Hi.

I do not know what they should be. And what is relevant really depends on you.

But what would probably make a thoughts or actions more relative to an expanded perspective is if it was not dependent specifically on itself.

For example, the thought of "I am a marine biologist" is dependent on your thoughts about marine biology and your relation to it.

If you did not consider yourself a marine biologist then, most likely, you would not say or think such a thing.

(Of course. But that's the idea.)

When your perspective is more expanded then you care less about being "a marine biologist". It is only important to you when you import the concept into your experience. i.e., when you explore the life of a marine biologist.

Ask yourself what representations matter to you most in your life? What do you consider yourself? What do you think about? What labels do you find yourself thinking about.

And then you will see that the representations (which are illusions of something else) influence your experience and limit your perspective.

(It's a matter of how much your perspective interacts with other things. Your perspective will always be limited somehow.)

So in order to expand your perspective through thinking, get rid of your thoughts, rely on them less, and make them interact with what no longer matters to you.

Become what you do not care to become. (As you care about what is most relative to you, which actually binds you to the current perspective.)