she is already a cow as she eats like one and looks like one (supersized mcdonald's meals etc).
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OP,

That is awful! I'm sorry for your
brother and for you and your family!
Decent people (these days) are
walking bulls-eye.

My brother exprienced the same thing
but not quite that hostile, she
took everything, when he came home
even the light bulbs and toilet
paper were removed. We tried to
tell him before he married, but
wouldn't listen.
 Quoting: impetigo 519854


Walking bulleyes, exactly! And they take advantage of his meekness and good heartedness. It is sickening.
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OP,

That is awful! I'm sorry for your
brother and for you and your family!
Decent people (these days) are
walking bulls-eye.

My brother exprienced the same thing
but not quite that hostile, she
took everything, when he came home
even the light bulbs and toilet
paper were removed. We tried to
tell him before he married, but
wouldn't listen.


Walking bulleyes, exactly! And they take advantage of his meekness and good heartedness. It is sickening.
 Quoting: disgusted 616528



I agree. Good people have always come under attack, but these days the attacks seem to be extreme.

I don't know how to protect yourself, other than developing a strong prayer life. Doing that will also bring you strength and consolation.

I'm very sorry your family is suffering!
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The sad part about it he had a child with this woman, and now she is trying to take her away from him completely
 Quoting: disgusted! 616528


My advice to your brother is:
Fight for the child.
Keep pictures and get witnesses who will verify, and sign affidavits.
File a police report, and start building a case for custody.
Keep your words and actions impeccable, and never 'trash' the mother in front of the child- her (the mother's) actions/ words will reveal who she is- ie. she'll do herself in with her own behaviour.
Focus on a bigger plan- on the future of your role as father to your child.
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