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Why are women so possessive?????????

 
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Ok, so enough of the insults (LOL)! How do I fix this? She really is a great girl. Cooks the best meals to keep me from going out to dinner, lets me watch MY shows. Sex has NEVER been an issue. Just sometimes I gotta get out. I feel smothered. What do you suggest?
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Re: Why are women so possessive?????????
good question.

i gave up trying to hang out with some of my married buddies.

it's like pulling teeth for their wife to let them go for two or three hours.


f'n nuts.


happy to be single.


See? You know exactly what I'm talking about. She wasn't always like this, but over the years she has gotten worse. At one time she would actually give me $$ to go the the strip club with my buds and always say,"now don't catch anything". And I never touched a one. Honest. But as she's getting older, and I think the change is comming early for her (she's only 43), she is becoming much more needy. I live in a house full of women and sometimes I just need to get out. All that estrogen is smothering me.



Instead of writing about it on this thread, why don't you try talking to her about it. Take her out to dinner, discuss your feelings like an adult. Do something nice for her, send her flowers "Just because" I bet she's insecure because you've lost the "Romance" in your relationship. Take the time to let her know she's still "the one" she's still important to you in everyway.
Tell her you feel suffocated at times.
You don't need a thread to know how you should handle your wife, you should already know.
If you don't by now, you probably never will.
Good Luck

 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 265891

LOL, of course! Yeah, buy her some dinner, maybe a nice piece of jewelry or another pair of shoes/purse just to tell her she's a suffocating bitch! We all need our space OPie..and under NO circumstances do YOU need to buy HER ANYTHING to say you need some space every now and then! FUCK THAT! Do they buy us a case of beer or a new mower to tell us they need their space with friends?? FUCK NO!
I am Richardus Strongus. Father to a murdered 'Refreshtard' thread, Husband to a deleted Top 10 thread. I will have my vengeance on the Lightworkers ..in this life or the next.
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Re: Why are women so possessive?????????
Ok, so enough of the insults (LOL)! How do I fix this? She really is a great girl. Cooks the best meals to keep me from going out to dinner, lets me watch MY shows. Sex has NEVER been an issue. Just sometimes I gotta get out. I feel smothered. What do you suggest?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 186050

Definitely write out your feelings and have a romantic dinner. Let her know you feel smothered, maybe buy her a gift she's always had her eye on? Let her know you feel smothered but let her know's she's still the one. Someone who posted before had it right if you want to stay with her.
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Why don't women like it when their husbands hang out with their guy friends? I'm beginning to feel that my wife doesn't want me to have ANY other friends but her. Now she's not a bitch about it, but it is becomming clearly obvious.

If I want to go out with a friend for a beer, she goes, "why? we have beer here." Also she tries to intice me to stay home with sex. Lots of good sex. But after 22 yrs, that doesn't always do the trick either. Sometimes I just want to hang with the guys. She can go out with her girlfriends, why can't I

She is getting to be too clingey and it's driving me nuts.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 186050

If that's the worst you have to deal with - CONSIDER YOURSELF LUCKY.

She could, not mind if you go out whenever you want, give you some kids, spend all your money, sleep with your friends and relatives, leave you with all her debt, divorce you, file bankruptcy, remarry a rich ex boyfriend, and rub it in your face for the rest of your life.

You're breaking my heart OP. Talk to her about it openly, take her with you a few times so she can see it's no big deal. Acknowledge that all she is saying is that she values the time you two spend together...

Or leave her at home to watch The View, Oprah.

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Re: Why are women so possessive?????????
Insecurity.
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Re: Why are women so possessive?????????
good question.

i gave up trying to hang out with some of my married buddies.

it's like pulling teeth for their wife to let them go for two or three hours.


f'n nuts.


happy to be single.


See? You know exactly what I'm talking about. She wasn't always like this, but over the years she has gotten worse. At one time she would actually give me $$ to go the the strip club with my buds and always say,"now don't catch anything". And I never touched a one. Honest. But as she's getting older, and I think the change is comming early for her (she's only 43), she is becoming much more needy. I live in a house full of women and sometimes I just need to get out. All that estrogen is smothering me.



Instead of writing about it on this thread, why don't you try talking to her about it. Take her out to dinner, discuss your feelings like an adult. Do something nice for her, send her flowers "Just because" I bet she's insecure because you've lost the "Romance" in your relationship. Take the time to let her know she's still "the one" she's still important to you in everyway.
Tell her you feel suffocated at times.
You don't need a thread to know how you should handle your wife, you should already know.
If you don't by now, you probably never will.
Good Luck

 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 265891


HEY hey! Don't be so judgemental. You had me right pu till the last sentence. We communicate like it's no tomorrow. We can talk about anything and have. Our own deepest, darkest desires, our fantasies, our fettishes (thus the great sex life), our fears, our children, our parenting techniques, our ailing parents, everything and anything. It's like we can read eachothers' minds. Sometimes I wonder if we're too close. She can read my mind and I can finish her sentences. It's actually kinda spooky. It's now that when I tell her I feel suffocated, she clams right up and will not talk. Nothing, and I get all pissed off and she ends up in tears. She chats on the phone with her friends, occasionally goes out with the girls, and even has a girls nite at her friend's home. But not me.
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Re: Why are women so possessive?????????
OP, you do realize that men can be every bit as possessive and jealous when his wife has a life outside of their marriage? It's an age old complaint from a lot of women that after the wedding, the man started trying to cut the woman off from everyone she socialized with - lifelong friends, coworkers, and family alike.


I WISH my husband would go out with his friends more. Ever since we got married he's become such a homebody. He only ever wants to hang out with me at home. I realize he really, really digs me, but DAMN, it's like we've become joined at the hip. His friends think it is me who keeps him from the regular golf trips and grabbing a drink at the bar to talk shit time - but it ISN'T me who decided their bromance was over. It's entirely my husband who abruptly ended it.
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Re: Why are women so possessive?????????
good question.

i gave up trying to hang out with some of my married buddies.

it's like pulling teeth for their wife to let them go for two or three hours.


f'n nuts.


happy to be single.


See? You know exactly what I'm talking about. She wasn't always like this, but over the years she has gotten worse. At one time she would actually give me $$ to go the the strip club with my buds and always say,"now don't catch anything". And I never touched a one. Honest. But as she's getting older, and I think the change is comming early for her (she's only 43), she is becoming much more needy. I live in a house full of women and sometimes I just need to get out. All that estrogen is smothering me.



Instead of writing about it on this thread, why don't you try talking to her about it. Take her out to dinner, discuss your feelings like an adult. Do something nice for her, send her flowers "Just because" I bet she's insecure because you've lost the "Romance" in your relationship. Take the time to let her know she's still "the one" she's still important to you in everyway.
Tell her you feel suffocated at times.
You don't need a thread to know how you should handle your wife, you should already know.
If you don't by now, you probably never will.
Good Luck


LOL, of course! Yeah, buy her some dinner, maybe a nice piece of jewelry or another pair of shoes/purse just to tell her she's a suffocating bitch! We all need our space OPie..and under NO circumstances do YOU need to buy HER ANYTHING to say you need some space every now and then! FUCK THAT! Do they buy us a case of beer or a new mower to tell us they need their space with friends?? FUCK NO!
 Quoting: Richard Strong

ya know, your avatar tells alot about you, Hmmmm little penis uh? Poor baby. It must be terrible to make up for your "SHORT COMMINGS" with an Avatar picture.
of course no pun intended.
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Re: Why are women so possessive?????????
Get a buddy's wife to set something up for the girls. Make your plans for the same night with the guys.

Repeat a few times and hopefully things will be better if you don't want to communicate about it.

Communication didn't help in my relationship either.

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Re: Why are women so possessive?????????
good question.

i gave up trying to hang out with some of my married buddies.

it's like pulling teeth for their wife to let them go for two or three hours.


f'n nuts.


happy to be single.


See? You know exactly what I'm talking about. She wasn't always like this, but over the years she has gotten worse. At one time she would actually give me $$ to go the the strip club with my buds and always say,"now don't catch anything". And I never touched a one. Honest. But as she's getting older, and I think the change is comming early for her (she's only 43), she is becoming much more needy. I live in a house full of women and sometimes I just need to get out. All that estrogen is smothering me.



Instead of writing about it on this thread, why don't you try talking to her about it. Take her out to dinner, discuss your feelings like an adult. Do something nice for her, send her flowers "Just because" I bet she's insecure because you've lost the "Romance" in your relationship. Take the time to let her know she's still "the one" she's still important to you in everyway.
Tell her you feel suffocated at times.
You don't need a thread to know how you should handle your wife, you should already know.
If you don't by now, you probably never will.
Good Luck



HEY hey! Don't be so judgemental. You had me right pu till the last sentence. We communicate like it's no tomorrow. We can talk about anything and have. Our own deepest, darkest desires, our fantasies, our fettishes (thus the great sex life), our fears, our children, our parenting techniques, our ailing parents, everything and anything. It's like we can read eachothers' minds. Sometimes I wonder if we're too close. She can read my mind and I can finish her sentences. It's actually kinda spooky. It's now that when I tell her I feel suffocated, she clams right up and will not talk. Nothing, and I get all pissed off and she ends up in tears. She chats on the phone with her friends, occasionally goes out with the girls, and even has a girls nite at her friend's home. But not me.
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somethings missing then, she's insecure about something and you're not talking about it.
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Re: Why are women so possessive?????????
good question.

i gave up trying to hang out with some of my married buddies.

it's like pulling teeth for their wife to let them go for two or three hours.


f'n nuts.


happy to be single.


See? You know exactly what I'm talking about. She wasn't always like this, but over the years she has gotten worse. At one time she would actually give me $$ to go the the strip club with my buds and always say,"now don't catch anything". And I never touched a one. Honest. But as she's getting older, and I think the change is comming early for her (she's only 43), she is becoming much more needy. I live in a house full of women and sometimes I just need to get out. All that estrogen is smothering me.



Instead of writing about it on this thread, why don't you try talking to her about it. Take her out to dinner, discuss your feelings like an adult. Do something nice for her, send her flowers "Just because" I bet she's insecure because you've lost the "Romance" in your relationship. Take the time to let her know she's still "the one" she's still important to you in everyway.
Tell her you feel suffocated at times.
You don't need a thread to know how you should handle your wife, you should already know.
If you don't by now, you probably never will.
Good Luck


LOL, of course! Yeah, buy her some dinner, maybe a nice piece of jewelry or another pair of shoes/purse just to tell her she's a suffocating bitch! We all need our space OPie..and under NO circumstances do YOU need to buy HER ANYTHING to say you need some space every now and then! FUCK THAT! Do they buy us a case of beer or a new mower to tell us they need their space with friends?? FUCK NO!

ya know, your avatar tells alot about you, Hmmmm little penis uh? Poor baby. It must be terrible to make up for your "SHORT COMMINGS" with an Avatar picture.
of course no pun intended.

 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 265891


Oh, I'm sorry. Were they all out of gaping vagina avatars when you were going to pick one out?? Please spare me your half assed retort and Cosmopolitan 'advice' and go get your whipping boy of a husband to get you a nice big black dildo. After all, he may need to buy you something because of your insecurities.
I am Richardus Strongus. Father to a murdered 'Refreshtard' thread, Husband to a deleted Top 10 thread. I will have my vengeance on the Lightworkers ..in this life or the next.
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Re: Why are women so possessive?????????
i laugh at all these delusional broads that act like they're the exception. they are ALL like this op. insecure psychos.
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Re: Why are women so possessive?????????
good question.

i gave up trying to hang out with some of my married buddies.

it's like pulling teeth for their wife to let them go for two or three hours.


f'n nuts.


happy to be single.


See? You know exactly what I'm talking about. She wasn't always like this, but over the years she has gotten worse. At one time she would actually give me $$ to go the the strip club with my buds and always say,"now don't catch anything". And I never touched a one. Honest. But as she's getting older, and I think the change is comming early for her (she's only 43), she is becoming much more needy. I live in a house full of women and sometimes I just need to get out. All that estrogen is smothering me.



Instead of writing about it on this thread, why don't you try talking to her about it. Take her out to dinner, discuss your feelings like an adult. Do something nice for her, send her flowers "Just because" I bet she's insecure because you've lost the "Romance" in your relationship. Take the time to let her know she's still "the one" she's still important to you in everyway.
Tell her you feel suffocated at times.
You don't need a thread to know how you should handle your wife, you should already know.
If you don't by now, you probably never will.
Good Luck


LOL, of course! Yeah, buy her some dinner, maybe a nice piece of jewelry or another pair of shoes/purse just to tell her she's a suffocating bitch! We all need our space OPie..and under NO circumstances do YOU need to buy HER ANYTHING to say you need some space every now and then! FUCK THAT! Do they buy us a case of beer or a new mower to tell us they need their space with friends?? FUCK NO!

ya know, your avatar tells alot about you, Hmmmm little penis uh? Poor baby. It must be terrible to make up for your "SHORT COMMINGS" with an Avatar picture.
of course no pun intended.



Oh, I'm sorry. Were they all out of gaping vagina avatars when you were going to pick one out?? Please spare me your half assed retort and Cosmopolitan 'advice' and go get your whipping boy of a husband to get you a nice big black dildo. After all, he may need to buy you something because of your insecurities.
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How do you know I'm a woman you half wit.
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Re: Why are women so possessive?????????
good question.

i gave up trying to hang out with some of my married buddies.

it's like pulling teeth for their wife to let them go for two or three hours.


f'n nuts.


happy to be single.


See? You know exactly what I'm talking about. She wasn't always like this, but over the years she has gotten worse. At one time she would actually give me $$ to go the the strip club with my buds and always say,"now don't catch anything". And I never touched a one. Honest. But as she's getting older, and I think the change is comming early for her (she's only 43), she is becoming much more needy. I live in a house full of women and sometimes I just need to get out. All that estrogen is smothering me.



Instead of writing about it on this thread, why don't you try talking to her about it. Take her out to dinner, discuss your feelings like an adult. Do something nice for her, send her flowers "Just because" I bet she's insecure because you've lost the "Romance" in your relationship. Take the time to let her know she's still "the one" she's still important to you in everyway.
Tell her you feel suffocated at times.
You don't need a thread to know how you should handle your wife, you should already know.
If you don't by now, you probably never will.
Good Luck


LOL, of course! Yeah, buy her some dinner, maybe a nice piece of jewelry or another pair of shoes/purse just to tell her she's a suffocating bitch! We all need our space OPie..and under NO circumstances do YOU need to buy HER ANYTHING to say you need some space every now and then! FUCK THAT! Do they buy us a case of beer or a new mower to tell us they need their space with friends?? FUCK NO!

ya know, your avatar tells alot about you, Hmmmm little penis uh? Poor baby. It must be terrible to make up for your "SHORT COMMINGS" with an Avatar picture.
of course no pun intended.



Oh, I'm sorry. Were they all out of gaping vagina avatars when you were going to pick one out?? Please spare me your half assed retort and Cosmopolitan 'advice' and go get your whipping boy of a husband to get you a nice big black dildo. After all, he may need to buy you something because of your insecurities.

How do you know I'm a woman you half wit.
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That's even WORSE then! Do me a favor...reach down between your legs and see if you have any balls.
I am Richardus Strongus. Father to a murdered 'Refreshtard' thread, Husband to a deleted Top 10 thread. I will have my vengeance on the Lightworkers ..in this life or the next.
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Re: Why are women so possessive?????????
OP, it is called being a control freak.

And it can apply to women and men who are insecure.

I should have seen the signs early on with my ex hubby.

First, he moved us away from all my friends (isolation).

And if they did come to town to see me, he'd insist on going along.

Of course, being in a relationship does require certain changes and being the other half of a partnership, etc...

But, good friendships are harder to come by as you get older. I miss my old friends and wished I had defied my ex a bit more and went to see them more.
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Re: Why are women so possessive?????????
good question.

i gave up trying to hang out with some of my married buddies.

it's like pulling teeth for their wife to let them go for two or three hours.


f'n nuts.


happy to be single.


See? You know exactly what I'm talking about. She wasn't always like this, but over the years she has gotten worse. At one time she would actually give me $$ to go the the strip club with my buds and always say,"now don't catch anything". And I never touched a one. Honest. But as she's getting older, and I think the change is comming early for her (she's only 43), she is becoming much more needy. I live in a house full of women and sometimes I just need to get out. All that estrogen is smothering me.



Instead of writing about it on this thread, why don't you try talking to her about it. Take her out to dinner, discuss your feelings like an adult. Do something nice for her, send her flowers "Just because" I bet she's insecure because you've lost the "Romance" in your relationship. Take the time to let her know she's still "the one" she's still important to you in everyway.
Tell her you feel suffocated at times.
You don't need a thread to know how you should handle your wife, you should already know.
If you don't by now, you probably never will.
Good Luck


LOL, of course! Yeah, buy her some dinner, maybe a nice piece of jewelry or another pair of shoes/purse just to tell her she's a suffocating bitch! We all need our space OPie..and under NO circumstances do YOU need to buy HER ANYTHING to say you need some space every now and then! FUCK THAT! Do they buy us a case of beer or a new mower to tell us they need their space with friends?? FUCK NO!

ya know, your avatar tells alot about you, Hmmmm little penis uh? Poor baby. It must be terrible to make up for your "SHORT COMMINGS" with an Avatar picture.
of course no pun intended.



Oh, I'm sorry. Were they all out of gaping vagina avatars when you were going to pick one out?? Please spare me your half assed retort and Cosmopolitan 'advice' and go get your whipping boy of a husband to get you a nice big black dildo. After all, he may need to buy you something because of your insecurities.

How do you know I'm a woman you half wit.
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You know how I know you're a woman?

because you said: "Poor baby."

I don't want to be involved in your fight with Mr. Strong though...

Carry on.
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When I asked my husband why he doesn't want to go do 'man stuff' with his guy friends anymore, he says that life is short and he doesn't want to miss a single opportunity to be with me. He says he married his best friend and time with anyone else but seems like wasted time. You gotta love being loved, OP.
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Re: Why are women so possessive?????????
good question.

i gave up trying to hang out with some of my married buddies.

it's like pulling teeth for their wife to let them go for two or three hours.


f'n nuts.


happy to be single.


See? You know exactly what I'm talking about. She wasn't always like this, but over the years she has gotten worse. At one time she would actually give me $$ to go the the strip club with my buds and always say,"now don't catch anything". And I never touched a one. Honest. But as she's getting older, and I think the change is comming early for her (she's only 43), she is becoming much more needy. I live in a house full of women and sometimes I just need to get out. All that estrogen is smothering me.



Instead of writing about it on this thread, why don't you try talking to her about it. Take her out to dinner, discuss your feelings like an adult. Do something nice for her, send her flowers "Just because" I bet she's insecure because you've lost the "Romance" in your relationship. Take the time to let her know she's still "the one" she's still important to you in everyway.
Tell her you feel suffocated at times.
You don't need a thread to know how you should handle your wife, you should already know.
If you don't by now, you probably never will.
Good Luck


LOL, of course! Yeah, buy her some dinner, maybe a nice piece of jewelry or another pair of shoes/purse just to tell her she's a suffocating bitch! We all need our space OPie..and under NO circumstances do YOU need to buy HER ANYTHING to say you need some space every now and then! FUCK THAT! Do they buy us a case of beer or a new mower to tell us they need their space with friends?? FUCK NO!

ya know, your avatar tells alot about you, Hmmmm little penis uh? Poor baby. It must be terrible to make up for your "SHORT COMMINGS" with an Avatar picture.
of course no pun intended.



Oh, I'm sorry. Were they all out of gaping vagina avatars when you were going to pick one out?? Please spare me your half assed retort and Cosmopolitan 'advice' and go get your whipping boy of a husband to get you a nice big black dildo. After all, he may need to buy you something because of your insecurities.

How do you know I'm a woman you half wit.

That's even WORSE then! Do me a favor...reach down between your legs and see if you have any balls.
 Quoting: Richard Strong


Hey now, behave folks. This thread is mine and all about me now (hee hee).
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Re: Why are women so possessive?????????
good question.

i gave up trying to hang out with some of my married buddies.

it's like pulling teeth for their wife to let them go for two or three hours.


f'n nuts.


happy to be single.


See? You know exactly what I'm talking about. She wasn't always like this, but over the years she has gotten worse. At one time she would actually give me $$ to go the the strip club with my buds and always say,"now don't catch anything". And I never touched a one. Honest. But as she's getting older, and I think the change is comming early for her (she's only 43), she is becoming much more needy. I live in a house full of women and sometimes I just need to get out. All that estrogen is smothering me.



Instead of writing about it on this thread, why don't you try talking to her about it. Take her out to dinner, discuss your feelings like an adult. Do something nice for her, send her flowers "Just because" I bet she's insecure because you've lost the "Romance" in your relationship. Take the time to let her know she's still "the one" she's still important to you in everyway.
Tell her you feel suffocated at times.
You don't need a thread to know how you should handle your wife, you should already know.
If you don't by now, you probably never will.
Good Luck


LOL, of course! Yeah, buy her some dinner, maybe a nice piece of jewelry or another pair of shoes/purse just to tell her she's a suffocating bitch! We all need our space OPie..and under NO circumstances do YOU need to buy HER ANYTHING to say you need some space every now and then! FUCK THAT! Do they buy us a case of beer or a new mower to tell us they need their space with friends?? FUCK NO!

ya know, your avatar tells alot about you, Hmmmm little penis uh? Poor baby. It must be terrible to make up for your "SHORT COMMINGS" with an Avatar picture.
of course no pun intended.



Oh, I'm sorry. Were they all out of gaping vagina avatars when you were going to pick one out?? Please spare me your half assed retort and Cosmopolitan 'advice' and go get your whipping boy of a husband to get you a nice big black dildo. After all, he may need to buy you something because of your insecurities.

How do you know I'm a woman you half wit.

That's even WORSE then! Do me a favor...reach down between your legs and see if you have any balls.
 Quoting: Richard Strong

My sympathies to your wife or girlfriend. May the exit as soon as possible.
Oh, and don't try to match wits with me, you'll lose everytime.
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Re: Why are women so possessive?????????
I didn't read the whole thread, but here's a couple of questions:

Have you ever cheated on your wife, or given her reason to believe you might be? If so, you can't fault her for not trusting you; you created that yourself.

Another thought might be that she doesn't trust the guys you hang out with; maybe she thinks you'll spend the night in a strip club. I know if I was your wife, I wouldn't allow that either.

Since you've been married for so long, maybe she's feeling insecure. Perhaps she's thinking you're going to be staring at the young ladies all night, and she feels threatened.

I'm sure there are other layers to this story; please lend us some insight.
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When I asked my husband why he doesn't want to go do 'man stuff' with his guy friends anymore, he says that life is short and he doesn't want to miss a single opportunity to be with me. He says he married his best friend and time with anyone else but seems like wasted time. You gotta love being loved, OP.
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beautifully put.
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Ok, so enough of the insults (LOL)! How do I fix this? She really is a great girl. Cooks the best meals to keep me from going out to dinner, lets me watch MY shows. Sex has NEVER been an issue. Just sometimes I gotta get out. I feel smothered. What do you suggest?
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ok, I'm off to the real world, let me know if you need a good divorce lawyer *smiles* I know one.
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I didn't read the whole thread, but here's a couple of questions:

Have you ever cheated on your wife, or given her reason to believe you might be? If so, you can't fault her for not trusting you; you created that yourself.

Another thought might be that she doesn't trust the guys you hang out with; maybe she thinks you'll spend the night in a strip club. I know if I was your wife, I wouldn't allow that either.

Since you've been married for so long, maybe she's feeling insecure. Perhaps she's thinking you're going to be staring at the young ladies all night, and she feels threatened.

I'm sure there are other layers to this story; please lend us some insight.
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Ahh -- I read above me, and you have gone to the strip club. That's probably it.

She's 43 and is starting to worry about aging, her desirability, she might be starting menopause, etc. My suggestion? Promise her you won't be going to a strip club or anything like it -- then follow through. Don't go, and if your friends decide that they want to, let them and go home to your wife.

Then tell her why you came home, and give her a good ravishing.

Start dating her again, complementing her, surprising her with the odd flower, etc. She's going through a change in her life, and she's needing your support and encouragement.
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OP,

tell her you're going out with the boys
end of story

she's giving you shit cuz she knows she might get somewhere
with it

I'm a young married lady BTW

you are the man--trust, women need a strong man, doon't baby her
but maybe you can pick up some flowers at the 7-11 on the way home
hf
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My sympathies to your wife or girlfriend. May the exit as soon as possible.
Oh, and don't try to match wits with me, you'll lose everytime.

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Wow, you're giving him more credit than I'm willing to give. You really think he can keep a 'girlfriend' or 'wife'?
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I didn't read the whole thread, but here's a couple of questions:

Have you ever cheated on your wife, or given her reason to believe you might be? If so, you can't fault her for not trusting you; you created that yourself.

Another thought might be that she doesn't trust the guys you hang out with; maybe she thinks you'll spend the night in a strip club. I know if I was your wife, I wouldn't allow that either.

Since you've been married for so long, maybe she's feeling insecure. Perhaps she's thinking you're going to be staring at the young ladies all night, and she feels threatened.

I'm sure there are other layers to this story; please lend us some insight.
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typical delusional wife making up stories in her head to justify her posessiveness.
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good question.

i gave up trying to hang out with some of my married buddies.

it's like pulling teeth for their wife to let them go for two or three hours.


f'n nuts.


happy to be single.


See? You know exactly what I'm talking about. She wasn't always like this, but over the years she has gotten worse. At one time she would actually give me $$ to go the the strip club with my buds and always say,"now don't catch anything". And I never touched a one. Honest. But as she's getting older, and I think the change is comming early for her (she's only 43), she is becoming much more needy. I live in a house full of women and sometimes I just need to get out. All that estrogen is smothering me.



Instead of writing about it on this thread, why don't you try talking to her about it. Take her out to dinner, discuss your feelings like an adult. Do something nice for her, send her flowers "Just because" I bet she's insecure because you've lost the "Romance" in your relationship. Take the time to let her know she's still "the one" she's still important to you in everyway.
Tell her you feel suffocated at times.
You don't need a thread to know how you should handle your wife, you should already know.
If you don't by now, you probably never will.
Good Luck


LOL, of course! Yeah, buy her some dinner, maybe a nice piece of jewelry or another pair of shoes/purse just to tell her she's a suffocating bitch! We all need our space OPie..and under NO circumstances do YOU need to buy HER ANYTHING to say you need some space every now and then! FUCK THAT! Do they buy us a case of beer or a new mower to tell us they need their space with friends?? FUCK NO!

ya know, your avatar tells alot about you, Hmmmm little penis uh? Poor baby. It must be terrible to make up for your "SHORT COMMINGS" with an Avatar picture.
of course no pun intended.



Oh, I'm sorry. Were they all out of gaping vagina avatars when you were going to pick one out?? Please spare me your half assed retort and Cosmopolitan 'advice' and go get your whipping boy of a husband to get you a nice big black dildo. After all, he may need to buy you something because of your insecurities.

How do you know I'm a woman you half wit.

That's even WORSE then! Do me a favor...reach down between your legs and see if you have any balls.

My sympathies to your wife or girlfriend. May the exit as soon as possible.
Oh, and don't try to match wits with me, you'll lose everytime.

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Um, you have 'wits'?? Hardly.
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My sympathies to your wife or girlfriend. May the exit as soon as possible.
Oh, and don't try to match wits with me, you'll lose everytime.




Wow, you're giving him more credit than I'm willing to give. You really think he can keep a 'girlfriend' or 'wife'?
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Hahaha, if you only knew honey.
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I didn't read the whole thread, but here's a couple of questions:

Have you ever cheated on your wife, or given her reason to believe you might be? If so, you can't fault her for not trusting you; you created that yourself.

Another thought might be that she doesn't trust the guys you hang out with; maybe she thinks you'll spend the night in a strip club. I know if I was your wife, I wouldn't allow that either.

Since you've been married for so long, maybe she's feeling insecure. Perhaps she's thinking you're going to be staring at the young ladies all night, and she feels threatened.

I'm sure there are other layers to this story; please lend us some insight.


Ahh -- I read above me, and you have gone to the strip club. That's probably it.

She's 43 and is starting to worry about aging, her desirability, she might be starting menopause, etc. My suggestion? Promise her you won't be going to a strip club or anything like it -- then follow through. Don't go, and if your friends decide that they want to, let them and go home to your wife.

Then tell her why you came home, and give her a good ravishing.

Start dating her again, complementing her, surprising her with the odd flower, etc. She's going through a change in her life, and she's needing your support and encouragement.
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ladies--here's the scoop on the strip clubs
go with your hubby-the strippers love when ladies are there
then go home and get the rewards
hiding
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Ok, so enough of the insults (LOL)! How do I fix this? She really is a great girl. Cooks the best meals to keep me from going out to dinner, lets me watch MY shows. Sex has NEVER been an issue. Just sometimes I gotta get out. I feel smothered. What do you suggest?



ok, I'm off to the real world, let me know if you need a good divorce lawyer *smiles* I know one.
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I'm sure you do. Looks like someone was a bit too 'insecure' to hold onto their own huh???
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