Ha! An old abusive boyfriend wants to be my "friend" on facebook

:ffsman:

have his babys

I can tell by how you wrote your message that you still lust for his manly ways

right?

no

Yes.

Tell him about your new millionare boyfriend who is a CEO of a multimillion dollar corporation and drives a 2009 corvette. Find pictures on the internet of 5000$ jewelry, and send it to him.

What a loser that guy is, i hope you send him a message that makes him feel like the pathetic loser he really is.

no. Just disgusted with myself. I thank God that I did not get pregnant with this creature. I am now happily married, thank you very much.

If you feel like it, otherwise no. Hey, you might be surprised. Lots of people are pretty screwed up at 16. Sounds like you were too, but in a different way. You've grown, maybe he has too.

On the other hand he could be the same exact person he was then, only with a pot belly and rotten teeth. Sometimes in life ya just gotta follow your instincts. Do what you feel is best.

Tell him to fuck off and die.

Unless you want to be miserable again, don't contact him. I see old girlfriends on Facebook who did me wrong, I have no desire to contact them.

I'm 30 now. I changed alot. I'm alot healthier. I see his picture...he looks exactly the same. STONED!

Exactly. She still has the hots for him and probably still has that STD.

No, probably not. She probably feels good that the guy is still a loser and she herself has grown into a mature adult, and wants to share that with us.

Yeah, what's up with people having their ex's on their facebook?

there's no such thing as a facebook friend, it's an oxymoron

whew! I thought she was talking about me for a sec!

Then I'd say don't bother. Unless you just want to tell him off, but then why bother? You've outgrown him. Just leave him in the dust. Sounds like you already have...

Thanks. I'm starting to dislike facebook though. There's no other purpose except voyerism. You add a friend you haven't seen in 15 years, and you still don't communicate. Just look at pictures.

Welcome to the austistic age.

Oh well, scratch that Facebook request. Think I'll console myself with a hit of my crack pipe....

lol. shouldn't have given her the clap

heh he sent her a 'poke'

ignore it

Seriously, don't people like you have any fucking common sense?

IGNORE. please.

Ignore. You are married now anyway and its really not appropriate to have ex lovers on your facebook especially if they were pieces of shit.

what would be the point? By adding him, you are sending the message that he wasn't that bad to you, hence, not abusive.

You really want him to know that he's a piece of shit, ignore him. Abusive men HATE that. Did he even send a message like, "Im glad I found you, I want to apologize for what I did long ago, I sucked?" or does he just arrogantly think that you will just add him?

take yourself off fakebook and you wont have this problem

Everybody on Facebook is an idiot.

yeah. u don't care about him, yet u started a thread about him.

Blame him for all your own poor choices. Abusive according to you.

And it's been a whole year and you're still not over it?