This is exactly what I have tried to explain to my ex-wife...who is trapped in her own negetive reality...some people are like a black hole...once they get to a certain point they can't see thier way out of it...very very sad...and there is NOTHING you can do for them at that point...you can only hope and pray they come across a realization themselves....[snip] Quoting: Anonymous Coward 730821
Science has shown this to be true...in the nature of subatomic particles...when a partilce is observed the wavefo
rm collapses into singularity of an event of observation...
There are a couple of ways to think about this.
You can think that she exists outside of your perspective, or you can think she exists within your perspective.
I would extend the latter to include the idea that your perspective is wholly your own. You cannot see beyond your own perception and, thus, what you perceive is as much You are your arm. However, your true essence cannot be perceived. These are all just representations of something else.
The wave collapses because it is not necessary at the time. And vice versa.
It would be like you called for a taxi from two different companies, Wave Cabs and Taxi Party. One showed up first, and the other became redundant.
However, both companies are owned by the same entity. (Waves and particles are essentially the same, in a sense. So the taxi that arrives first is more based on your location, or perspective.)