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My son is a total pothead loser slacker, what should I do?

 
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Hang in there, they tell me every thing we instill in them comes back to us. I am hoping for this to. My son is 17 and not travelling a sucessful path as well. It is fear that allows me to let him puff in our home and I hate it. I am moving sep 30th and finally said. Either your done and get it together. Letting go is the hardest thing I have ever done. Leavin me ex was a breeze compared to this. I love him too much to watch. I've tried everything. His father has supported 100% I know this, as long as we allow it around us we are giving permission with out saying it. I have made this huge mistake. We are not perfect, If we were.. we would have perfect children. It's not his job that defines the man it is the man him self. I told my son you have been arguing and hating me for so long you forgot about the love we have for another. Try this....if he loves you and respects you he will not disrespect you in your home. He is not a little boy anymore. Let him go! When he needs your help he will come back to you. Maybe only then he will listen. The other pot heads out here that know it all have no idea what you are going thru. The love for our children is unconditional. We want them to be successfull. If they smoke pot and were honor students, respectiful and motivated to do something it would not bother us so much. Pot is not for everyone!!!! It's the addict that denies and says we are crazy. Remember you are not.
Mom in Hamilton ,Ontario Canada....YOUR NOT CRAZY!
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KEEP YOUR DISAPPOINTING SPAWN TO YOURSELF!
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07/15/2011 10:13 PM
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Stop being such a douche for one.

Maybe you should smoke with your son, and then you can understand why it's such a hit (pun intended).

I can't stand fathers like you.
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Don't listen to this dumbass
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My son:
20 years old
Pizza delivery/pizza cook job, he makes 8/hr
Everquest(crack) addiction
Continues to smoke weed
Refuses to join military
Attends Community College has 1 (ONE) class (they were "all full"..)
wrecked every car he's driven (including 2 of mine & my wife's)
No savings (even though he pays no room and board)
All he wants to do is BMX bike at the skate park and play everquest.
Multiple run ins with 5.0 over riding BIKE in SKATE park..
also posession of 420 charges
He WAS an Olympic class/candidate swimmer (multiple national reportable times, some USA records in 15-18 boys class)
He started out high school with a 3.9 GPA as a freshman and had real possibility of scholarship in Ivy league or Academy school -threw that away of course.


Me:
Totally squared away (NEVER used drugs- ever.)
Left home at 18 joined Army
Served 5 years Panama, El Salvador)as non-com
BS University of California (I paid for it myself)
6 figures in bank, home will be paid for in 5 more years
Working same job for 16 years NEVER MIssed a DAY not one.


WTF would YOU do?
 Quoting: 18E 802891

Our society has become overun by slacker sons. Many factors are involved. I thought I was the only one going through this until I talked with other fathers where I work.
Here is a book that gives some insight to the EPIDEMIC, but, no panacea. [link to www.boysadrift.com]
While this is an epidemic, it is a reflection of our school system and society as a whole.
Here is a link to a great chronological record of what has happened to our "educational system".
[link to www.deliberatedumbingdown.com]
you can buy the book or DL the .PDF. Either one is eye opening and though provoking and asks the question why are we <10 in almost ALL education categories in the WORLD?
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07/15/2011 10:33 PM
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"Refuses to join military"

Personally I consider $8/hour doing pizza a much better choice
than the military at this point. There are multiple wars going
on, anyone who joins is likely going to be in combat.
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07/15/2011 10:38 PM
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clappa Magnificent troll, well done sir, well done.
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"Refuses to join military"

Personally I consider $8/hour doing pizza a much better choice
than the military at this point. There are multiple wars going
on, anyone who joins is likely going to be in combat.
 Quoting: Mercurius 1375863


Plus if you deliver to rich areas of town, they give pretty good tips. And you can eat free pizzas all the time and get fat without paying for it.
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10/05/2011 09:56 PM
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This thread is amazing. Father and son sound like total fucking failures. Basically represent why this country is going to hell- right wing military nut jobs and lazy liberal potheads who produce nothing...anyone else have any thoughts? This thread is PURE gold.
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10/05/2011 09:56 PM
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KEEP YOUR DISAPPOINTING SPAWN TO YOURSELF!
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lol
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10/05/2011 10:04 PM

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Dad,
I'm 20 years old. I have a job. Do you know how many don't have jobs? I have one. Does that mean anything? It doesn't pay what you think I should make, but I perform an important service, cooking for others, delivering their food.

It gives me money to do what I want. Do you know what I want, Dad? Do you care what I want?

I don't want to join the military. I think it's wrong to kill people because someone tells me to.

So I smoke a little, snort a little. I want to enjoy life and not think about all the problems, the wrongs, the injustice, the hypocrisy.

Sure I've been busted for drugs. I don't think the laws are fair, necessary, or even legal. Should I set out to change that? Would that embarrass a military man?

Do you see what the world is like? How long will it go on? Wouldn't you like to enjoy it while it lasts?

I don't save. Why should I give the bank my money, knowing they may steal it like they've stolen everything else they can get their hands on.

I took a class for you, Dad. Did you know it was for you? I don't want to go to college, don't want to join the military, don't want to have 6 figures in the bank. But I took the class. It was saying, I love you, in a way I can't verbalize.

I don't know yet what I want, but know clearly what I don't want. I'm 20 Dad. Only 20. Maybe some day I'll be as wise as you. Maybe I'll even make some of the choices you made, but until then, help me find myself.

I'm sorry about your cars. You know I'm sorry. I'm sorry you feel the way you do. But know this, Dad. I love you. And would love nothing more than having the love returned.
Love,
Your Son
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Grow up you spoiled little fuck. You want to do drugs? Please don't change your behavior on account of me. Find yourself a place to do them 24/7 whenever the desire strikes you because you won't be doing that shit in MY HOUSE. Once you find out that the rent, food, insurance, cable, water, sewer, vehicles, gas and tax money doesn't grow on the tree in the backyard, you'll think twice about buying that dime bag. Get your priorities in order and stop being a leech.

Love Dad
Ban guns to "save the children" but killing them in the womb is totally cool......I see; it makes perfect sense now.
Xisuthros Rex

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10/05/2011 10:18 PM
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Grow up you spoiled little fuck. You want to do drugs? Please don't change your behavior on account of me. Find yourself a place to do them 24/7 whenever the desire strikes you because you won't be doing that shit in MY HOUSE. Once you find out that the rent, food, insurance, cable, water, sewer, vehicles, gas and tax money doesn't grow on the tree in the backyard, you'll think twice about buying that dime bag. Get your priorities in order and stop being a leech.

Love Dad
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Dear dad,

Thanks for the advice. But I found out that dime bags can grow on trees that can grow for acres in third world countries and I now manage my accounts from my private jet.

Love Son.




Yeah right, who ever heard of pot heads managing accounts!..yeahsure
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Grow up you spoiled little fuck. You want to do drugs? Please don't change your behavior on account of me. Find yourself a place to do them 24/7 whenever the desire strikes you because you won't be doing that shit in MY HOUSE. Once you find out that the rent, food, insurance, cable, water, sewer, vehicles, gas and tax money doesn't grow on the tree in the backyard, you'll think twice about buying that dime bag. Get your priorities in order and stop being a leech.

Love Dad
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Dear dad,

Thanks for the advice. But I found out that dime bags can grow on trees that can grow for acres in third world countries and I now manage my accounts from my private jet.

Love Son.




Yeah right, who ever heard of pot heads managing accounts!..yeahsure
 Quoting: Xisuthros Rex


I'll help you pack. Which 3rd world country should I forward all your shit to?

Love Always
Dad
Ban guns to "save the children" but killing them in the womb is totally cool......I see; it makes perfect sense now.
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Grow up you spoiled little fuck. You want to do drugs? Please don't change your behavior on account of me. Find yourself a place to do them 24/7 whenever the desire strikes you because you won't be doing that shit in MY HOUSE. Once you find out that the rent, food, insurance, cable, water, sewer, vehicles, gas and tax money doesn't grow on the tree in the backyard, you'll think twice about buying that dime bag. Get your priorities in order and stop being a leech.

Love Dad
 Quoting: Hawgzilla

Dear dad,

Thanks for the advice. But I found out that dime bags can grow on trees that can grow for acres in third world countries and I now manage my accounts from my private jet.

Love Son.




Yeah right, who ever heard of pot heads managing accounts!..yeahsure
 Quoting: Xisuthros Rex


I'll help you pack. Which 3rd world country should I forward all your shit to?

Love Always
Dad
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Bah, burn it all, I can always buy more. But I'm leaving the Thailand suite in a couple weeks for the bungalow in Burma, you can reach me on the jet most times.

Have fun at the office Dad!
This is my day, there are many like it...but this one is mine.
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10/05/2011 10:37 PM
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My son:
20 years old
Pizza delivery/pizza cook job, he makes 8/hr
Everquest(crack) addiction
Continues to smoke weed
Refuses to join military
Attends Community College has 1 (ONE) class (they were "all full"..)
wrecked every car he's driven (including 2 of mine & my wife's)
No savings (even though he pays no room and board)
All he wants to do is BMX bike at the skate park and play everquest.
Multiple run ins with 5.0 over riding BIKE in SKATE park..
also posession of 420 charges
He WAS an Olympic class/candidate swimmer (multiple national reportable times, some USA records in 15-18 boys class)
He started out high school with a 3.9 GPA as a freshman and had real possibility of scholarship in Ivy league or Academy school -threw that away of course.


Me:
Totally squared away (NEVER used drugs- ever.)
Left home at 18 joined Army
Served 5 years Panama, El Salvador)as non-com
BS University of California (I paid for it myself)
6 figures in bank, home will be paid for in 5 more years
Working same job for 16 years NEVER MIssed a DAY not one.


WTF would YOU do?
 Quoting: 18E 802891


18E,

Don't waste your time, how they are now is how they turn out later. Look at all of these slackers on this thread.

I Moved out at 15
Got G.E.D.
Army Career - 6 Combat tours
Built a Chain of Restaurants, sold them Moved to Florida
Own several Publicly Traded Companies
Own 2 Gold Mines and a Ghost Town, Getting ready to IPO

These slackers will just bash guys like you and I all day.

I am 45 years old, been all the way around the World East & West / North and South


Good Luck to You.

Thanks For Your Service, although You and I probably served in the same theaters of Operation.

Now watch the slackers bash my post

Hoo-Ah!!!

Warehouse full of T-shirts - "Been There Done that"

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"Refuses to join military"

Personally I consider $8/hour doing pizza a much better choice
than the military at this point. There are multiple wars going
on, anyone who joins is likely going to be in combat.
 Quoting: Mercurius 1375863


Hey Beta,


COWARD much?

I Got 6 combat tours, maybe You should try it.

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C'yall L8ter, I'm Outta Here!!!!!!!!!
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My son:
20 years old
Pizza delivery/pizza cook job, he makes 8/hr
Everquest(crack) addiction
Continues to smoke weed
Refuses to join military
Attends Community College has 1 (ONE) class (they were "all full"..)
wrecked every car he's driven (including 2 of mine & my wife's)
No savings (even though he pays no room and board)
All he wants to do is BMX bike at the skate park and play everquest.
Multiple run ins with 5.0 over riding BIKE in SKATE park..
also posession of 420 charges
He WAS an Olympic class/candidate swimmer (multiple national reportable times, some USA records in 15-18 boys class)
He started out high school with a 3.9 GPA as a freshman and had real possibility of scholarship in Ivy league or Academy school -threw that away of course.


Me:
Totally squared away (NEVER used drugs- ever.)
Left home at 18 joined Army
Served 5 years Panama, El Salvador)as non-com
BS University of California (I paid for it myself)
6 figures in bank, home will be paid for in 5 more years
Working same job for 16 years NEVER MIssed a DAY not one.


WTF would YOU do?
 Quoting: 18E 802891


smash his bong over his head several times while telling him to go get a life and get a girlfriend with her own place that can cook and clean as he cant do it himself..

its the only thing i can see missing in your post.

i would assume he wouldnt get into the military, drug tests and all.

to be honest he is also probably dwelling on the fact he is on a shit wage with no savings and could probably have done better if he went to college. its never too late to learn either.. might not be ivy league but im sure he could get somewhere.
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kill yourself.
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For starters, charge him rent. 25% of what he earns.
Seymour Brenner's, MD, FACR, opinion regarding Dr. Emanuel Revici: "As a Diplomate of Radiology, I have reviewed many cases of incurable cancer that Revici has cured."
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Don't worry, it happens in the best of families. Just be patient.
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Mom is that you, why you gotta be postin on my internet sites.
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dad?
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Explain to your son that you love him, and because of that you are going to have to incrementally turn the screws on his freeloading.

Give him several options such as, stop smoking dope, a minimum college workload or training at some trade. Give him milestones to pass, which if failed result in increased rent payment requirements or possible loss of housing.

You will have to back up your threats. As for the BMX biking, well that's just cool. Tell him you'll support it if he can find a way to make money doing it. Either via competition or selling/building equipment etc.
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he sounds imature and 20 today is like 15. it might be good for him to help people like help a senior with some chores and expect nothing for it. good luck
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Since doom and revolution is just around the corner for all of us, Just love him!

Tell him you love him no matter what!

End.

My son:
20 years old
Pizza delivery/pizza cook job, he makes 8/hr
Everquest(crack) addiction
Continues to smoke weed
Refuses to join military
Attends Community College has 1 (ONE) class (they were "all full"..)
wrecked every car he's driven (including 2 of mine & my wife's)
No savings (even though he pays no room and board)
All he wants to do is BMX bike at the skate park and play everquest.
Multiple run ins with 5.0 over riding BIKE in SKATE park..
also posession of 420 charges
He WAS an Olympic class/candidate swimmer (multiple national reportable times, some USA records in 15-18 boys class)
He started out high school with a 3.9 GPA as a freshman and had real possibility of scholarship in Ivy league or Academy school -threw that away of course.


Me:
Totally squared away (NEVER used drugs- ever.)
Left home at 18 joined Army
Served 5 years Panama, El Salvador)as non-com
BS University of California (I paid for it myself)
6 figures in bank, home will be paid for in 5 more years
Working same job for 16 years NEVER MIssed a DAY not one.


WTF would YOU do?
 Quoting: 18E 802891

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My analysis:

You don't even KNOW your son.
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I remeber like it was yesterday taking him to school on my bike and watching him run into the classroom with his power rangers back pack.
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Your post made me tear up. I got a little baby girl I try to spend as much time with as I can. I already think about her just a little while ago.

Sorry that doesn't help you.

If it's any help, I was a totally wild and rambunctious atheist till I was 19. Even after coming to believe in God in an inpatient rehab, it took me until I was 22 before I could finally overcome my addictions. I've been clean by the grace of God for 7.5 years now and my life is totally different. I totally believe in the healing power of Christ.
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Is your son still playing evercrack? At 20? What a fag...OP, please post some pictures of him! By the way, he's not a loser simply by virtue of smoking weed, the whole package is what makes him a fuck...even at least if he was bagging some snatch in the process he'd have one redeeming quality but that seems unlikely...I'd recommend you just embarrass the shit out of him, maybe he'll reconsider his lifestyle choices. The hardass approach clearly isn't getting through to this 8 year old in a 20 year olds body...
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I remeber like it was yesterday taking him to school on my bike and watching him run into the classroom with his power rangers back pack.
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Your post made me tear up. I got a little baby girl I try to spend as much time with as I can. I already think about her just a little while ago.

Sorry that doesn't help you.

If it's any help, I was a totally wild and rambunctious atheist till I was 19. Even after coming to believe in God in an inpatient rehab, it took me until I was 22 before I could finally overcome my addictions. I've been clean by the grace of God for 7.5 years now and my life is totally different. I totally believe in the healing power of Christ.
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I just realized after posting that this had been gravedug from the bottom levels of the Abyss. His kid is like 22-23 now lol.

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