my mother's cancer is back

If she deserved the verbal assault, then so what?

People should not be treated differently because they're dying. We're all dying! Some of us are just closer than others.

Look at this Michael Jackson thing - Everyone hated him and made fun and called creepy and child molester - Then he dies and everyone freaks out and worships him.

When you die, you are only the memories of those who remember you - Therefore, your mother should be the one who feels bad (assuming she deserved the verbal assault). She is in charge of the memory of who she was, not you.

i am so sorry to hear that hun

i am always here if you need a shoulder ..

the problem is, i dont know if she deserved it. it was the result of pent up anger over the way she and my sisters treated me when i was younger and other stuff...

but my dad could have been the cause.

ive become so intent on finding out the answer im spiraling into a sickening madness. ive severed or lost contact with almost all of my friends and my family. and my work and home life is suffering.

as far as michael jackson goes, lets not get into that.

thank you.

It can be very sad. Cancer is very sad. And some forms of treatment can later contribute to problems and I read someplace even cancer. I don't understand it, but the info is out there. Sometimes it can be a complete remission. Sometimes it is a trade to live longer. In the end, we don't have a say. But you can talk to her about how you feel. Let her know the things we do are not always about how we love one another, ask her to forgive you and give your total support. Or at least as much as you can. There is a good chance you may not have her in your life as long as you thought you would. So it's a good time to revisit your actions and rethink your positions.
Think instead of a time when you may have to say goodbye, and be a fair and loving Daughter. At least in your heart you will know you did the best you could by her. And be grateful you still have time to say those things.

hey uh...i have a pecker.

yes, her cancer had been gone for about 4 or 5 years. she lucked out and didnt have to have chemo the first time.


bleh

You need to make her feel as good as possible, keep her spirits up. If you can solve your dispute, make sure it has a happy ending, and things remain positive without holding back any grudges.. The mind is a very powerful and sensitive thing.

thats not possible. she told me not to bother contacting her.

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it is within to be without. blessings and light to your family.

thank you. they need it alot more than i do.

oh that sux, well maybe you can wait for a while and then call her when things have blown over somewhat. Either that or try writing a letter, or just send her some flowers (I know that is corny, but mothers like that sort of thing)

you verbally assaulted her ONLINE?! the height of cowardice! use MMS and DMSO, that will get rid of her cancer.

Your genes are 50% hers, I guess you were nurtured and raised by her. You are able to communicate on this forum, which suggests you have successfully (to some extent) developed an adult mind.

You are a product of your mother, she is presumably reaping what she sowed. I congratulate you both, and hope you and your mother do not suffer too much in her illness.

Hope she is going to be okay. Take her to the far depths of the world and have the Shamans cure her. It works.

Love & Light xx

dude, if i had said what id said in person, she whould have smacked the shit out of me and started a fight.

the last time we got into it, lawn chairs, shoes, and boots were thrown. and doors were kicked...

i wouldnt exactly call it a verbal assault but i did. i didnt call her any names.

i have been called a shaman before. i dont know if its true or not, the person who told me is in question. if i knew how, i would.

i donno if she sowed it though. and its eatin me alive that i did what i did.

sorry, lost my AC hood yesterday

thats cool.

Hello OP, I'm very sorry to hear about your mother's cancer returned :( I am very very close to both my parents and not cancer but they are not doing good. My mom has copd (emphasyma) and sever fibromyalgia. My dad had a heart attack (minor) about 5 years ago and showing signs of alzhimers. I know how you feel about getting in arguments with them than finding out shitty news but...you obviously said what you did for a reason and your mom may or may not understand that. I personally hate it when people oppologize for something they said wrong...you know oh I'm sorry I said that, well not really cause if you were..you wouldn't of said it. My suggestion, cause it's just guilt you feel...talk to her and explain to her why you said what you did, just make amends! Good luck and I hope she beats this!

thank you.