Not at all, I filter my perception via observation. I can only control me, I can't control you. Why on earth would I want to? I have no wish to dominate or submit to anyone, including you. What I see when I read your posts as someone who's rushed, hurried, emotional and not very articulate, quick to anger, quick to ascribe motivations to others that aren't there, lacking in communication skills and careless with words and meanings of words. That's MY personal perception. It has nothing to do with what you are, it's simply how I see you subjectively. Your opinion of me lacks the emotional attachment to influence me into your communication script. But I am using you to practice my zen in the face of a combative aggressive bully who wants to attack me personally rather than give a rational reason for all their bluster. I see you as not cool or calm because you attempt to push others to your viewpoint by using the tactics of a bully. Whether that's objective truth or not doesn't matter, it's simply MY perception based on the information available to me at this moment.