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Friends with benefits?

 
Anonymous Coward
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08/23/2009 08:54 PM
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Friends with benefits?
How to keep a friends with benefit's relationship going strong? Your opinions?
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08/23/2009 08:55 PM
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Re: Friends with benefits?
Yikes.
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08/23/2009 09:25 PM
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How to keep a friends with benefit's relationship going strong? Your opinions?
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I had a few of those type of relationships, and some one always wants more.
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08/23/2009 09:28 PM

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I'm not sure it's possible without someone getting hurt. Better to save it for someone you want to be in a realtionship with. IMHO, of course, but it does suck not getting any lol
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08/23/2009 09:30 PM
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Re: Friends with benefits?
Just give them plenty of benefits!

Simple.
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08/23/2009 09:56 PM
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I know some friends that have had that kind of relationship for over 5 years. It really fascinates me.

The key seems to be cool about it when one finds some one else for awhile. They always part on friendly terms but don't have much contact with each other during those times except for an occasional "Hi, how are ya" email under the guise of friendship only.

It seems the "some one else" never works out for either of them and they always drift back to each other. The longest they have been away from each other is 6 months and the shortest like 1 month. They never get jealous and send the other off with their blessings probably knowing that they will see each other again soon.

They are just really comfortable around each other like a couple who has been married 50 years or something. The woman has been married before and doesn't want to remarry ever (so she says). Therein lies the problem. She has never led him on to think otherwise. The guy feels that is a dead end and wants to get on with his life - marriage and kids. So they remain just friends with benefits for now.

I think they care about each other more than they realize. Or maybe they do realize it and it scares them. I think they will always be good friends even if one or both end up marrying someone else.

It makes me happy to be around them and see how playful and loving they are to each other. But it's sad that they think there is no permanent future for them.

I asked her once when he was with some one else for six months if she was sad about it. She said that she loved him and only wanted his happiness. She said she would be happy for him if it worked out because she can't give him what he is seeking - marriage and children (she can't have children).

It's kinda sad but it sure looks like "true love" to me. It's the kind that you can't be together in this life time but the kind you never forget each other.
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How to keep a friends with benefit's relationship going strong? Your opinions?
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respect
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08/23/2009 10:01 PM
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Re: Friends with benefits?
I see that on craigslist alot...not sure what it means...in the adult section
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I had a FWB for over 2 years. You keep them by giving them the best sex ever.