starting a family is a high financial risk for males and females divorce issues are the root cause of later poverty issues for mom. . ask any evicted poor divorced moms. court order support issues seriously finacially impact males also til the child is grown . yet couples still go on and breed as if they will be together for life. then huge family expences wreck the peace and they argue over the expenses and huge work loads and then they divorce . stop swamping your relationships or marriages with work loads and expences that wreck your marriages .. simple cure .