doctors continue to warn against transfers of fluids.. people continue to ignore it. americans are more sickly than ever before in history.. vague aches stiffness vague fevers.. vague intestinal trouble.. sadly throat cancers are traced back to partners who had STDS . hepititus strep throats gum deases etc are traced back to enocent partners many times who appeared well . if you cannot handle some minor temp incision pain to secure your finanancial future from long term support issues, then what do you plan to do for neccessary surgury in a serious illness ? .. Everyone is responsible now to guard thier own future finances permanently . you are no exception. 2 or days of surgery discomfort,, verses 2 plus decades of huge family support funds .. we make our futures ..