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Any love cheats or people who've been cheated on?
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Ryanemm
User ID: 391945
7/4/2009 2:40 AM
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So yeah i'm seeing a girl and she's amazing, seems so perfect for me, we have such a good time,and shes not even my usual type...problem is shes got a boyfriend, the boyfriend isnt really the problem though because i know i could get him out of the picture if i so desired, but my conscience is unable to take the idea of hurting the guy......so what should i do?
Anyone with experience of a similar situation?
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Anonymous Coward
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7/4/2009 2:51 AM | | Re: Any love cheats or people who've been cheated on? | Quote |
what has she said about the situation? |
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Ryanemm
User ID: 391945
7/4/2009 2:52 AM | | Re: Any love cheats or people who've been cheated on? | Quote |
what has she said about the situation? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 717820
She wants me, but she loves her bf
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hardboiledheretic
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7/4/2009 2:55 AM
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Winningjob
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7/4/2009 2:56 AM | | Re: Any love cheats or people who've been cheated on? | Quote |
Friend, I once was told the following:
Leopards spots may fade, but never go away.
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Ryanemm
User ID: 391945
7/4/2009 2:56 AM | | Re: Any love cheats or people who've been cheated on? | Quote |
Friend, I once was told the following:
Leopards spots may fade, but never go away. Quoting: Winningjob
I know but i feel myself falling for her and she feels the same :/
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Anonymous Coward
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7/4/2009 2:57 AM | | Re: Any love cheats or people who've been cheated on? | Quote |
Friend, I once was told the following:
Leopards spots may fade, but never go away. Quoting: Winningjob
its true ditch the bitch while u can or dont get attached and use her for sex |
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hardboiledheretic
User ID: 716940
7/4/2009 2:59 AM
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Both Quoting: hardboiledheretic
fwiw, it will never happen again. At least on my part.
Should have made that clear the first time.
But until it happens to you, you will never understand. Having been through it now, I get it and it's not that simple.
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Ryanemm
User ID: 391945
7/4/2009 3:00 AM | | Re: Any love cheats or people who've been cheated on? | Quote |
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fwiw, it will never happen again. At least on my part.
Should have made that clear the first time.
But until it happens to you, you will never understand. Having been through it now, I get it and it's not that simple.
h Quoting: hardboiledheretic
Was the fun worth it? when u were steeing someones partner?
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Ryanemm
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7/4/2009 3:01 AM | | Re: Any love cheats or people who've been cheated on? | Quote |
Friend, I once was told the following:
Leopards spots may fade, but never go away.
its true ditch the bitch while u can or dont get attached and use her for sex Quoting: Anonymous Coward 597724
That opens up another world of morally palatable acts though :(....i want the sex but i like the person
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cosmic yo yo
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7/4/2009 3:01 AM
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trust no one |
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Phuck
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7/4/2009 3:03 AM
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find someone else, even if you do get her away from her bf that she loves she'll cry and be in a shitty mood for a while and she will go to you to do all that and then you'll find yourself in an unwanted situation even though you really like her and it will complicate things and down the road youll say to yourself "i really wish i wouldnt have done that" the end
Phuck
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Ryanemm
User ID: 391945
7/4/2009 3:03 AM | | Re: Any love cheats or people who've been cheated on? | Quote |
trust no one Quoting: cosmic yo yo
i do
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Anonymous Coward
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7/4/2009 3:08 AM | | Re: Any love cheats or people who've been cheated on? | Quote |
Be a man and respect the other man's position. He doesn't deserve to have his girl cheat on him and you don't want that on your conscience.
Give her the choice and you will find out if she is worth anything more than a romp session.
If you go at it like this, the next person getting chumped will likely be you. |
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Ryanemm
User ID: 391945
7/4/2009 3:08 AM | | Re: Any love cheats or people who've been cheated on? | Quote |
find someone else, even if you do get her away from her bf that she loves she'll cry and be in a shitty mood for a while and she will go to you to do all that and then you'll find yourself in an unwanted situation even though you really like her and it will complicate things and down the road youll say to yourself "i really wish i wouldnt have done that" the end Quoting: Phuck
Best advice so far
+1
Given that we have gotten this close though, a friendship alone is no longer viable...should i take the sex and run?
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Anonymous Coward
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7/4/2009 3:09 AM | | Re: Any love cheats or people who've been cheated on? | Quote |
If this bitch is willing to cheat on her current boyfriend, what makes you think she won't do the same to you?
You're screwing around with an untrustworthy, lying, cheating, sneaky person. Is that the kind of woman you want to get seriously involved with? If so, you're a damn fool, son. |
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Ryanemm
User ID: 391945
7/4/2009 3:09 AM | | Re: Any love cheats or people who've been cheated on? | Quote |
Be a man and respect the other man's position. He doesn't deserve to have his girl cheat on him and you don't want that on your conscience.
Give her the choice and you will find out if she is worth anything more than a romp session.
If you go at it like this, the next person getting chumped will likely be you. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 624751
Again good advice, her main reason for doing this is because her bf did the same to her though so im kinda wondering if its so bad...
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Ryanemm
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7/4/2009 3:10 AM | | Re: Any love cheats or people who've been cheated on? | Quote |
If this bitch is willing to cheat on her current boyfriend, what makes you think she won't do the same to you?
You're screwing around with an untrustworthy, lying, cheating, sneaky person. Is that the kind of woman you want to get seriously involved with? If so, you're a damn fool, son. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 694615
A fool....you're probably right...she has asked me to go to her house today....i will keep u posted i spose
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7/4/2009 3:11 AM
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If this bitch is willing to cheat on her current boyfriend, what makes you think she won't do the same to you?
You're screwing around with an untrustworthy, lying, cheating, sneaky person. Is that the kind of woman you want to get seriously involved with? If so, you're a damn fool, son.
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Ryanemm
User ID: 391945
7/4/2009 3:13 AM | | Re: Any love cheats or people who've been cheated on? | Quote |
Why cant i meet a decent woman for once and not a psycho or a cheater :(
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cosmic yo yo
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7/4/2009 3:14 AM
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Why cant i meet a decent woman for once and not a psycho or a cheater :( Quoting: Ryanemm
The same goes for men...... |
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Anonymous Coward
User ID: 624751
7/4/2009 3:15 AM | | Re: Any love cheats or people who've been cheated on? | Quote |
Don't be her revenge fuck if you really are digging this chick. It sounds to me like you are the rebound/revenge guy. If I am way off then so be it, but this is not a game you want to get caught up in. Especially if you are groovin on her.
Tell her to ditch the boyfriend and call you when it's done. Otherwise you will get played for a fool and when all the dust settles, she will be content that she hurt her boyfriend as much as he hurt her, and they will be even and live happily ever after. You on the other hand are going to get used and probably in a fight with the boyfriend.
Don't play her game, you make the rules. If she doesn't want to play by them, find someone else. |
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hardboiledheretic
User ID: 716940
7/4/2009 3:16 AM
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fwiw, it will never happen again. At least on my part.
Should have made that clear the first time.
But until it happens to you, you will never understand. Having been through it now, I get it and it's not that simple.
h
Was the fun worth it? when u were steeing someones partner? Quoting: Ryanemm
My husband cheated on me and ended up marrying her. He wanted kids and I didn't. It was a shock. Everyone knew except me.
A few years later, my dear (married) friend at work confessed his love to me. He's a cool guy but it was not about the fun. It was about the love. Yes we had fun but as time went on I couldn't go on anymore. Feeling very guilty because his wife has done nothing wrong. Plus there is nothing in it for me in any way.
I'm done with it, I don't want to hurt her or his family. I'll never do that again.
I explained it to him...he says he understands but I don't know. When you're at work it's hard to talk..
Okay so now I'm baring my soul here to you all. Flame away.
Back in the day I would have booed and hissed at a post like this. But this came out of left field for me...wait until it happens to you before you judge.
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Ryanemm
User ID: 391945
7/4/2009 3:18 AM | | Re: Any love cheats or people who've been cheated on? | Quote |
Don't be her revenge fuck if you really are digging this chick. It sounds to me like you are the rebound/revenge guy. If I am way off then so be it, but this is not a game you want to get caught up in. Especially if you are groovin on her.
Tell her to ditch the boyfriend and call you when it's done. Otherwise you will get played for a fool and when all the dust settles, she will be content that she hurt her boyfriend as much as he hurt her, and they will be even and live happily ever after. You on the other hand are going to get used and probably in a fight with the boyfriend.
Don't play her game, you make the rules. If she doesn't want to play by them, find someone else. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 624751
Your post wins so far +2
So you're saying i must make the rules and if she doesn't like it..walk away?
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Anonymous Coward
User ID: 2528
7/4/2009 3:20 AM | | Re: Any love cheats or people who've been cheated on? | Quote |
I have no interest whatsoever in procreating, nor can I feel "love" for a human, but I do find it amusing to watch others, and the webs they weave. |
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Ryanemm
User ID: 391945
7/4/2009 3:21 AM | | Re: Any love cheats or people who've been cheated on? | Quote |
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fwiw, it will never happen again. At least on my part.
Should have made that clear the first time.
But until it happens to you, you will never understand. Having been through it now, I get it and it's not that simple.
h
Was the fun worth it? when u were steeing someones partner?
My husband cheated on me and ended up marrying her. He wanted kids and I didn't. It was a shock. Everyone knew except me.
A few years later, my dear (married) friend at work confessed his love to me. He's a cool guy but it was not about the fun. It was about the love. Yes we had fun but as time went on I couldn't go on anymore. Feeling very guilty because his wife has done nothing wrong. Plus there is nothing in it for me in any way.
I'm done with it, I don't want to hurt her or his family. I'll never do that again.
I explained it to him...he says he understands but I don't know. When you're at work it's hard to talk..
Okay so now I'm baring my soul here to you all. Flame away.
Back in the day I would have booed and hissed at a post like this. But this came out of left field for me...wait until it happens to you before you judge.
h Quoting: hardboiledheretic
I'm not judging , to each their own....we are all different...I'm just looking for advice before i get too deep and your story is exacly what i should know, thank-you
x
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Ryanemm
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7/4/2009 3:21 AM | | Re: Any love cheats or people who've been cheated on? | Quote |
I have no interest whatsoever in procreating, nor can I feel "love" for a human, but I do find it amusing to watch others, and the webs they weave. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 2528
A-sexual per chance?
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hardboiledheretic
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7/4/2009 3:22 AM
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I have no interest whatsoever in procreating, nor can I feel "love" for a human, but I do find it amusing to watch others, and the webs they weave. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 2528
Sorry for you AC.
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Winningjob
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7/4/2009 3:24 AM | | Re: Any love cheats or people who've been cheated on? | Quote |
h...no one is judging you (at least not me) I applaud you for being honest and baring your soul..many can't, will not or are not ready to be vulnerable to others or to even look at themselves for the good/bad and lessons/experiences.
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hardboiledheretic
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7/4/2009 3:25 AM
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I'm not judging , to each their own....we are all different...I'm just looking for advice before i get too deep and your story is exacly what i should know, thank-you
x Quoting: Ryanemm
Thanks hon, and good luck Rya. As you said, every situation is unique. And esp. you have the "not being married" part in your favor fyi.
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Anonymous Coward
User ID: 2528
7/4/2009 3:26 AM | | Re: Any love cheats or people who've been cheated on? | Quote |
No....usually my sexual fantasies involve other people cheating and hurting one another and being perverse in general. But I have no interest in actually being involved. I just like to watch them. I know it's a terrible way to be, but why would I want to involve myself with such dangerous animals? |
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