My husband has a roving eye, should I be pissed?

That's really rude of him. It makes you look like a clown.
Ditch him.

I have been married a long time and I take great care of my appearance. I am slim, have a great shape, and always like to look good for myself and my man. My issue is this, whenever we are out in public together my husband has a roving eye. He is always checking out other women to the point where its obnoxious. His head will swing around and he will stare blatently. I find this extremely disrespectful! I certainly don't act this way in public. I understand that men like to check out pretty women, but for God's sake be discreet! I've called him out on this behavior before, but he always reverts back to the same practice. It makes me feel very unappreciated and disrespected and I'm losing my patience with it. It's gotten so bad that I dread going anywhere in public with him. Any advice?

I have been married a long time and I take great care of my appearance. I am slim, have a great shape, and always like to look good for myself and my man. My issue is this, whenever we are out in public together my husband has a roving eye. He is always checking out other women to the point where its obnoxious. His head will swing around and he will stare blatently. I find this extremely disrespectful! I certainly don't act this way in public. I understand that men like to check out pretty women, but for God's sake be discreet! I've called him out on this behavior before, but he always reverts back to the same practice. It makes me feel very unappreciated and disrespected and I'm losing my patience with it. It's gotten so bad that I dread going anywhere in public with him. Any advice?

for God's sake be discreet!

Translation - Lie to me...

Men look, Women get looked at..

We all have our little problems that others have to deal with.. If he ain't cheating then why worry?


Or you could smack him everytime he does and eventually he'll associate looking with pain and maybe he'll stop.

I have been married a long time and I take great care of my appearance. I am slim, have a great shape, and always like to look good for myself and my man. My issue is this, whenever we are out in public together my husband has a roving eye. He is always checking out other women to the point where its obnoxious. His head will swing around and he will stare blatently. I find this extremely disrespectful! I certainly don't act this way in public. I understand that men like to check out pretty women, but for God's sake be discreet! I've called him out on this behavior before, but he always reverts back to the same practice. It makes me feel very unappreciated and disrespected and I'm losing my patience with it. It's gotten so bad that I dread going anywhere in public with him. Any advice?

men are visual, it is simple genetics they are bred to look

jesus fuck get off his case

there is NO upside to giving him a hard time, but you can get GREAT advantage by telling him it's fine, and it is fine get over it

I have been married a long time and I take great care of my appearance. I am slim, have a great shape, and always like to look good for myself and my man. My issue is this, whenever we are out in public together my husband has a roving eye. He is always checking out other women to the point where its obnoxious. His head will swing around and he will stare blatently. I find this extremely disrespectful! I certainly don't act this way in public. I understand that men like to check out pretty women, but for God's sake be discreet! I've called him out on this behavior before, but he always reverts back to the same practice. It makes me feel very unappreciated and disrespected and I'm losing my patience with it. It's gotten so bad that I dread going anywhere in public with him. Any advice?

for God's sake be discreet!

Translation - Lie to me...

Men look, Women get looked at..

We all have our little problems that others have to deal with.. If he ain't cheating then why worry?


Or you could smack him everytime he does and eventually he'll associate looking with pain and maybe he'll stop.


if he's looking as much as the OP says then if you ask me he would cheat given the chance.
If you are with a woman and are constantly staring at other women it is complete disrespect for the woman you are with.

I have been married a long time and I take great care of my appearance. I am slim, have a great shape, and always like to look good for myself and my man. My issue is this, whenever we are out in public together my husband has a roving eye. He is always checking out other women to the point where its obnoxious. His head will swing around and he will stare blatently. I find this extremely disrespectful! I certainly don't act this way in public. I understand that men like to check out pretty women, but for God's sake be discreet! I've called him out on this behavior before, but he always reverts back to the same practice. It makes me feel very unappreciated and disrespected and I'm losing my patience with it. It's gotten so bad that I dread going anywhere in public with him. Any advice?

for God's sake be discreet!

Translation - Lie to me...

Men look, Women get looked at..

We all have our little problems that others have to deal with.. If he ain't cheating then why worry?


Or you could smack him everytime he does and eventually he'll associate looking with pain and maybe he'll stop.


if he's looking as much as the OP says then if you ask me he would cheat given the chance.
If you are with a woman and are constantly staring at other women it is complete disrespect for the woman you are with.

It could be Tourettes, hell I don't know, but saying that looking leads to cheating is a stretch..

People exaggerate things that bother them to make them seem worse than they really are too.. It helps garner sympathy..

How about this then, everytime she catches him doing it, she kisses him on the mouth, if he's doing it that often then there should be a lot more smooching and kisses are great for relationships.

men are visual, it is simple genetics they are bred to look

jesus fuck get off his case

there is NO upside to giving him a hard time, but you can get GREAT advantage by telling him it's fine, and it is fine get over it

I'm a man and when I am with a woman I really try to tone it down when looking at hot women out of respect for the one I'm with.

Leave him dry every night and in the mornings, make his balls hurt, he will not have the energy to do the eye act anymore

If you are with someone and constantly staring at other women in the presence of the one you're with:
1. You have little respect for their feelings
2. Looking for someone else
3. You're basically an asshole.