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I'm Afraid of Emotional Attachment...

 
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04/18/2009 04:41 AM
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I'm Afraid of Emotional Attachment...
Is anyone else like this?

I recently got involved with a girl, it's been about 3 years since I've last done so, but being with this girl has reminded me that I am indeed afraid of being emotionally attached to other people. I'm afraid of getting hurt and am also afraid of hurting others.

Every time it seems that I get involved with someone on an emotional level, namely girls, I try and find a way out of it. I'm not sure if I am an empath or not, but over the years I have learned to suppress my emotions as they have always worked against me and in the end have hurt me and the girl that I have feelings towards.

And as it figures, it has happened to me again. I have become attached to a girl that I know I cannot make happy due to us being in totally different circumstances in our lives. It seems like the only reason for my emotional existence in the first place is to learn how to turn those very same emotions off. I have often asked myself what the results would be for becoming totally emotionally detached from the outside world, these questions have led me to a life of solitude and social emptiness. I am most comfortable by myself and do not like being around other people. I'm a pretty good looking guy, I'm nice, I can attract people around me, I just don't like doing so. I have no sexual desire anymore, it seems like that stage of my life is over and I need something more, like a spiritual attachment. I don't want to hurt people, but it seems like a requirement of this place.

I am a lone wolf, wandering in search of a destination that does not seem attainable.

Am I the only one?
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04/18/2009 04:47 AM
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Re: I'm Afraid of Emotional Attachment...
you described me, a lone cat though
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04/18/2009 04:54 AM
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I am going to refrain from espousing intellectual thought on this matter. It would amount to a dissertation.

The conclusion is is this: Your soul requires its Creator.

Creator of the universe, God himself, namely Jesus Christ our kin, our kinsmen redeemer, our friend. There is no other intellectual, emotional, and spiritual fulfillment beyond this.

Anything else is blatant Gnostic/Fallen-Watcher theology.

A counterfeit.

Good day, Sir.
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04/18/2009 05:00 AM
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wh dont you stay outta the sack .then yur nerves will not be wrecked after short relationship . get fixed . it protects your future income from court ordered child support payment for your intire life; Then another man will not get stuck supporting yur kid for awhile after your relationship or marriage break ups.. single and divorced head of househld moms have always continued to be the poorest social group across america..regardless of race.. da gals get a clue ..new guys do not stick for long to raise your ex boyfriends kid .these kids are in the way to new boyfriends.. gals get dam clue.. tubal ligations will maintain your freedom to come and go all during your life, as you please, it further guards your future incomes for life. since couples just break up all the time now.. and the moms hit poverty real fast with break ups ..
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I am going to refrain from espousing intellectual thought on this matter. It would amount to a dissertation.

The conclusion is is this: Your soul requires its Creator.

Creator of the universe, God himself, namely Jesus Christ our kin, our kinsmen redeemer, our friend. There is no other intellectual, emotional, and spiritual fulfillment beyond this.

Anything else is blatant Gnostic/Fallen-Watcher theology.

A counterfeit.

Good day, Sir.
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Sorry, but I've been through the whole Jesus/Christian/Religion thing. Not for me.
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04/18/2009 05:05 AM
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04/18/2009 07:30 AM
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Re: I'm Afraid of Emotional Attachment...
Not afraid of emotional attachment.

Last Edited by himself on 04/18/2009 01:04 PM
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04/18/2009 07:32 AM
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Re: I'm Afraid of Emotional Attachment...
maybe your really a lone homo cat that doesn't know it.
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04/18/2009 07:42 AM
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R...

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04/18/2009 07:45 AM
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Hi there,

Have you ever thought it might be something like 'an inner voice' that had you trodden this path?
Of course; that emotional attachment anxiety which started it, grew out of negative previous experiences. But might it not have been the stimulus to 'force' you on your right path?

You see, attachment in a relation type way (passionate, or friendship) has different facades on different planes of consciousness.
When your polarized on the physical plane, you're focussed on sexual satisfaction.
When your consciousness is focussed mainly on the emotional, you tend to seek 'love', that passionate stuff movies talk about :P
When the mental plane is your focal point of awareness, you'd resonate with someone whose mindset, way of thinking, corresponds with yours. You'd be eroused intellectualy, and the rest will follow.
Even higher, on the soul plane, you'll find your soulmate...

You see, the further you evolve, the less likely it is you'll find a partner in life. Your uniqueness is developing, and there are ever fewer people like you...

Socially seen, you have such an own way of living, behaving and thinking, that that of others don't interest you as much.

You've outgrown the emotional plane, that of illusional feelings. Beyond that is a vast plane of loneliness, where you further crystallize yóur way of thinking, of life, and where few people interest you, correspond with you.

Do what 'feels' best, what you're most into on that particular moment. Maybe you'll stay lonesome like this for long. It is your own responsibility and challenge to not feel lonely, but grasp this phase as a chance to consolidate your uniqueness in life.

And always; you're never alone! We've met.

*spoiler* Your lonesomeness will bring you to awareness of unity of all men on the inner planes...you'll then KNOW you're never alone, but always all-one...

Enjoy.

R.
"A strange game. The only winning move is not to play." - 'Wargames'

"This world is more like a mystery, trapped in a conundrum, spun by a paradox." - AC1118155
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04/18/2009 07:57 AM
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Re: I'm Afraid of Emotional Attachment...
I think you're lacking in self-esteem. You feel that you don't deserve to be in a loving relationship with someone, and therefore look for excuses why it cannot work, without even giving it a go.

All emotional problems are the result of blocked energy in the body. Research Chakras. You have seven main Chakras, which control the flow of energy through your body. These can be completely blocked, open to some degree, or overactive. The key is to get these energy systems fully balanced. When one is blocked, the others can also become blocked.

There is plenty of information on how to activate your Chakras. Meditation, EFT, Crytals, Colour/Sound therapy, etc. Stay off drink, drugs and that means medication. Eat healthy and get exercise.

Once your Chakras are activated and in the right balance, all emotional problems will be fixed. It is as simple as that. I know, I have completely changed my state of mind around over the last 6 months by doing the above.
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04/18/2009 11:00 AM
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Re: I'm Afraid of Emotional Attachment...
Hi there,

Have you ever thought it might be something like 'an inner voice' that had you trodden this path?
Of course; that emotional attachment anxiety which started it, grew out of negative previous experiences. But might it not have been the stimulus to 'force' you on your right path?

You see, attachment in a relation type way (passionate, or friendship) has different facades on different planes of consciousness.
When your polarized on the physical plane, you're focussed on sexual satisfaction.
When your consciousness is focussed mainly on the emotional, you tend to seek 'love', that passionate stuff movies talk about :P
When the mental plane is your focal point of awareness, you'd resonate with someone whose mindset, way of thinking, corresponds with yours. You'd be eroused intellectualy, and the rest will follow.
Even higher, on the soul plane, you'll find your soulmate...

You see, the further you evolve, the less likely it is you'll find a partner in life. Your uniqueness is developing, and there are ever fewer people like you...

Socially seen, you have such an own way of living, behaving and thinking, that that of others don't interest you as much.

You've outgrown the emotional plane, that of illusional feelings. Beyond that is a vast plane of loneliness, where you further crystallize yóur way of thinking, of life, and where few people interest you, correspond with you.

Do what 'feels' best, what you're most into on that particular moment. Maybe you'll stay lonesome like this for long. It is your own responsibility and challenge to not feel lonely, but grasp this phase as a chance to consolidate your uniqueness in life.

And always; you're never alone! We've met.

*spoiler* Your lonesomeness will bring you to awareness of unity of all men on the inner planes...you'll then KNOW you're never alone, but always all-one...

Enjoy.

R.
 Quoting: R...


Needed this.

Thanks.
R...

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04/18/2009 11:27 AM
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Re: I'm Afraid of Emotional Attachment...
hf
"A strange game. The only winning move is not to play." - 'Wargames'

"This world is more like a mystery, trapped in a conundrum, spun by a paradox." - AC1118155

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