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My wife is acting very strange

 
Anonymous Coward
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05/04/2009 06:56 AM
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My wife is acting very strange
I'm scared you guys. I've been married to my wife for about 5 years, we have 3 kids. All that time she has been a real "nazi-bitch", watching my every move, screming and throwing stuff at me whenever she thought necessary.

Just for example we were once watching tv late at night, when she fell asleep on the couch. I thought I'd be romatic, and carry her to bed. So I went to the bedroom to open up the bed so I could carry her between the sheets. While I was opening up the bed, she woke up and thought I had gone sleeping and left her alone on the couch. Of course she didn't believe my explanation, but in stead she hit me in the head multiple times.

If I'm making food, and she thinks her steak is a bit too over/undercooked, she might slam the steak on my face. In other words, it has been EXTREMELY difficult to find a way in our household not to upset her too badly.

Anyway, most of the time she's made my life a living hell, with no way out (I can't leave the kids to her, on the other hand I wouldn't be able to take care of them myself).

But roughly over the past month, she has been an angel. In cases where she would normally throw her toys (literally), she has just said something like "it's ok, accidents happen to all of us". She gently kisses me every morning I go to the office, kisses me when I come back from the office, is really calm through the day, we have good sex, she takes care of the house and the kids really well.

So what the hell is going on? For the past years she has made me seriously consider suicide several times, and now all of the sudden she has turned into this "wife & mother of the year" -candidate? WTF? Should I be scared? She has been a housewife all along, that hasn't changed. I'm happy about the way things are now, but I'm just so scared. Does she have a hidden agenda?

HELP ME?
Anonymous Coward
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05/04/2009 06:58 AM
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Re: My wife is acting very strange
girls are more complicated than the hardest math sum..
Anonymous Coward
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05/04/2009 06:58 AM
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LMAO "slam the steak in my face" :pmsl:
Cogburn

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05/04/2009 06:59 AM
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Re: My wife is acting very strange
Radical shift in behavior?

Ignorance is bliss.
"While you were hanging yourself
On someone else's words,
Dying to believe in what you'd heard,
I was staring straight into the shining sun."
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Anonymous Coward
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05/04/2009 07:00 AM
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Re: My wife is acting very strange
She's having an affair.
Anonymous Coward
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05/04/2009 07:00 AM
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Re: My wife is acting very strange
Psych drugs or getting a little on the side.


If she stop doing what she's doing, you'll be back to square one.
Anonymous Coward
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05/04/2009 07:00 AM
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Re: My wife is acting very strange
maybe she has plotted something, and now is calm that the plan is underway. i would be scared. but, one question. why the hell did you marry her to begin with? and, if it wasn't like that in the beginning, why did you continue to stay with her and continue to have kids?
not too smart...
Just A Thought

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05/04/2009 07:00 AM
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Re: My wife is acting very strange
Why would you ever be with someone who would hit you?
Anonymous Coward
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05/04/2009 07:01 AM
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Re: My wife is acting very strange
thats normal for woman .
Anonymous Coward
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05/04/2009 07:01 AM
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You deserve everything that is coming to you for being so weak. No woman or man should ever allow the other partner to behaive in this mannor.
Your wife is not the problem , you are. And if she is acting this way because she has now found herself a person who is more of a man than you are then good for her. She desreves to have someone better than you and you deserve what is coming to you.
Were you a mummy's boy?
Did you want your wife to be your mother?

Welcome to the real world.
Anonymous Coward
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05/04/2009 07:01 AM
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Re: My wife is acting very strange
A very slow cycle of bi polar if you ask me.

I was married to one like this...only her cycles were spaced sveral hours apart.
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05/04/2009 07:04 AM
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i know what you mean mate.
my wife has been acting the same way in the past month
plus also she has started shaving her pussy which is highly unusual as she always had long pubic hair.
so i believe that some metaphysical change has taken place.
also she has started going to church
which she never went before
i don't know which church she is going to but i guess if she goes to church it must be a positive change.
praise the lord??
Nightshade

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05/04/2009 07:05 AM
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Hormone settling. 3 pregnancies in such a short time and all the hormonal changes, not to mention exhaustion and sleep deprivation. I tell you that's enough to turn the sweetest gal into a steak-slamming banshee.
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05/04/2009 07:06 AM
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Re: My wife is acting very strange
i know what you mean mate.
my wife has been acting the same way in the past month
plus also she has started shaving her pussy which is highly unusual as she always had long pubic hair.
so i believe that some metaphysical change has taken place.
also she has started going to church
which she never went before
i don't know which church she is going to but i guess if she goes to church it must be a positive change.
praise the lord??
 Quoting: suspicious 670687


she's def. getting some on the side. maybe going to church to repent, or, her new lay is a fellow church goer...
or, she ain't going to church at all and is using that as an excuse to go visit her new man.
Anonymous Coward
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05/04/2009 07:06 AM
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She's having an affair.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 671339

bump

It's has to do with either Love or Money.
Anonymous Coward
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05/04/2009 07:07 AM
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I bet you OP is a woman.
She is feeling guilty for having an affair and wants to know what other people's opinion are.
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05/04/2009 07:08 AM
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maybe she went to the dr's and got a "happy" pill.......works wonders after being on it for 2-3 weeks. Little shit doesn't bother you anymore
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Anonymous Coward
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05/04/2009 07:08 AM
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Re: My wife is acting very strange
Or she's gonna kill you in your sleep.

5a
Anonymous Coward
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05/04/2009 07:11 AM
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Re: My wife is acting very strange
Or maybe, and I know this is a wild idea, so probably wrong, but MAYBE she looked at herself and decided she was being an awful person?

Her mind may have turned to a higher, a better way of thinking?

Perhaps you have friends helping you that you don't even know about...

:)
mu1ti

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05/04/2009 07:12 AM
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Re: My wife is acting very strange
video tape secretly what she is doing to you
then take the kids and go to a shelter for battered husbands
Take out a restraining order.. etc

Quite a few men and the kids suffer at the hands of a violent female.. it is a lot more common than you might think.
"It was curious to think that the sky was the same for everybody, in Eurasia or Eastasia as well as here. And the people under the sky were also very much the same--everywhere, all over the world, hundreds or thousands of millions of people just like this, people ignorant of one another's existence, held apart by walls of hatred and lies, and yet almost exactly the same--people who had never learned to think but were storing up in their hearts and bellies and muscles the power that would one day overturn the world."
- George Orwell, 1984

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Anonymous Coward
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05/04/2009 07:12 AM
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tool
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05/04/2009 07:14 AM
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I've tried to find an explanation to this issue and I keep coming up with one explanation - as crazy as it sounds.

Demonic possession.

Looks like the entity has left you're wife alone now.
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05/04/2009 07:15 AM
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i know what you mean mate.
my wife has been acting the same way in the past month
plus also she has started shaving her pussy which is highly unusual as she always had long pubic hair.
so i believe that some metaphysical change has taken place.
also she has started going to church
which she never went before
i don't know which church she is going to but i guess if she goes to church it must be a positive change.
praise the lord??


she's def. getting some on the side. maybe going to church to repent, or, her new lay is a fellow church goer...
or, she ain't going to church at all and is using that as an excuse to go visit her new man.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 671304

no she is definitely going to church
she has introduced me to her pastor

i am thinking of calling "CHEATERS" the TV show where they follow her around and then surprise her if she is cheating?
good idea?
Anonymous Coward
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05/04/2009 07:17 AM
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YEP.
Its one-of three things and they have all been mentioned here.
1. She is on meds. If so find-out what and make sure she keeps taking them.
2. New boyfriend.
3. She has "made-up-her-mind", to either divorce you, kill-you, or kill herself, and she is relieved because she sees an end to her problems.

Also, she could have "made up her mind" to divorce you, and be on her best behavior in order to "look good" to the court.
Anonymous Coward (OP)
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05/04/2009 07:17 AM
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To fill in the gaps, while I was still dating her, I was more or less sure that she would not be "the one" for me. And round about just when I would have broken up with her, she got pregnant. I didn't take long for me to realize, that I was stuck. She was carrying my baby (I know that for a fact, since the conditions at the time ruled out other possibilities). I had no choice, I had to live with what I had done, so I decided to marry her. I couldn't stand the idea of my son growing up somewhere without me (normally women get the custody anyway). So fine, we got married.

So my son was born, along with two daughters later on. I've always wanted to have a large family, and since I married this woman anyway, and she agreed to dedicate her life to taking care of our family (instead of studying, career, etc), we had more kids. If I would be anyway "stuck" at least 20 years, doing that for one child only doesn't make sense. And I also cannot approve having a broken family, my kids need to have their mother and father around.

Anyway, the problem is not the way she has been. That's a route I've chosen, a burden I've chosen to carry. I'll live with it. The problem is what's going on now.

I don't think she is having an affair, since that would just not be possible timewise. I leave in the morning, come home for lunch, and when I'm back home in the evening, she has in the meantime done all cooking, cleaning, ironing, shopping, etc. So just timewise an affair wouldn't be possible. Also my son would have told me, we are extremely close.

We moved to another country about a year ago, so maybe new surroundings have helped her also, but the change was just so sudden. I really feel more "unsafe" because of this. Weird.
Irdooomed

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05/04/2009 07:17 AM
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Re: My wife is acting very strange
Or she's gonna kill you in your sleep.

5a
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 671308


Rolf! Run OP, run.
Holy cow! It's the woowoo patrol!
AsperGirl
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05/04/2009 07:22 AM
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"Just for example we were once watching tv late at night, when she fell asleep on the couch. I thought I'd be romatic, and carry her to bed. So I went to the bedroom to open up the bed so I could carry her between the sheets. While I was opening up the bed, she woke up and thought I had gone sleeping and left her alone on the couch. Of course she didn't believe my explanation, but in stead she hit me in the head multiple times. "

Three thoughts:

(1) She is abusive and is unaware of how normal people behave
(2) She is deeply disgruntled or distressed about something in her life
(3) You are inadequate in some way, for her to have no respect for you and for you to be taking this
Anonymous Coward
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05/04/2009 07:24 AM
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3 babies in 5 years is enough to make any woman insane.
Maybe she's on birth control?
You already HAVE a "large family" by today's standards. Don't you dare get her pregnant again, or at least 'till the 3 you have are out of diapers.
Anonymous Coward
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05/04/2009 07:26 AM
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AND, if she is on birth control, and you don't like that idea, think about that woman who drowned her children in the bathtub. (Yates).
Most people blame her husband and his wish for children for that tragedy.
Anonymous Coward (OP)
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05/04/2009 07:26 AM
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Hormone settling. 3 pregnancies in such a short time and all the hormonal changes, not to mention exhaustion and sleep deprivation. I tell you that's enough to turn the sweetest gal into a steak-slamming banshee.
 Quoting: Nightshade


You know you have a point there, thanks for the tip. Would fit timewise perfectly. And if that is the case, then I'm a happy man. :-)
Anonymous Coward
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05/04/2009 07:26 AM
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Maybe she has realised the grass is not always greener...

She's having an affair.
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