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Can a 45 year old fall in love with a twenty year old

 
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02/10/2005 05:14 AM
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Can a 45 year old fall in love with a twenty year old
Or is time too short...why cant they be in love ?
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12/08/2005 10:11 AM
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No reason, as long as you are sure it is love.
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12/08/2005 10:11 AM
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the elder of the two is always an energy sucking vampire in these relationships .....no exceptions !!
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12/08/2005 10:11 AM
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Sure but it might just be lust, so be sure.
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12/08/2005 10:11 AM
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The 45 year old must have money....dont plan on it to last.

The next hard-body young guy to come along, will turn her head.

Shell more than likely come to her senses eventually.

I had a crush on an older guy when I was 20...needless to say, I married a guy my own age.
here we go yet again
12/08/2005 10:11 AM
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about once every 8 weeks around here it seems

good luck in figuring your mid life crisis sir
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12/08/2005 10:11 AM
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Theres a father figure if Ive ever seen one. People have no problem with this but will flip their lid if a 21 year old would even think about being with a 16 year old. Go figure.
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Cutie With A Bootie
12/08/2005 10:11 AM
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Sure Can! The question of course should be is the 20 year old in love with the 65 year old though. I mean of course an older guy will love a younger girl but will she feel the same? My personal opinion is that it is posible. See, I have a friend who is in the situation. Long story to explain but the are happy together and thats all the matters, right?
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i was 47 and actualy married a26 year old i idolised her put her on a pedastal adored her 450 at the wedding all betting it would.nt last but it did for 7 years then times got hard the money ran out and so did she //trouble isevery time she found out the grass was.nt greener on the other side she.d come back and like a fool i took her back /six fucking times // when we first got married she insisted i got the chop /but when i took her back the sixth time two day.s later she told me she had an appointment the next day for an abortion //i could.nt believe it but i took her there and then brought her home and nursed her but lo and behold with in a month she was off again but this time it was me that cracked up ihit the bottle so hard //::1 ltre coruba aday :: that i gassed myself in my car some body found me so sadly i survived but i spent 8 months in a mental hospital so dont tell me it.s allways the older one to blame just remember there.s no fool like an old fool and i can vouch for this itreally hurts
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i was 47 and actualy married a26 year old i idolised her put her on a pedastal adored her 450 at the wedding all betting it would.nt last but it did for 7 years then times got hard the money ran out and so did she //trouble isevery time she found out the grass was.nt greener on the other side she.d come back and like a fool i took her back /six fucking times // when we first got married she insisted i got the chop /but when i took her back the sixth time two day.s later she told me she had an appointment the next day for an abortion //i could.nt believe it but i took her there and then brought her home and nursed her but lo and behold with in a month she was off again but this time it was me that cracked up ihit the bottle so hard //::1 ltre coruba aday :: that i gassed myself in my car some body found me so sadly i survived but i spent 8 months in a mental hospital so dont tell me it.s allways the older one to blame just remember there.s no fool like an old fool and i can vouch for this itreally hurts
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12/08/2005 10:11 AM
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Im 57 and shes also 20. I think it might be good for 10 y ears or so, but then shes not going to want to be tied to a 67 yo guy and shell probably have a kid that she takes out of my life... Im thinking Id better drop it now.
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Yes!
For ages now people of all cultures have and will continue to do so...
My current love is 17yrs younger than I am.
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I think when youre only 20 years old the next decade of personal changes will be far more dramatic than with an older person. They wont be much at all in a decade like they are now. Really, its like marrying a stranger. It could work out but the odds are against it.

I wouldnt throw away a relationship based on age though.

A normal 20 year old woman should be interested in college guys. Think seriously about why yours is interested in an old fart, and dont factor yourself into this. Why does she really want somebody she wont be able to spend her whole life with or grow old with when she has many other options?

Go listen to HEY 19 by Steely Dan.
You should appreciate this.
12/08/2005 10:11 AM
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Subject: The point is.....
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> A 90-year-old man said to his doctor, "Ive never felt better".
> I have an 18-year-old bride who is pregnant with my child.
> What do you think about that?"
>
> The doctor considered his question for a minute and then said,
> "I have an elderly friend who is a hunter and never misses a season.
> One day when he was going out in a bit of a hurry, he accidentally
picked
> up
> his umbrella instead of his gun. When he got to the creek, he saw
> a beaver sitting beside the stream. He raised his umbrella and went,
> Bang!, Bang! and the beaver fell dead.
> What do you think about that?"
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> The 90-year-old said, "Id say somebody else shot that beaver.
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> The doctor replied, "My point exactly."
Rory
12/08/2005 10:11 AM
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Im 46 and my current girlfriend is 19 years old. My ex is still 21 (and we still see each other ;-, especially when shes unhappy with immature younger guys.

I make it a rule never to date girls who are older than 25 because they usually acquire a lot of cellulite after then.
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12/08/2005 10:11 AM
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I think its pretty sad when an old man has to go after young girls, even at 45. Says a lot about the man. Is he trying to recapture his youth or something? Mid-life crisis? Please! There are alot of good, beautiful older women out there who need love too and are looking for companionship. A lot of older women feel like theyve just been thrown away because of guys like you.
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I make it a rule never to date girls who are older than 25 because they usually acquire a lot of cellulite after then.


Hmm. Id like to see what the hell you look like asshole. You think youre 18 year old girlfriend is going to stick around when your gut and ass are sagging??? You, are the lowest form of manhood Ive ever seen.
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12/08/2005 10:11 AM
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Rory you are an asshole. bushfing
Rory
12/08/2005 10:11 AM
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Why the anger? JEALOUSY?

I dont force younger women to date me. In fact, THEY date me because a) Im good looking, 2) Im experienced, 3) I can show them a good time including plenty of travel abroad, 4) Im much fitter than many teenagers.

The girl decides. And they invariably CHOOSE me.
Eagle # 1
12/08/2005 10:11 AM
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The BASIC problem I ran into in this situation
when I was single for 12 years between wives is this;
Although your are old as you can DO, the thing you can NEVER change is the limited, unexperienced brain of that lovely young piece of fluff !
They will NEVER catch up to you and your lives will always be lived on two DIFFERENT levels of experience, which can be DAM frustrating. Older may not be as much an EGO trip as that young one, BUT, when it comes down to having an intelligent conversation, discussing everyday happening in an experienced, thoughtfull way, OLDER IS BETTER !
Your sex drives WILL deminish, looks fade and if that was most of what the relationship was based on, its OVER !
Better watch the movie Lolita AGAIN !!!

Eagle
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12/08/2005 10:11 AM
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sounds like youre pretty full of yourself. Actually Im a very, very sexy 48 year old woman and have had 25 year old guys after me but it doesnt mean I have to reciprocate you jerk. And actually, I am very happily recently married to a wonderful 52 year old guy who doesnt believe in dating girls his daughters age! Grow up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sick of men like you who have to go after young girls to prove your virility. No Im not jealous, I have what I want. Asshole.
Rory
12/08/2005 10:11 AM
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Eagle, you can always have older women as friends.

My current gal is amazingly intelligent and a damned good conversationalist. I enjoy giving her my more experienced perspective and I also love learning new stuff from her that no older woman could ever provide.

Many younger women are plain bored with boy-men of their own age.
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12/08/2005 10:11 AM
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itll never last.
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You can never really be sure. Love is a complicated thing. It can contain elements of lust, infatuation and other emotions that are really complex.

Why do we fall in love? Who can say?
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12/08/2005 10:11 AM
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Who cares? If youve looked at a few of the other threads this morning; environment, etc., then you dont have longer than 10-15 years together anyway! I say, go for the gusto, enjoy it, and when its over, let it go.
Latitia
12/08/2005 10:11 AM
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I do find many older men more attractive than the young jerks I know, unfortunately theyre all married!!!!

anyways 45 isnt that old. My dad is 47 and can run circles around my 22 years old brother -- soccer, baseball, sprinting ... you name it.
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12/08/2005 10:11 AM
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well i cant speak for the rest of you, but i can say that age in a person does have advantages. my current wife just turned 50, i am 36. we have a great time together and share many of the same interests. money is not a factor, as we both do the same thing for a living. she is very attractive and very young at heart.
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That dude, Rory, is full of shit!
Eagle # 1
12/08/2005 10:11 AM
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Rory, AC 9:36 has the final answer/word ! In my fifties, I dated a 19 year old. Age DID matter, and we were not compatable. I settled for dating thirty to forty year old women who KNEW what they were doing/wanted. Ended up marring a fifty year old with BOTH feet planted on the ground and a desire to work, NOT lay around the house thinking of things I could do when I got home.

Eagle
Rory
12/08/2005 10:11 AM
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Hey, whatever floats your boat.

Im definitely not interested in older women. I still attract smart younger chics and I dont see anything wrong with that.

In fact, history shows that this has always been the rule rather than the exception.

If youre happy with an older woman, thats fine by me. Personally, one mother is all I need.


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