are you psychic? i need help,please!!

give her the power she wants....if the only thing you want is love, what else matters?

She got tired of your whining about whether she loved you or not...

She liked you more when you were ´singing´ to her

Dear sad,

Having your heart broken is a part of the human
experience. A girlfriend leaving is just an opportunity for you to refresh your soul and
re-focus on your own goals and dreams. This is a
chance to look up from the confines of a relationship and see that the rest of the world
does not revolve around her. As wonderful as she
probably was, it is time to move on. So take a
shower, clean your house, and move on.

Dude - grow a pair!!
Women want a strong confident man. Not a guy
who is going to cry like a girl when they get dumped!

Dear Sad,

Your girlfriend left you because, although you are very generous, you are lacking in deeper spiritual qualities.

She also has a problem with your friends. She finds them to be quite shallow and uninteresting. In fact, your friends do you no credit at all, as you yourself know.

Your strong point is that you are quite intellectually advanced, but you try to hide this, especially when you find yourself among your friends. You play the fool - and it´s not really you.

It may be too late to make amends. If not, stop dumbing yourself down and learn to be less materialistic. Offer her some insights into yourself as someone who wants to develop spiritually.

Good luck.

Maybe she just doesn´t want a serious relationship at this time in her life. Sometimes people need to go out and accomplish or at least try some things on their own. You´ll find the right girl for you one day, or she will find you. Try to focus on your own individual interests for a while. Maybe take classes if you aren´t already in school. Just do your own thing, and that might even help lead you to the right girl.

Maybe you are just too small where it counts.

Do what I used to do, son. Empty a bottle of malt whiskey, get yourself downtown and find a real classy hooker.

Worked for me -- everytime!

Pretend like you don´t really care. Go out with one of her friends and treat the friend better than you did her. Be strong and move along, whether she comes back or not.

You are just another pawn in procreations game
trick is seeing past this ? hope you can
The bigger picture.

all of you are so nice to offer such words, yet nobody has hit the nail on the head, so to speak. there is some good advice youre offering, and im grateful. but im seriously so sad and blue right now that it feels like a cold knife in the pit of my stomach. its just such a horrible feeling, getting rejected by someone you really love. damn

Is her mom single? Seduce her and bang her for the ultimate revenge.

Maybe 6:25 has the answer. If you took a shower more often, she wouldn´t have left you.

Why do you need a psychic? Don´t you have any awareness of your own? You were involved with this woman, surely you have some sense of what went wrong...

She notices the odd things you do like pick your butt when you think she´s not looking and is utterly disgusted and she smells this on your fingers.

And you need a better car.

what the heck. i dont know what to do. im ready to curl up and die

We have all been through it at LEAST once in our lives. Go out ASAP with another woman, for many reasons. Don´t make a spectacle out of yourself, it won´t help your case any and is so pitiful to see a grown man beg and cry.

you need to get with the program sad
its not a perfect world ,
the best person to help you is YOU
there are events in life none of us have the power to change , you are no exception ,
this is free will in motion
your pain in the guts is totaly self imposed you dont have to feel this way ,and you can change your outlook by simply filling the vacuum with some one else that could be better for both
but please get over her
and soon you could be with an even better partner
who knows , you wont if you keep mowping in the corner

you need to get with the program sad
its not a perfect world ,
the best person to help you is YOU
there are events in life none of us have the power to change , you are no exception ,
this is free will in motion
your pain in the guts is totaly self imposed you dont have to feel this way ,and you can change your outlook by simply filling the vacuum with some one else that could be better for both
but please get over her
and soon you could be with an even better partner
who knows , you wont if you keep mowping in the corner

sad:

There is another man involved in this situation. She left you for another man. You want her back BIG time and that is why your heart is broken. Think about it, didn´t you feel her present going away from you EVEN when she was with you?

Don´t worry, however as this guy she is seeing will not last and she will come running back soon. That will not matter as I see a new MUCH better woman for you. This girl will know how to treat you and you will KNOW with a doubt that this woman is the one that you will spend the REST of your life with.

Once you meet this new woman, you will wonder why you are so upset even now!

Sad... I went through the same thing when my first love left me after 4 years. EVERYTHING reminded me of her. I could not eat or sleep for weeks. I didnt want to go out.. I didnt wnat to watch any TV or movies that had a relationship in them etc. I have never felt pain like that. Of all the people I talked to about it. One thing gave me hope. I talked one of my hero´s in life. He is very wise and caring and has an answer to anything. He told me, "I remember when I lost my first love. I thought I would never fall in love again, until I met my wife."
I learned from my first relationship all the things I did wrong and she did wrong and knew what to look for next time and knew what to change about myself so the next time I could have a happy relationship. My only problem is... the next girl I found had even more baggage than the first... ugh. I think just about everyone goes through this. Time does heal though, I can promise you that.

kill yourself

www.realdoll.com
(Not work safe)
These "women" will never leave you.

I think sad is actually a female, posing as a male.

lol Phoam. Phoam do you have an account with them already?

How old are you, sad?

Let it go sad. You can´t cling to things you can no longer grasp, hence the pain. The truth is that this girl was a materialistic, manipulative bitch. Let it the fuck go. All she wanted was to be lavished with shiny high-priced objects and exalted as the centerpiece of the universe, like most women actually. Her emotions are fueled by these things, therefore she is superficial and fake.

im male, age 38

sad,

When you meet the one for you never again will you be sad...

Save your energy and prepare for the real thing...

Sad, I know how you feel. This may sound tough - but don´t take her rejection personally. It´s her loss, not yours.

You´re a fine guy and there´s nothing wrong with you. You did well by her, but now she´s gone. BUT, don´t rush into another relationship like some of the fellas here are saying.

You need to take stock of yourself as a FREE MAN and ask yourself what you really want to do with your life. You´re only 38 and in the prime of your life. The world is yours. Go out and enjoy it!

Another lady will come along real soon and she´ll be just right for you.

Heck, so many gals have broken my heart in the past and I´ve cried rivers of tears. But things have a way of working out just fine, and you´ll see it was all for the best.

Let yourself feel a bit weak for a while and find a good friend you can talk to. Look to the future and stay fit.

You´re gonna be just fine, son.