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I found my Twin Flame, but he is married to someone else!

 
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I found my Twin Flame, but he is married to someone else!
I found my Twin Flame (or, as some people call it – Soul Mate), but he is married to someone else!

I have known him for almost 7 years since 2002, we were immediately drawn to each other and talked forever while finishing each other’s sentences, and found out from each other in later years that we even have the same “rare” books resting on our bookshelves at our own homes, and sharing the same “psychic” experiences with each other, and throughout years, we have also shared our deepest dreams and spiritual beliefs with the same wishes to carry them out in reality, for a better future of the world and the very cause of humanity …. and… well, life was in Heaven whenever we saw each other, even just as “normal friends”… and we acted and felt like the closest souls on earth – like the Chinese saying "the other half".

In fact, we have only been friends throughout the years, but only now (a month ago, at the end of June 2009) we suddenly realized there is/was so MUCH MORE to just friendship between us. But, until now, we still haven't expressed a word of our feelings to each other, because we don't need to, and we just KNOW what each other is thinking (e.g. how shocking we were/are when both of us found out the truth of our relationship at exactly the same time!).

We are now forced apart, not seeing and meeting each other at all, partly because we don't want to cause any pain or troubles to him/me and his family (his wife and child), this decision was also made “silently”, "automatically" and “spontaneously” on both sides, without an exchange of word with each other – we “did” it within about two weeks after our realization of the “truth”, simply because we KNOW so well of each other's mind and what the other wishes to do under such circumstances – that we do not want to hurt ANYONE including/especially each other, and anybody around us that we care for, this is the unconditional love we have for each other, no matter how much pain it may bring to both of us (by parting voluntarily), you see. A strange philosophy, isn’t it?!

Now I am in such pain!! (He, too, I am sure) He had been a inseparable part of me the last seven years, and that part is now taken away, ironically, because I love him (and him, me) too much that have to let each other go – we have to let go also because it’s almost impossible for us to keep the same friendship like it was before as our feelings for each other is too strong, and we would probably do something “stupid” or would not let each other get out of our sight anymore if we had continued to see each other as “friends”, as such, we both know that we are no more “friends” only, but Twin Flames (or Soul Mates!)
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Re: I found my Twin Flame, but he is married to someone else!
Just like real life.
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TRUTH doesn't cause problems...

If it is obstructed, it is wrong or the timing is all off.

Either way, it significantly subtracts from the substantiality of it all.

Do not be deceived.
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Re: I found my Twin Flame, but he is married to someone else!
You romanticize overactive hormones..when in reality it is only the thought of sneaking around and doing something forbidden is the real turn on..you might not think so now...but someday you will see the truth..those type of relationships almost never last...they burn bright but fade fast...and not seeing each other is the best thing to do because others would be hurt and destroyed by it...think of it as a ship in the night..let it pass into forever...
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Re: I found my Twin Flame, but he is married to someone else!
Get over it (as harsh it may seem).
Seeing the mirror of our deficiencies on a day to day life is more than most can handle with, even with love (I learnt the hard way).
Especially currently where feelings get deeper.
Better find a normal partner with love.
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Re: I found my Twin Flame, but he is married to someone else!
He is your twin flame but you can't stay friends because he is married?

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If it is meant to be, it is meant to be.

If it IS meant to be, he will divorce, and you two will end up together, as you should.
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I found my twinflame too... we were BOTH married to different people at the time... we are now together.
We went through absolute HELL to get to where we are today... but we made it.
In the end... it is all worth it, to have your twin by your side :-)
What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.
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You romanticize overactive hormones..when in reality it is only the thought of sneaking around and doing something forbidden is the real turn on..you might not think so now...but someday you will see the truth..those type of relationships almost never last...they burn bright but fade fast...and not seeing each other is the best thing to do because others would be hurt and destroyed by it...think of it as a ship in the night..let it pass into forever...
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See... what you are talking about is something completely different, and by your comments I can see that you dont understand this connection and never will, and for that, I pity you, but can understand how your small-mindedness can get to this point where you have so little faith in the divine connection.

OP - dont listen to this person - I am the other half of Jugoslovak, we are TF's and our story is similar to what you are going through. There is hope, you have been drawn together for a reason and you will be together, whether in this life or the next. Have faith in your flame, believe in your connection, but most of all, be thankful that you found each other, because the reality is that most, and I mean over 95% of people, never have the opportunity, and unfortunately never will because of close-minded attitudes and negativity as displayed by our friend above.

Best of luck to you xxx hf
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Re: I found my Twin Flame, but he is married to someone else!
Get over it (as harsh it may seem).
Seeing the mirror of our deficiencies on a day to day life is more than most can handle with, even with love (I learnt the hard way).
Especially currently where feelings get deeper.
Better find a normal partner with love.
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Soooo in other words settle for second best....

Dont know about you but I couldnt do that.

Each to their own
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If it is meant to be, it is meant to be.

If it IS meant to be, he will divorce, and you two will end up together, as you should.
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Here here :-) finally someone with an open mind :-)
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OP, it's probably not what you think. Step away and you might realize you're mistaken.
Here is where I look back.
Here is where you fell.
This is where I got up,
Shaking off my tail
This is where your rope trick
Started to look stale.
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Re: I found my Twin Flame, but he is married to someone else!
such an idealistic notion of the world
rampant idealism destroys lives
I am pro death.
This is founded on the premise that any problem is a non issue if enough people die
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Re: I found my Twin Flame, but he is married to someone else!
I think most people can't grasp the life changing experience of meeting the twin, until it happens to them.

These are the most difficult relationships to work out.
The problems aren't so much as the unconditional love that automatically happens between them but deprogramming themselves from what this world has told them they are.

That is a painful process
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If it is meant to be, it is meant to be.

If it IS meant to be, he will divorce, and you two will end up together, as you should.


Here here :-) finally someone with an open mind :-)
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An open mind?? So breaking up a family and depriving a child of its father is noble in your book huh? Just as long as you get what you want?
That is such a self-centered and irresponsible statement..you said you feel sorry for me...because i dont understand..listen you dont know me and i do understand from experience what she is going through sometimes it takes harsh words to make people see the truth..i have morals and values..do you ? appaarently not since every man out there is fair game as long as a woman has a craving for him ..in your opinion..regardless of the circumstances..
Im afraid you my dear ..are in the minority here..most people do not agree with you..
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You romanticize overactive hormones..when in reality it is only the thought of sneaking around and doing something forbidden is the real turn on..you might not think so now...but someday you will see the truth..those type of relationships almost never last...they burn bright but fade fast...and not seeing each other is the best thing to do because others would be hurt and destroyed by it...think of it as a ship in the night..let it pass into forever...


See... what you are talking about is something completely different, and by your comments I can see that you dont understand this connection and never will, and for that, I pity you, but can understand how your small-mindedness can get to this point where you have so little faith in the divine connection.

OP - dont listen to this person - I am the other half of Jugoslovak, we are TF's and our story is similar to what you are going through. There is hope, you have been drawn together for a reason and you will be together, whether in this life or the next. Have faith in your flame, believe in your connection, but most of all, be thankful that you found each other, because the reality is that most, and I mean over 95% of people, never have the opportunity, and unfortunately never will because of close-minded attitudes and negativity as displayed by our friend above.

Best of luck to you xxx hf
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The divine connection huh? Well while you are up there floating around in all your divine glory why dont you stop and ask the divine angel floating next to you about Adultery..and while your at it miss divine...tell him how you advise people to break up marriages to satisfy their divine love ..im sure it will go over real big with mr. angel and might even get you some brownie points when judgement day comes..NOT! Tell him how you think adultery is nothing more than ones path to the divine love tree will ya? Im sure he will have some choice words for you.
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There are no soul mates. You're crushing hard on a married dude.
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Get over it (as harsh it may seem).
Seeing the mirror of our deficiencies on a day to day life is more than most can handle with, even with love (I learnt the hard way).
Especially currently where feelings get deeper.
Better find a normal partner with love.


Soooo in other words settle for second best....

Dont know about you but I couldnt do that.

Each to their own
 Quoting: TwinFlameAngel308


It took me a decade without contacts to get to this point.
I know how it hurts.

But...

only with someone loving me be beeing much different, I learnt to love myself and be myself. With my twin flame I was just ready to accept any sacrifice just to get it back.
I was just a drug addict looking for its flame not really wanting to see what the drug was getting in the path of finding myself and finding my unity.

Now I am married, I have children. My twin flame is married too, looks like he had gone back to his old habbit of working 60 hours a week, never wanted a family life anyway.

We are here on earth not to loose ourselves in our twin flame but to learn to be strong enough to live as a full independent identity. Looking back, our paths for this life were much different from each other and we would have lost much destroying everything around us to be together.

The funny thing is now, I have still deep feeling for him as I will always have, but I don't NEED him anymore to be myself. I just smile to others still hurt and not feeling this oneness and freedom. I understand you more than you may think, but it's over for me.
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You romanticize overactive hormones..when in reality it is only the thought of sneaking around and doing something forbidden is the real turn on..you might not think so now...but someday you will see the truth..those type of relationships almost never last...they burn bright but fade fast...and not seeing each other is the best thing to do because others would be hurt and destroyed by it...think of it as a ship in the night..let it pass into forever...


See... what you are talking about is something completely different, and by your comments I can see that you dont understand this connection and never will, and for that, I pity you, but can understand how your small-mindedness can get to this point where you have so little faith in the divine connection.

OP - dont listen to this person - I am the other half of Jugoslovak, we are TF's and our story is similar to what you are going through. There is hope, you have been drawn together for a reason and you will be together, whether in this life or the next. Have faith in your flame, believe in your connection, but most of all, be thankful that you found each other, because the reality is that most, and I mean over 95% of people, never have the opportunity, and unfortunately never will because of close-minded attitudes and negativity as displayed by our friend above.

Best of luck to you xxx hf

An open mind?? So breaking up a family and depriving a child of its father is noble in your book huh? Just as long as you get what you want?
That is such a self-centered and irresponsible statement..you said you feel sorry for me...because i dont understand..listen you dont know me and i do understand from experience what she is going through sometimes it takes harsh words to make people see the truth..i have morals and values..do you ? appaarently not since every man out there is fair game as long as a woman has a craving for him ..in your opinion..regardless of the circumstances..
Im afraid you my dear ..are in the minority here..most people do not agree with you..

The divine connection huh? Well while you are up there floating around in all your divine glory why dont you stop and ask the divine angel floating next to you about Adultery..and while your at it miss divine...tell him how you advise people to break up marriages to satisfy their divine love ..im sure it will go over real big with mr. angel and might even get you some brownie points when judgement day comes..NOT! Tell him how you think adultery is nothing more than ones path to the divine love tree will ya? Im sure he will have some choice words for you.
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I never said anything about breaking up families or depriving children of their fathers... if you take yourself out of your angry rage state and actually read what was written you would realise that...

I do feel sorry for you because you are blind and will always be that way... its clear to me at least that you will never be capable of the twin flame connection or its divine rewards, because you are so tied up in badgering people like me for our beliefs, youre missing the point of the whole subject.

You have NO idea what "my opinion" is, apart from the one you rammed down my throat. And I dont care that I am a minority, I am happy, and I want to share my advice and experiences with others who have expressed an interest in the subject, in the hope that they might also be HAPPY. Last I checked, freedom of speech was still ok, so is the right to disagree. I did not tell OP to break up marriages or whatever else you think in your little head - I simply offered her hope through my own experience, and what she CHOOSES to do from this point onward is none of mine, or your business.

Just because you may have had a shitty experience with this subject doesnt mean you should quash other peoples desires or criticize their life choices in the matter.

As far as what my angels think of my decisions - I am sated because I know that I have connected with my twinflame, and that, above all else the highest compliment to Him, the coming together of two souls whose flames He lit long ago, which now burns as one due to our reunion. The angels sing about our love, they more than likely shake their heads in shame at YOU!

I dont need to win any "brownie points" - judgement day is not what you have been led to believe by the hate-mongers of society, and when my day comes and I face my creator, I will hold my head high, because I KNOW i havent done anything to displease the Higher Powers.

Go educate yourself - I'm done with you.

sheep
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I never said anything about breaking up families or depriving children of their fathers... if you take yourself out of your angry rage state and actually read what was written you would realise that...

I do feel sorry for you because you are blind and will always be that way... its clear to me at least that you will never be capable of the twin flame connection or its divine rewards, because you are so tied up in badgering people like me for our beliefs, youre missing the point of the whole subject.

You have NO idea what "my opinion" is, apart from the one you rammed down my throat. And I dont care that I am a minority, I am happy, and I want to share my advice and experiences with others who have expressed an interest in the subject, in the hope that they might also be HAPPY. Last I checked, freedom of speech was still ok, so is the right to disagree. I did not tell OP to break up marriages or whatever else you think in your little head - I simply offered her hope through my own experience, and what she CHOOSES to do from this point onward is none of mine, or your business.

Just because you may have had a shitty experience with this subject doesnt mean you should quash other peoples desires or criticize their life choices in the matter.

As far as what my angels think of my decisions - I am sated because I know that I have connected with my twinflame, and that, above all else the highest compliment to Him, the coming together of two souls whose flames He lit long ago, which now burns as one due to our reunion. The angels sing about our love, they more than likely shake their heads in shame at YOU!

I dont need to win any "brownie points" - judgement day is not what you have been led to believe by the hate-mongers of society, and when my day comes and I face my creator, I will hold my head high, because I KNOW i havent done anything to displease the Higher Powers.

Go educate yourself - I'm done with you.

sheep
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+1
Well said srce.
What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.
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Re: I found my Twin Flame, but he is married to someone else!
Have you given him a BJ yet?
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OP: let me offer this advice.

i beleive in successive lives for the purpose of growing spiritually during each one.

My personal belief, (just that, nothing more) is that we make contracts with ourselves before we come back each time.

If you and your TF never get to be together in this life, it is because you both agreed before hand that it wouldn't happen.

Lessons to learn for both of maybe? Some karma to repair from previous lives? Who knows?

but know that our true TF remain with us for many many lives and that sooner or later you will be together either in another life or on the other side.

My hubby and I are like that, we just KNEW from the second we met who the other one was. We were both 45 when we met, and it was after failed marriages for both of us. We laugh at it soemtimes and say "Let's see if we cant make a plan to get together SOONER next time around."

get my point? For whatever reason, this is the path that you both chose, and nothing in this one life is forever.
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Did you two "do" it?
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Maybe the male AC is angry because he doesn't have the balls to be a man and follow through with completing his desires.

Sometimes religion gets in the way of being a complete spiritual human within another complete spiritual human. Primitively, women are killed when they cannot be married to the man they love, out of separate caste system. Does one not equate a spiritual death when this happens as well?

I think it's ridiculous to lie to the self as much as it is to lie to others.

Children surely KNOW their parents are incomplete when adults have met their soul mate and are un-joined. Children know alot they do not put words to.
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I would be very interested in hearing this story from his perspective!
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I have never met a whore who didn't have a reason to believe they were not one.
Pardon me for interrupting your premature celebration, but I thought it only fair to give you a sporting chance as you are new to this game.
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It's homewreckers like you that should be given a swift kick to the ass. grow up and grab a fucken brain.
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TRUTH doesn't cause problems...

If it is obstructed, it is wrong or the timing is all off.

Either way, it significantly subtracts from the substantiality of it all.

Do not be deceived.
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and,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,on top of all that....

there is no such thing your are your twin flame git it.......
It doesn't matter who I m it's who U R so ChoOse
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I don't understand why the two of you were such close friends to begin with. I don't think a married person should develop close friendships with the opposite sex. Too much trouble waiting to happen, IMO.

But anyway, at least you are backing away from it now. That's at least halfway honorable.
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back off!!! home breaker
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There are no soul mates. You're crushing hard on a married dude.
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We only have OP's claim that it goes two ways as well... The concept of soul mate is an immature concept - at best it's narcissism since you're essentially falling for your own reflection (or one you project). I believed in soul mates when I was in my teens and ditched a lot of great guys because I didn't think they were my 'twin'. Looking back, I was an idiot.

If it was really meant to be (especially after 7 years!) then you'd already be together. Sounds to me like you're using him as a way of avoiding finding a real relationship.

It's not what you find, it's what you create with someone.

And yes, any 'relationship' can seem idyllic when you're not at the stage of figuring out how to break out of doing the same old thing on Friday after five years of living together, (or in other cases, rationalizing the break up of at least one person's family).

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