why is my ex being such a vindictive prick?

the problem is you don't appear to care.
to him, anyways.
he is trying to elicit a reaction out of you...

Did you do anything that pissed him off? No offense. But think hard...even the smallest thing you thought was insignificant?

you're right; this morning, he got a big reaction out of me and just laughed and said 'i love it'... i only wish it wasn't hurting the kids in the process.. anyways, thanks for your thoughts







he tries everything he can to make life as difficult for me as possible; i've tried to keep the peace, he just keeps on trying to find ways to get to me..wtf is his problem?????


the problem is you don't appear to care.
to him, anyways.
he is trying to elicit a reaction out of you...

I informed the police two years ago of him doing things with my daughter that he shouldn't have been doing (his daughter too); he can't take responsibility for it, he just holds it all against me as though I've done something wrong to him because I informed the police of what he did to her. Deep down, it's probably that that's still bugging him... so now because he's trashed his relationship with his daughter, he wants to try and destroy mine with my son.






Did you do anything that pissed him off? No offense. But think hard...even the smallest thing you thought was insignificant?

i'm over his shit I really am.







he tries everything he can to make life as difficult for me as possible; i've tried to keep the peace, he just keeps on trying to find ways to get to me..wtf is his problem?????

I know it's messed up because of the kids...but leave him and don't look back. Best wishes.

Abuser. He's tightening the noose. He will make you isolate yourself put you down, start shoving you.

Dump him NOW.

Thanks sweet, I left him eight years ago... i try to lead my own life and leave him to his, but he just keeps trying to find some way legally or through the kids to stir things up for me ~ wish he'd eat some more KFC, add to his big gut and cease to exist.






I informed the police two years ago of him doing things with my daughter that he shouldn't have been doing (his daughter too); he can't take responsibility for it, he just holds it all against me as though I've done something wrong to him because I informed the police of what he did to her. Deep down, it's probably that that's still bugging him... so now because he's trashed his relationship with his daughter, he wants to try and destroy mine with my son.






Did you do anything that pissed him off? No offense. But think hard...even the smallest thing you thought was insignificant?


I know it's messed up because of the kids...but leave him and don't look back. Best wishes.

LEAVE HIM NOW.. TAKE YOUR KIDS AND GO. GET A GOOD LAWYER

you reproduced with this asshole ????

Bunch of fuckheads she said ITS HER EX!!

Why is your esteem so low OP, that you are settling for a pedophile and criminal?

you are right there too; an abuser he is.








he tries everything he can to make life as difficult for me as possible; i've tried to keep the peace, he just keeps on trying to find ways to get to me..wtf is his problem?????



Abuser. He's tightening the noose. He will make you isolate yourself put you down, start shoving you.

Dump him NOW.

LET ME REPHRASE THAT. GET A GOOD LAWYER AND STOP VISITATION.
GIVE POLICE REPORTS TO ATTORNY.

I mean I know you are not together but he is still a stalker and you still have some emotional tie to him or you wouldn't tolerate his presence in any form. Get a restraining order and better yet, move 2000 miles away. He's a lunatic, and won't let go.

mmm, that he is... an asshole...









you reproduced with this asshole ????

But he won't leave her alone. She needs to get away from him completely.

already have a restrainin order on him... and i can't move away cause my son lives with him. I'll not leave my son.







Why is your esteem so low OP, that you are settling for a pedophile and criminal?



I mean I know you are not together but he is still a stalker and you still have some emotional tie to him or you wouldn't tolerate his presence in any form. Get a restraining order and better yet, move 2000 miles away. He's a lunatic, and won't let go.

Get to court, get a child advocate. Your son belongs with you.

why would you want to be with a man who does stuff to little girls (your daughter and his)????????????

just curious.

Hey sweet, thanks for your thoughts... my son is fifteen years old; the court will take into account where he wants to live, and he does want to live with his father as he has a bigger residence, loads of computers, games, pets etc that he enjoys being around. I live in a little two bedroom place with my daughter (I can't afford anything else right now), he doesn't even have his own room here so for that reason he wishes to live with his father; in fact when i asked him to come back he wouldn't hear of it and even if i go to court, the courts will look at what my son wants and it will likely have alot of weight in the decision making process of the courts.









already have a restrainin order on him... and i can't move away cause my son lives with him. I'll not leave my son.







Why is your esteem so low OP, that you are settling for a pedophile and criminal?



I mean I know you are not together but he is still a stalker and you still have some emotional tie to him or you wouldn't tolerate his presence in any form. Get a restraining order and better yet, move 2000 miles away. He's a lunatic, and won't let go.




Get to court, get a child advocate. Your son belongs with you.

he's my ex!!!!!! I never thought in a million years that he'd have done that to his daughter ten years after she was born or I'd never have been with someone like that. I've been broken up with him for eight to nine years now.








why would you want to be with a man who does stuff to little girls (your daughter and his)????????????

just curious.

NEVER.
EVER.
Believe a party to a domestic quarrel.

They always lie, they always will, both parties are always wrong.

When they mention "for the kids" in their defense you know they are lying in double time.

It's a blame thing. Since you have no idea whatsoever who is to blame it is insanity to take sides or judge.

Just let her speak her peace and ignore the thread.

Maybe he needs his kneecaps adjusted.

He is jelous that is is not around you ,keeping and I on you ,not noing what you are doing ,simple fact.

lol.... that's what my friend said; must be a shared sentiment. Thanks for the laugh on a day when he's makin life particularly difficult for me.









Maybe he needs his kneecaps adjusted.

:-)

maybe he's on another forum spouting the same BS and venom as you are.



you don't sound honest or trustworthy ....

mmm quite likely, thanx for your thoughts.







He is jelous that is is not around you ,keeping and I on you ,not noing what you are doing ,simple fact.

Maybe Tony and Vinni could have a little chat with him!!! LOL