I keep obsessing about all the shitty things I've done in my life


Whats up with that, thats all I do too. Every memory I have, I see something I did to be an asshole. I'm glad its not just me.


This isn't as tough to deal with as it seems, and I'm not being all holier-than-thou, I know because I was that arsehole.

Like I said earlier, but in more depth: assess what you think you "did wrong" in the past; plan a better way of dealing or coping with things/situations/life, determine to be that way and forgive yourself for your past indiscretions. Even if people think you're the same arsehole you were in the past, you will know better.


Yeah, I need to forgive myself. I can't keep punishing myself everyday. It's wearing me down. I'm a changed person now. It's time to move on



Believe me, you can't figure it out by sitting and thinking, because I tried. Talk about long suffering. Sireen is right. You have to get moving and that will help you figure it out. Don't rush into a relationship, until you're ready.