Thank you for this, OP. Very helpful.

I got involved with one a month or so ago, even moved in with him, VERY STUPIDLY on my part.

Fortunately, I kept my own place, so when he kicked me out of his for not agreeing with him, I had somewhere to go back to.

I didn't have a better name for him until your post than ASSHOLE. Now I can very happily and more kindly call him NARCISSIST.

Thanks.