the kids only 20 not like hes 35 and the fact hes in any college classes and has any job in this economy is somthing you should be proud of not to mention the fact that nowadays joining the army means that you will probably be sent away somewhere to overthrow a government to propogate the nwo's global takeover with a side mission of laying the groundwork for oil to be hi jacked... so i just dont think its the same as 1960 somthin when you were in on top of that if the kid likes video games well i guess its better than a real "crack" addiction so maybe burn one with the kid and lighten the fuck up.