From the ning:

. but nowadays i've begun to realize putting the ugly truth in front of ppl's eyes is not an effective way of conveying the message for most....i try to be more subtle, just ask questions to get conversations to go on & sometimes even play as the "reasonable skeptic".

[link to poleshift.ning.com]

And Nancy and company accuse others of being duplicitous. This brings back memories of the recruitment strategy of the Moonies.