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Serious thread ... need GLP help and advice before I snap ...
Okay, guys, here's the situation ... my wife and I have been married, happily most of the time, for 15 years ... about 7 years ago, my wife became chronically ill with an as-yet (yeah, really) undiagnosed disease ... in the beginning of this, things weren't too bad ... she had a lot less energy, and we arranged our lives accordingly ... but over the past three years, she has taken a definitive downturn that includes lots of musculoskeletal pain ... the majority of her days are spent just "getting by" ... she's ridden with guilt that she's a wife and mother in name only ... and frustrated that her life has been taken from her ... in some ways, she's worse off than someone who's lying in a bed comatose, because she's forced to watch her life pass by her ... my children and I do our best everyday to make sure she knows she's still a part of our family and love her for who she is and who she dreamed of being ... of course, we all can't help but grieve the loss of her, though she's still in our presence ...

Now, this next part is selfish, I admit ... yet it isn't, because it's just nature ... as you can imagine, my wife and I have not had any kind of physical relationship for some time ... years now ... I'm a pretty strong period, though, and this situation has not gotten the best of me ... until lately ... you see, my daughter started her period about a year ago ... SETTLE DOWN -- I AM NOT HORNY FOR MY KID, SO I AM NOT A PERVERT ... and ever month, around the time she's ovulating, her pheromones (see link below) drive me through the roof ... for about a week, it's all I can do to even be in the house ... as the months wear on, I just don't know what to do anymore ... I'm really boxed in ... I don't want to have an affair ... I don't want to hire a hooker ... I don't want a "friend with benefits" ... I don' want to molest my kid ... my only real option is masturbation -- but that's NOT meant to replace real sex and has gotten old real fast ... I've considered all kinds of things, like channeling this energy into something, maybe writing porn and selling it ... but obviously nothing is so satisfying as being with a woman ...

I know a lot of you out there will tell me to "man up" or get control of myself, and to you I say a great big "FUCK YOU" ... you have know idea what it's like to have a natural part of your being denied ... would you stop eating? or drinking? or sleeping? no, and sex isn't any different ... on a general basis, yes, you can control your needs and how you respond to them ... we're not "animals" in this sense, I agree ... but over time, it gnaws at you ... it eats you alive ...

[link to www.cnn.com]
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You have a very good evaluation of the circumstances. Talk to your wife and see how she feels.
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Re: Serious thread ... need GLP help and advice before I snap ...
Depends. Humans can justify almost any behavior when they feel the need.

Talk to your wife or a counselor. You have needs.

Not everyone believes a human should go without. Not everyone believes all marriages are closed.

I bet if you met your wife's need for affection - she would meet your sexual needs. Do you still hold hands and cuddle? Do you rub her back and feet? Does she touch you?

Hell I don't know. Just ramblin.
Personal responsibility - try it sometime. Quit blaming others for your bad choices. Consequences happen.

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I don' want to molest my kid ...?

Why the fuck would you even say that?


You need some serious help
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Honor the vows you took...in sickness and in health. Any struggle that you have to endure is probably less than what your wife is going through.
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Re: Serious thread ... need GLP help and advice before I snap ...
I'm sure that other men have better insights and wisdom to help you than I can offer.

On a personal level, for my own preference, I think you're better off having an affair than masturbating over your daughter. If I were your wife, I'd prefer that.
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And good luck hf
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Honor the vows you took...in sickness and in health. Any struggle that you have to endure is probably less than what your wife is going through.
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Well said
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Honor the vows you took...in sickness and in health. Any struggle that you have to endure is probably less than what your wife is going through.
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nicely said
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Jesus, there's got to be a better solution than pooning your own daughter... wtf

Doesn't your wife have any useful friends that will throw you some pity tail? Maybe your daughter's friends' moms? A hot teacher at her school? Always good to keep in touch with those in charge of your daughter's education!

Fuck, break down in the town/city park, balling your eyes out like a little bitch, until someone hot enough asks what the problem is. If you look up and it's some nasty bag, just act like a psycho, and she'll get out of the way, reset and repeat until you're nailing something better than your wife ever was.

But for god's sake, keep your hands off your daughter. If you ruin her, what's your neighbor going to do when his wife becomes useless?

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Taboo - another sequel gasp
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Jesus, there's got to be a better solution than pooning your own daughter... wtf

Doesn't your wife have any useful friends that will throw you some pity tail? Maybe your daughter's friends' moms? A hot teacher at her school? Always good to keep in touch with those in charge of your daughter's education!

Fuck, break down in the town/city park, balling your eyes out like a little bitch, until someone hot enough asks what the problem is. If you look up and it's some nasty bag, just act like a psycho, and she'll get out of the way, reset and repeat until you're nailing something better than your wife ever was.

But for god's sake, keep your hands off your daughter. If you ruin her, what's your neighbor going to do when his wife becomes useless?

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Re: Serious thread ... need GLP help and advice before I snap ...
... you see, my daughter started her period about a year ago ... SETTLE DOWN -- I AM NOT HORNY FOR MY KID, SO I AM NOT A PERVERT ... and ever month, around the time she's ovulating, her pheromones (see link below) drive me through the roof ... for about a week, it's all I can do to even be in the house ... as the months wear on, I just don't know what to do anymore ... I'm really boxed in ... I don't want to have an affair ... I don't want to hire a hooker ... I don't want a "friend with benefits" ... I don' want to molest my kid ... my only real option is masturbation -- but that's NOT meant to replace real sex and has gotten old real fast ... I've considered all kinds of things, like channeling this energy into something, maybe writing porn and selling it ... but obviously nothing is so satisfying as being with a woman ...

[link to www.cnn.com]
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By posting this you have already thought about it. Are you some type of animal that you have no control of yourself??? Personally I think you are just a sick pedophile who enjoys posting this shit to get your jollies. Vomit
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Jesus, there's got to be a better solution than pooning your own daughter... wtf

Doesn't your wife have any useful friends that will throw you some pity tail? Maybe your daughter's friends' moms? A hot teacher at her school? Always good to keep in touch with those in charge of your daughter's education!

Fuck, break down in the town/city park, balling your eyes out like a little bitch, until someone hot enough asks what the problem is. If you look up and it's some nasty bag, just act like a psycho, and she'll get out of the way, reset and repeat until you're nailing something better than your wife ever was.

But for god's sake, keep your hands off your daughter. If you ruin her, what's your neighbor going to do when his wife becomes useless?

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 Quoting: falldown

Why don't you satisfy the poor prick?
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Re: Serious thread ... need GLP help and advice before I snap ...
Hmmm.

Sounds like she could possibly be suffering from fibromyalgia?
(Google it)

Never mind...here's a link:
[link to www.webmd.com]


I have it and it way sucks...everything hurts all the time.

Seems like your big issue is sex....or the lack of it, however.
And to be honest, whether it's a condition like FMyalgia that your wife has, or arthritis, or whatever, it honestly shouldn't affect her ability to have (and enjoy) sex.

Not to be mean, but if you really haven't had a physical relationship w/her for "years now" (and no, I can't imagine) there's probably more wrong than her physical condition.

Really.
Go see a councelor with her if you guys can't talk about it.

Sounds like you're at the end of your rope.
Don't hang yourself with it.
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Why don't you satisfy the poor prick?
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Yeah, like anyone could pry your mouth off him...


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good god man! your daughter's pheromones ae stirring you up?


find a hooker straight away, you don't have enough self control if you even need to mention it.


or find a willing playmate, i'm sure the world is full of accomodating females of your age.
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Re: Serious thread ... need GLP help and advice before I snap ...
Unless someone has walked in your shoes, they will not know what you are going through. I think it's good that you are seeking out help.

Like another AC said, sounds similar to fibromyalgia. And if so, I have a couple of friends that still are intimate with their husbands.

Personally, I'm of the opinion that you need to tell this to your wife.
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OP. You should seriously consider seeking advice from a licensed sex and marriage therapist. The fact that you have not spoken with your own wife about this dilemma is a concern. I am a father of 3 girls and one son, all pretty much grown...and even though the wife 'cut off' sex years ago...(sorry for the pun), NEVER, EVER was I effected by my kids pheremones....seriously...see a professional therapist right away!
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I've considered all kinds of things, like channeling this energy into something, maybe writing porn and selling it

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Good plan! Be sure to post it here ... maybe if we all chip in a nickle you can make a living ...

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I would go to a close friend first with this.

And I would not wait too long.
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OP. You should seriously consider seeking advice from a licensed sex and marriage therapist. The fact that you have not spoken with your own wife about this dilemma is a concern. I am a father of 3 girls and one son, all pretty much grown...and even though the wife 'cut off' sex years ago...(sorry for the pun), NEVER, EVER was I effected by my kids pheremones....seriously...see a professional therapist right away!
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I agree you shouldn't let it go on. You shouldn't be masturbating over your daughter. Period.
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One word...KARMA!
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Seems like you are really at the end of your rope...

I would talk to your wife...just leave out any mention of your daughter for any reasons. You say you aren't attracted to your daughter and I'll take you at your word...but just look at the replies you have gotten here. Don't give your wife something else to deal with.

Even if she’s in pain...you can cuddle and touch each other. Might ease some of her pain...the pleasure might mask some pain for the time. Maybe being close to her like that...with her touching you...would be more satisfying. And intercourse doesn't have to be very strenuous...especially for her. Just be gentle in everything and see what she can tolerate. Talking to a sex therapist might be able to help. I am sure there are other people with physical problems that need some guidance on what they can do.

Don't cheat on her (imo). You say she is already depressed. Don't break her heart too. Imagine if you were in her position.

Good luck with everything…
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I agree with the other AC who said that it sounds like fibromyalgia. I have fibromyalgia and it doesn't stop me from having sex. Have you tried different positions? There should be some way she could do it and be reasonably comfortable. Have your wife google fibromyalgia and look at the latest treatments. The latest thing is vitamin B3 can almost cure it. Also, it has been successfully put in remission with anti-viral drugs.
Anyway, back to your problem. You really need to talk to your wife about the lack of sex. She should understand that men need sex. Have you tried talking to her about this? If she gets defensive and uses her illness as an excuse, then maybe there is something going on besides the illness. Or maybe she is really into being sick. Maybe you could suggest the two of you get counseling. Tip- I wouldn't tell her about the phenerone thing with your daughter. As you can see from some of the posts here people freak out when you say sex and daughter in the same sentence. Good luck
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Re: Serious thread ... need GLP help and advice before I snap ...
Okay, guys, here's the situation ... my wife and I have been married, happily most of the time, for 15 years ... about 7 years ago, my wife became chronically ill with an as-yet (yeah, really) undiagnosed disease ... in the beginning of this, things weren't too bad ... she had a lot less energy, and we arranged our lives accordingly ... but over the past three years, she has taken a definitive downturn that includes lots of musculoskeletal pain ... the majority of her days are spent just "getting by" ... she's ridden with guilt that she's a wife and mother in name only ... and frustrated that her life has been taken from her ... in some ways, she's worse off than someone who's lying in a bed comatose, because she's forced to watch her life pass by her ... my children and I do our best everyday to make sure she knows she's still a part of our family and love her for who she is and who she dreamed of being ... of course, we all can't help but grieve the loss of her, though she's still in our presence ...

Now, this next part is selfish, I admit ... yet it isn't, because it's just nature ... as you can imagine, my wife and I have not had any kind of physical relationship for some time ... years now ... I'm a pretty strong period, though, and this situation has not gotten the best of me ... until lately ... you see, my daughter started her period about a year ago ... SETTLE DOWN -- I AM NOT HORNY FOR MY KID, SO I AM NOT A PERVERT ... and ever month, around the time she's ovulating, her pheromones (see link below) drive me through the roof ... for about a week, it's all I can do to even be in the house ... as the months wear on, I just don't know what to do anymore ... I'm really boxed in ... I don't want to have an affair ... I don't want to hire a hooker ... I don't want a "friend with benefits" ... I don' want to molest my kid ... my only real option is masturbation -- but that's NOT meant to replace real sex and has gotten old real fast ... I've considered all kinds of things, like channeling this energy into something, maybe writing porn and selling it ... but obviously nothing is so satisfying as being with a woman ...

I know a lot of you out there will tell me to "man up" or get control of myself, and to you I say a great big "FUCK YOU" ... you have know idea what it's like to have a natural part of your being denied ... would you stop eating? or drinking? or sleeping? no, and sex isn't any different ... on a general basis, yes, you can control your needs and how you respond to them ... we're not "animals" in this sense, I agree ... but over time, it gnaws at you ... it eats you alive ...

[link to www.cnn.com]
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Okay here is your answer.
You need to become saved and believe in the word of God.
If you trust in him to deliver you out of this situation and of course all others he will, and you will be amazed.
But you must do nothing about it but trust and wait and you will see the glory of God work for you. I know I have been there. Until you do this you will not have relief from this problem. So change your mind, get a Bible and read what the word says.
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I would go to a close friend first with this.

And I would not wait too long.
 Quoting: The Jurist

Preferably with a daughter your own daughter's age...maybe even make it a mother daughter thing...something more stimulating, so your own daughter won't be as exciting to you!



As a last resort, use one of these:

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It's a livestock castrator...
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Okay here is your answer.
You need to become saved and believe in the word of God.
If you trust in him to deliver you out of this situation and of course all others he will, and you will be amazed.
But you must do nothing about it but trust and wait and you will see the glory of God work for you. I know I have been there. Until you do this you will not have relief from this problem. So change your mind, get a Bible and read what the word says.
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There's a great idea...send OP off to read a book full of incest... another do
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Re: Serious thread ... need GLP help and advice before I snap ...
Okay, guys, here's the situation ... my wife and I have been married, happily most of the time, for 15 years ... about 7 years ago, my wife became chronically ill with an as-yet (yeah, really) undiagnosed disease ... in the beginning of this, things weren't too bad ... she had a lot less energy, and we arranged our lives accordingly ... but over the past three years, she has taken a definitive downturn that includes lots of musculoskeletal pain ... the majority of her days are spent just "getting by" ...

 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 657905



All of those symptoms do sound like Fibromyalgia. She could also have something else along with it. I know, I have the same above symptoms, diagnosed, grieved, accepted. My question to you though, why DON'T you know, by now? Find a good arthritis doctor in your area that is familiar with Fibromyalgia, for starters. Trust me she is more miserable than you. She needs to be making a list, with the family's help also, to write everything down. Not ALL symptoms belong to Fibro.

Meanwhile, hormones also come into play. Has she gone into Menopause? A good doctor would be able to tell. She is probably so miserable she doesn't know where to start talking, with her aches and pains. Does she get exercise? Do you spend time with her to be sure she gets out and walks?

What else ladies? Hormones, Fibro, oh yea! Has she had her thyroid checked? That's a biggie for acting up on us women that are aging out, lol!
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christ stop whining. Go visit a lady of the night if you must.





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