If you've ever seen it, you don't feel the need to defend it. You know the absolute love. It feels like your chest explodes with love. It is indescribable. You also see that he knows you in and out, without a word being said, and anything you've said or done in your life doesn't matter. He may not approve, but he loves you anyway. My body tingled with "electricity" for 3 days after I saw Him. I tried to describe it to friends and family, but no one believed me. That was 15 years ago.